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butterfly22
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Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
I am POed because he is calling me and I don't want my man to get angry over it. (not at me, but he is ready to kill him). So I am at the point that if he wants to upset my relationship, then I will do the same....besides if I was her, I'd want to know!
Thoughts???
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KaRiSsA
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
Who is the guy calling you and why?
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| Posted 10/10/05 1:57 PM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
If it was a friend, yes, I would tell her because I wouldn't want it to come out that he was calling me and I never said anything. It would make it look like I was into it.
If it was a girl I didn't no, then no, I wouldn't go out of my to tell her.
BUT....I think you should be telling this guy to stop calling you!
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| Posted 10/10/05 1:57 PM |
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Janice
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
I would tell my husband, not the girl. I would not want anything to do with that couple until she leaves him. No man should be cheating and calling a married woman, only leads to trouble. My DH would be mad I did not tell him, and something like this sounds like eventually everyone will find out.
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| Posted 10/10/05 1:59 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
Posted by BabyAvocado
If it was a friend, yes, I would tell her because I wouldn't want it to come out that he was calling me and I never said anything. It would make it look like I was into it.
If it was a girl I didn't no, then no, I wouldn't go out of my to tell her.
BUT....I think you should be telling this guy to stop calling you!
I agree. I would do the same thing.
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| Posted 10/10/05 1:59 PM |
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butterfly22
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
it's an ex from last year, who I dated a VERY short time. 
He feels the need to (probably drunk dial at 3:30am) I have said don't call. this last time I just hung up when I heard his voice so my man doesn't go through the roof.
I occasionally see him in local bars, so I figured I'd go up to him, with whomever around and tell him point blank YOU NEED TO STOP!!!!
edit: I don't have his number and his comes up "unavailable" when he calls
Message edited 10/10/2005 2:01:20 PM.
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| Posted 10/10/05 2:00 PM |
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butterfly22
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
Posted by Janice
I would tell my husband, not the girl. I would not want anything to do with that couple until she leaves him. No man should be cheating and calling a married woman, only leads to trouble. My DH would be mad I did not tell him, and something like this sounds like eventually everyone will find out.
not married.....but only reason I don't want to tell boyfriend is, we were just saying how it has been months since he called...."and it's good cause I was about to go to the local bar and give him a beating."
I don't want my boyfriend fighting, he is nso farabove him and he is not worth that trouble!
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| Posted 10/10/05 2:03 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
I don't want my boyfriend fighting, he is nso farabove him and he is not worth that trouble!
well fighting is not the key, I think key issue is "trust" I would not want my BF thinking I was talking to someguy behind his back. IMO
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| Posted 10/10/05 2:05 PM |
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butterfly22
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
no my BF knows I would NEVER with this or any guy. We have such an open relationship!!! And I don't think he would ever start a fight at this point in life. But he is really mad that his guy don't not respect our lives!!!!
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| Posted 10/10/05 2:10 PM |
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Shopaholic921
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
Are you friends with the girl?
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| Posted 10/10/05 2:13 PM |
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butterfly22
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
no, it's the my ex's current girlfriend/FIANCE!
I feel like, I'd want someone to tell me if they knew my BF was calling another girl.
So I feel like I should 1. Make it clear to him & 2. Do it in front of her if given the option.
I want to wash my hands of it!
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| Posted 10/10/05 2:16 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
Posted by butterfly22
no, it's the my ex's current girlfriend/FIANCE!
I feel like, I'd want someone to tell me if they knew my BF was calling another girl.
So I feel like I should 1. Make it clear to him & 2. Do it in front of her if given the option.
I want to wash my hands of it!
I guess I would just put myself in her shoes. But I think over all it's a tough call.
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| Posted 10/10/05 2:18 PM |
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Shopaholic921
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
Posted by butterfly22
no, it's the my ex's current girlfriend/FIANCE!
I feel like, I'd want someone to tell me if they knew my BF was calling another girl.
So I feel like I should 1. Make it clear to him & 2. Do it in front of her if given the option.
I want to wash my hands of it!
My guess.. she wouldn't believe you and acuse you of being jealous that she is with your ex. I say say something to him, then have his number blocked from your phone. If he doesn't get the hint there's always a restraining order..lol
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| Posted 10/10/05 2:27 PM |
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butterfly22
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
I absolutely love my BF to death!!!! So if she does not choose to believe me,,,then that's her call.
I dont' have a number on him at all. (he has a different one since we began dating.) And cell phones you can't block "unavailable" calls
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| Posted 10/10/05 3:01 PM |
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Shopaholic921
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
I never answer restricted or annonymous calls for this reason alone. if someone wants to call me they can unblock their number. What is he calling you for?
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| Posted 10/10/05 3:03 PM |
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butterfly22
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
Posted by Shopaholic921
I never answer restricted or annonymous calls for this reason alone. if someone wants to call me they can unblock their number. What is he calling you for?
Don't know what he wants.....I hear his voice and hang up immediately.
And yes, now I will be shutting off and not even picking it up.
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| Posted 10/10/05 3:12 PM |
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Shopaholic921
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
Posted by butterfly22
Don't know what he wants.....I hear his voice and hang up immediately.
And yes, now I will be shutting off and not even picking it up.
so annoying! well good luck and hopefully he will get the hint sooner rather than later..
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| Posted 10/10/05 3:14 PM |
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babyhopes
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
I would let him know what the deal is the next time I saw him...and I would also tell him that if he doesn't cut the crap you will start harassing HIS FI and tell her how he calls you!
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| Posted 10/10/05 3:16 PM |
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butterfly22
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Re: Would you tell a girl (friend or not) if her man was calling other girls.....
thank you for the input...I am going to leave it at I don't pick it up....family at that hour would have a number or leave a message.
next time I see him, make it clear once and for all!!!!!
what is wrong with people!!!!
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| Posted 10/10/05 3:19 PM |
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