ugh

so my neices bday was Feb 16 and they were having a family gtg at my MIL's house on the 18th so I call her on the 16th and left a message for her to call me so she can tell me what she wants for a gift......no one calls me so on the morning of the 18th I call and speak to BIL and he apologizes for not calling back but they all hada virus and they are so sick
So I say oh ok so we are postponing the party?? and he says NO we are still going to have it because Mom (MIL) already is into it and getting ready etc
so I try to convince him to cancel because I have 2 kids and my SIL has 4 kids and my other BIL has a 6 mth old....but he wont cancel

so I tell DH they are sick so when other BIL calls he tells him they are all sick so my VBIL calls MIL and gives her an attitude for not telling anyone they are all sick and he isnt bringing his baby there.

so MIL calls DH and says if we arent comfortable going there then just DONT COME

Long story short we go and now IREGRET IT BECAUSE I AM SICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: ugh