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Blu-ize
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Needy post

I found out through one of my co-workers that a certain big boss was leaving his position/the firm.

I asked my boss about the rumor and she was devastated that it had gotten out. She felt really bad and is telling the head of the department about the rumor.

I had to name names and I feel really bad and I hope she doesn't divulge her sources. I wasn't the only person that told her this. I don't want to give up the trust of my co-worker.

My boss said that she wouldn't tell where she got the info and I'm nervous. She is really upset that the rumor got out and I feel terrible and told her I should have kept my mouth shut.

She was glad to know though since she can try to operate in crisis control mode.

I don't know what to do if anything. I feel terrible for betraying a trust, but I thought she should know.

I think I did the right thing..

I still feel terrible.

Posted 7/14/06 2:16 PM
 
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Doing the right thing is not easy!

Posted 7/14/06 2:17 PM
 

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Re: Needy post

Posted by Blu-ize

I found out through one of my co-workers that a certain big boss was leaving his position/the firm.

I asked my boss about the rumor and she was devastated that it had gotten out. She felt really bad and is telling the head of the department about the rumor.

I had to name names and I feel really bad and I hope she doesn't divulge her sources. I wasn't the only person that told her this. I don't want to give up the trust of my co-worker.

My boss said that she wouldn't tell where she got the info and I'm nervous. She is really upset that the rumor got out and I feel terrible and told her I should have kept my mouth shut.

She was glad to know though since she can try to operate in crisis control mode.

I don't know what to do if anything. I feel terrible for betraying a trust, but I thought she should know.

I think I did the right thing..

I still feel terrible.



I wouldn't have opened my mouth directly I would have left it ....

Posted 7/14/06 2:18 PM
 

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Posted 7/14/06 2:19 PM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: Needy post

My other boss heard the rumor from someone else and he named names too..so I felt safe..but now seeing her reaction made me feel like it was a mistake.

Posted 7/14/06 2:21 PM
 

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At the end of the day it is the person, whom is most likely higher up, who opened their mouth in the first place. I have found this out the hard way myself by telling things to a few people in confidence. If you don't want something to get out then don't talk. I don't think it is your fault at all. Chat Icon

Posted 7/14/06 2:25 PM
 

Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

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Susan

Re: Needy post

Posted by Stacey1403

At the end of the day it is the person, whom is most likely higher up, who opened their mouth in the first place. I have found this out the hard way myself by telling things to a few people in confidence. If you don't want something to get out then don't talk. I don't think it is your fault at all. Chat Icon



Thanks...most likely my boss' boss probably heard this already from somewhere else..

My nature is to be really paranoid.

I just hope it all blows over.

Posted 7/14/06 2:27 PM
 

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Re: Needy post

Posted by Blu-ize

My other boss heard the rumor from someone else and he named names too..so I felt safe..but now seeing her reaction made me feel like it was a mistake.




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Message edited 7/14/2006 2:30:41 PM.

Posted 7/14/06 2:30 PM
 

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Chat Icon what's the big deal if it got out? I mean it's not like he was having an affair or anything controversial. He resigned, big whoop!

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Posted 7/14/06 3:22 PM
 

Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

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Susan

Re: Needy post

my co-worker doesn't know I said anything..but by the time my boss talks to her boss I bet it will be all over the place.

Posted 7/14/06 3:28 PM
 

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Posted 7/14/06 3:37 PM
 
 

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