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Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

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dm24angel
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Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

well....Af showed last night obviously and I had already had today scheduled for an RE appnt.

So we "talked"...I told her I didnt understand. The timing was perfect, within a few hours of ovulating. The Semen sample was almost the best yet and 3 perfect follies...and yet nothing...

She doesnt know, is as perplexed as I am why we arent "Getting it".

I spoke to her about the weight gain and she said its a side effect of the injectables...Thank god Im not just a fat azz....LOL....

Well I told her we were gonna take a 4-6 month break, to decide what to do and she asked me not to.

She did a sono and saw a lot of good looking resting follies and feels that one more injectable cycle might work. She said the decision is ours, but she had hoped to give it one more go, shes determined to get us PG. We went over all my records, tests etc and talked some more.

She said she is friends with the IVF grant coordinator and is going to pressure her on the status of it and see if we can get to the top of the list based on past cycles, IVF might have a much higher success rate for us right now at this moment. It would probably only cost us about $7K out of pocket and thats about all we can afford.

SO.....I gave in. I didnt have the energy to even debate it, think it over. I just said...Well since this is the only thing I want in my life right now...lets keep going. What if ya know? What if this is it.

So ...so much for a break. I start injectables tommorow night. We are gonna stay at the same dose but for a few extra days. And Hopefully get on the top of that IVF list .

So...I have a little bit of a "possibility" out there....

I also looked into the SIRM intra vaginal culture IVF study( new IVF procedure , they cover the cost of the IVF if you participate) ...and "may" go for a consult if this cycle fails. I would need to take FMLA from work to do that though based on appnts so Im hoping I dont get to that point.

SO....another 2ww will begin in less then 14 days Chat Icon

Message edited 6/8/2006 10:12:22 PM.

Posted 6/8/06 9:07 PM
 
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rose825
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Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

It is so nice to hear how Dr. Chu really cares about you. I will keep my fingers crossed for you. I know how hard this is, but I am glad you had an appt today. I always find that getting hope for the future takes a little sting out of the BFN.


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Posted 6/8/06 9:25 PM
 

karacg
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Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

Donna I hope this is the one cycle that was truly meant to be.... good luck!!

I was going to tell you about SIRM's grant but I guess you know about it...

Posted 6/8/06 10:11 PM
 

DebG
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Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

Wishing you the very best of luck this cycle Donna. I know how very fustrating it can be when you have everything timed perfectly and yet things still don't work out.
I hope this is the month that works for you!
I'm in your corner pulling for you!Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/06 5:06 AM
 

Red
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helen

Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

I wish you the best of luck - I've met Dr Chu and she is really personable. SHe seems committed to help you.Chat Icon

ETA - she is doing my transfer on Sunday

Posted 6/9/06 7:26 AM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

It would have been really nice if we could have had at least one graduate. I am so sorry DonnaChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/06 7:27 AM
 

Donna
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Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

I wish you the best of luck and hope this is your cycle!!

have you also looked into the INCIID scholarship?inciid from the heart program

Good luck Donna!

Posted 6/9/06 9:23 AM
 

MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

If this doesnt work Donna (which I really hope it does) we should start a collection $$ for IVF for youChat Icon

Posted 6/9/06 9:46 AM
 

dm24angel
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Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

Posted by Donna

I wish you the best of luck and hope this is your cycle!!

have you also looked into the INCIID scholarship?inciid from the heart program

Good luck Donna!



I have looked into it, thanks! Im checkign everything out I can that we might qualify for. My insurance covers all sonos, bloodwor, and All meds...so its just the actual IVF if it coems to it that we need to pay for..which of course is the most $$$.

Thanks everyone!

Posted 6/11/06 5:27 PM
 

michele31
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Posted 6/11/06 9:13 PM
 

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Posted 6/11/06 9:25 PM
 

juju
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Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

So sorry Donna!

It is nice to know that your doctor sincerely cares about you!

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Posted 6/12/06 9:59 AM
 

CkGm
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Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

OH Donna- I really thought this past month was your month- I give you so much credit for all of your courage and determination- don't give up- it sounds like your doc is wonderful and will do everything to get you thereChat Icon


Message edited 6/12/2006 5:47:51 PM.

Posted 6/12/06 5:46 PM
 

dm24angel
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Donna

Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

Posted by CkGm

OH Donna- I really thought this was your month- I give you so much credit for all of your courage and determination- don't give up- it sounds like your doc is wonderful and will do everything to get you thereChat Icon



Thanks!! Im thinking about trying to break the world record for most IUIS at this point Chat Icon Sorry..had to stick some humor in there.

Thanks everyone for your prayers. they are so appreciated! Chat Icon

Posted 6/12/06 5:48 PM
 

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Re: Another update on Me ( long , sorry)

Donna...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I admire your strength...don't give up...I continue to pray for you and your DH and hope that one day very soon you will be blessed. I'm sure it must be extremely hard and frustrating and on top of all you've been through with Noelle and everything...so, we're here for you whenever you need us.

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Posted 6/12/06 6:45 PM
 

DebG
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Posted 6/13/06 2:25 AM
 
 

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