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meganNbobby
Our Family is Complete
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Megan
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Husband Vent
i am so up set right now......
we've been trying to pay off our bills alot lately and we paid our taxes last week and I'm the one who pays the bills and worrys about them.... and what does he do takes $160 out of the ATM to go to the city for lunch got to the car show then to little italy for dinner!!!!
i am fuming.... that was our money to go food shopping, gas etc i make a sandwhich everyday for work and he gets to the city for lunch and dinner!!!!!!!!!!1
i dont even want him to come home it's gonna be a big fight!!
and i told and asked him this morning if spaghetti and meatballs were okay for dinner..... so i made awhole pot tomato suace and meatballs and now i have to eat it by myself
Message edited 4/21/2006 8:11:00 PM.
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JenniferEver
The Disney Lady
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Re: Husband Vent
I'm sorry. What a tough situation. It sounds like you need to sit down with DH and tell him it's not going to work (as in your budget, your bills, your goals, your marriage), unless he takes some responsibility.
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| Posted 4/21/06 8:15 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Tania
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Re: Husband Vent
I'm so sorry, I would be upset as well.
just calm down and when he gets home, talk to him and emphazise how you feel.
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| Posted 4/21/06 8:23 PM |
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05mommy09
Family of 5!
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<3 Mommy <3
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Re: Husband Vent
Dh does stuff like this- not intentionally but since I do the bills... he really does know whats in there, and what I plan on using it for... so I really cant say anything...
My solution to this... I always tell him we are broke 
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| Posted 4/21/06 8:35 PM |
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MelToddJulia
Love my Family!
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Mel
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Re: Husband Vent
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| Posted 4/21/06 8:37 PM |
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lvdolphins
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| Posted 4/21/06 9:50 PM |
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monkeybride
My Everything
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Re: Husband Vent
I would be fuming mad. This is why DH and I keep a separate bill account and then a "play" money account.
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| Posted 4/21/06 10:06 PM |
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hazeleyes33
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Ginger
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Re: Husband Vent
My dh will do the same thing except now he does it and makes money off of ebay on the things he bought so it does go back in.
I am the type to "freak" over this right away because I also do the bills. It is soooo much better if you can sit down calmly with him and explain the bills. My dh has gotten MUCH better over the years. I have been married almost 13 years so I know what you are going through!!
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| Posted 4/22/06 10:41 AM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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Re: Husband Vent
I'm so sorry. JT has no clue about our bills. Not how much they are. Not when they're due. No knowledge of how much is in our bank account. While he doesn't usually spend frivolously, it still annoys me that no matter how hard I try to include him in the monetary aspect of our relationship, he just has no interest. I don't mind being the one who pays all the bills, but I do mind being the only one who worries about them.
I would be really upset if I were you, too. I wish I had some advice. When JT DOES spend useless money, he knows he better work a shitload of overtime to make up for it.
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| Posted 4/22/06 10:50 AM |
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kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son
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Kelly
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Re: Husband Vent
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