another MIL issue

Ok so I have been one of the few people with MIL issues that still says...lets take the MIL to the sono appts with my mom so they can see the babys growth. So, we've been conflicting for about a month now and she writes me an absurd letter telling me she feels she has to "earn" going to the baby sono appts. Can someone kill me! Some people dont take their MILs at all and I am getting backlashed for taking mine.

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Luckily my MIL never asked to come and I never invited her

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aww i never take any of my mothers to my sono if i had to take my mil i think it would ruin it for me cause shes a pain lol

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I think its time you pulled out the...only 2 people in a room story...

So, you say, Dearest MIL, the hospital policy is now changed to only (insert amount here) people in the sono room. So sorry Dearest.

I hate letters like that, why couldn't she just say it to you!

Mother in laws...they just aren't *your* mother!!!

I have one who you could say...Would you like some Arsenic for dinner? and she would say...Oh yes, lovely!

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Cut her off right now. No more sonos for her and I'd tell her that she can come see you in the hospital AFTER the baby is born, because she is probably expecting to be in the room for delivery.