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Feeling Needy?

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LadyMaravilla
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Feeling Needy?

Do you ever feel needy for your spouse. For exmaple there are times I feel I need more from my relationship w/ my DH. More time together, more love, more understanding, compassion. I don't know, it's silly feeling I think. Am I the only one or does anyone else share this sentiment?

Posted 4/13/06 11:33 AM
 
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MikesWife
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Re: Feeling Needy?

I definitely go through "moods." Some weeks I want to be with him non stop and other weeks, I just wanna watch tv by myself or go shopping by myself.

Posted 4/13/06 11:35 AM
 

elyssa222
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Re: Feeling Needy?

If Im not mistaken you guys just moved.

We also live away from home and feel like I needed my DH more during that time than I would normally. Especially during the holidays knowing it is just the 2 of us celebrating instead of our big family get togethers.

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Posted 4/13/06 11:36 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Feeling Needy?

Posted by elyssa222

If Im not mistaken you guys just moved.

We also live away from home and feel like I needed my DH more during that time than I would normally. Especially during the holidays knowing it is just the 2 of us celebrating instead of our big family get togethers.

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Yeah we did, I guess it's normal for me to feel like I need more from him. Attention wise...I feel like such an idiot but I just feel I need more of him right now. I hate the feeling though. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/06 11:37 AM
 

Tany
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Re: Feeling Needy?

Posted by LadyLainez

Posted by elyssa222

If Im not mistaken you guys just moved.

We also live away from home and feel like I needed my DH more during that time than I would normally. Especially during the holidays knowing it is just the 2 of us celebrating instead of our big family get togethers.

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Yeah we did, I guess it's normal for me to feel like I need more from him. Attention wise...I feel like such an idiot but I just feel I need more of him right now. I hate the feeling though. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Sonia, you are entitled to feel like this, there is nothing wrong with that.

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Posted 4/13/06 11:42 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Feeling Needy?

Sonia, you are entitled to feel like this, there is nothing wrong with that.

Talk to him.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


it's so strange because it's not like we're fighting or anything..I just feel like I want more from him. I think the last time I felt like this was when I was preggers....Ok I'm not preggers but it's just such a strange feeling. I don't like it.

Message edited 4/13/2006 11:44:37 AM.

Posted 4/13/06 11:44 AM
 

Shelly
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Re: Feeling Needy?

I think its totally normal. There are times when I need DH more than usual. It usually has more to do with where I am emotionally. There are times when he needs more support for me too. Again, it is usually things are changing outside the relationship. That's just part of marriage.

Posted 4/13/06 11:46 AM
 

SoinLove
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Kristin

Re: Feeling Needy?

Definitely. I always crave more time together. Because of his work schedule, I only see him for a couple of hours every day (except his days off)

Posted 4/13/06 11:55 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

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Sonia

Re: Feeling Needy?

Ok, thanks the reassurance. I thought I was losing it. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/06 12:06 PM
 

Tany
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Re: Feeling Needy?

Posted by LadyLainez

Ok, thanks the reassurance. I thought I was losing it. Chat Icon Chat Icon



You? never.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/06 12:08 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Feeling Needy?

Posted by Aliasmom

Posted by LadyLainez

Ok, thanks the reassurance. I thought I was losing it. Chat Icon Chat Icon



You? never.Chat Icon Chat Icon



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Posted 4/13/06 12:08 PM
 

kathleeng

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Kathleen

Re: Feeling Needy?

I totally know how you feel.
I think it can be true in every relationship.

Posted 4/13/06 12:36 PM
 

nov04libride
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Me

Re: Feeling Needy?

There are times in the year when I go to school for a few weeks straight (no days off) and I always really need DH there when I am stressed. I get angry when he isn't there. lol.

Posted 4/13/06 12:38 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

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Sonia

Re: Feeling Needy?

Posted by nov04libride

There are times in the year when I go to school for a few weeks straight (no days off) and I always really need DH there when I am stressed. I get angry when he isn't there. lol.



Chat Icon Chat Icon I know, I almost feel angry that he's not there for me even though he is, it's like it's not good enough. I need HELP! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/06 12:54 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Missy

Re: Feeling Needy?

always...we always joke that i am "clingy" on certain days...

it just comes at certain times...esp after a bad day or if im sad or scared

Posted 4/13/06 1:23 PM
 

Sandra
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Sandra

Re: Feeling Needy?

Posted by MikesWife

I definitely go through "moods." Some weeks I want to be with him non stop and other weeks, I just wanna watch tv by myself or go shopping by myself.



I feel like this as well. Right now, I am wanting to be by myself. I have even seen the way I am acting----haven't called him ---and so on...next week I'll flip the coin and be needy.

Posted 4/13/06 1:36 PM
 

MrsMaz
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Re: Feeling Needy?

All the time

Posted 4/13/06 3:02 PM
 

Shanti
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Re: Feeling Needy?

Definitely

Posted 4/13/06 4:17 PM
 

Redhead
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Jennifer

Re: Feeling Needy?

Posted by LadyLainez

Do you ever feel needy for your spouse. For exmaple there are times I feel I need more from my relationship w/ my DH. More time together, more love, more understanding, compassion. I don't know, it's silly feeling I think. Am I the only one or does anyone else share this sentiment?



YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and then sometime i just NEED space..

i am always going back and forth

Posted 4/13/06 4:19 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Sonia

Re: Feeling Needy?


YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and then sometime i just NEED space..

i am always going back and forth


I can't wait till I get back to the space side!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/06 4:22 PM
 
 

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