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It's killing me keeping this a secret....UPDATE

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november12003
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It's killing me keeping this a secret....UPDATE

My parents are coming to take us to dinner tonight for my birthday (nice day huh) and we're not telling them yet. They're going to Vegas with a group of friends this weekend, and I just don't want all the friends knowing before the rest of the family does. So we're waiting until I go to the dr. on the 26th, when I'll be about 8 weeks. But the waiting is killing me....I want to tell EVERYONE!!! Chat Icon

Message edited 10/13/2005 8:46:16 AM.

Posted 10/12/05 4:43 PM
 
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Kate
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Kate

Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....

It is so hard not to tell. We told our parents right away; I wouldn't have been able to hold it in. Happy Birthday! Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/05 4:47 PM
 

AnnBrunoXO
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MaMMa

Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....

I know what you mean!! That waiting period is especially the worst!!

Hope these days fly by fast for you and you can spread your good news soon!Chat Icon
congrats!

Posted 10/12/05 4:48 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....

You have more will power than I did. I told everyone right away. I couldn't wait.

Posted 10/12/05 5:11 PM
 

Ali
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Allison

Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....

We told our parents really quickly. Good luck holding out!

Posted 10/12/05 6:02 PM
 

Jenziba
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Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....

Good Luck...I know it's a hard thing to do...but, I'd also rather the rest of my family know before everyone else.

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Posted 10/12/05 6:04 PM
 

Dee
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Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....

my doctors appointment is on the 25.. DH wants to wait to tell his parents until after that, i of course told my mother... i can't keep anything from her... the wait is killing me also. I want to tell the world!!!

Posted 10/12/05 6:12 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....

It's not easy - it's this secret that is just bursting to get out.

When I was 12 weeks, my twin & I went to lunch. She said "Are you pregnant?" I said "Oh god, I've gained so much weight, is that why you asked?" She said "No, no, I just had this feeling you were."

The NEXT day we told our family as planned. She said "I ASKED YOU! WHY DIDN"T YOU TELL ME!" I said "We were waiting to tell everyone together - I didn't want to blow it."

But it was tough....Good lucK!Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/05 10:10 PM
 

november12003
Love my boys...

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Jenn

Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....

Well, we couldn't hold it in. I got a message from the dr yesterday, who officially confirmed the pregnancy. We talked on the way to dinner and decided we were going to tell my parents and swear them to secrecy. My sister came too, and when we walked in the restaurant they were waiting at the bar, and she handed me a DRINK!!!!! I was like, in a minute, I'm soaked. I carried the drink to the table with me, then once we sat down I told them....what a relief.

I'm so excited though!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/05 8:45 AM
 

Bran-loves-Tom
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Brandy

Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....UPDATE

I told right away!!! Couldn't help it!!! You have the will power!!! Happy Birthday Chat Icon !!!

Posted 10/13/05 9:06 AM
 

dld4e
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DJ

Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....UPDATE

We told my in laws right away but told them to keep it quiet until we made sure everything was good. We finally started telling friends this week at 14 weeks, so I totally understand how you feel.
Good luck keeping quiet Chat Icon

ETA: I just read what you wrote, I am sure you feel so much better now Chat Icon

Message edited 10/13/2005 9:19:23 AM.

Posted 10/13/05 9:17 AM
 

Marcie
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Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....UPDATE

Woooohoooo!!! Don't you feel so much better?

We told our parents too - we swore them to secrecy - it felt so much better after telling someone - it was killing us.

Posted 10/13/05 9:18 AM
 

Stefanie

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Stefanie

Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....UPDATE

Good for you! Now you can have more support and celebrate together!!Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/05 9:28 AM
 

ChristineR
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Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....UPDATE

That's got to be so hard to know and wait... I'm glad you finally told them and I'm sure you feel better. Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/05 9:45 AM
 

MrsBumbleb
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Christine

Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....UPDATE

I know that feeling. We waited until after the first trimester. What made it tougher were peoples comments on why we probably weren't pregnant!Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/05 1:50 PM
 

Briannasmommy
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Re: It's killing me keeping this a secret....UPDATE

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Posted 10/13/05 3:14 PM
 
 

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