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CAJ
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Stay or Go?
What would you do if you just found out your spouse of ten years had previously undergone a sex change operation?
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Posted 1/18/06 10:54 PM  |
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Shorty
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Re: Stay or Go?
WOW what a question.
I would GO, because if he couldn't tell me in TEN YEARS, then our relationship would have absolutely no trust, and would not be worth saving.
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| Posted 1/18/06 10:55 PM |
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CAJ
woulda, coulda, shoulda
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Re: Stay or Go?
Just for the record this is a question to think about not based on true life....  well at least my own....
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| Posted 1/18/06 10:57 PM |
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Luvlylady
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Re: Stay or Go?
Very Odd question!!!!!!!
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| Posted 1/18/06 10:59 PM |
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nancygrace
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Re: Stay or Go?
i want to know who would stay and why????
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| Posted 1/18/06 11:00 PM |
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Luvlylady
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Re: Stay or Go?
Posted by CAJ
What would you do if you just found out your spouse of ten years had previously undergone a sex change operation?
Previously meaning before they met??????
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| Posted 1/18/06 11:01 PM |
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HarleyGirlFLA
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Re: Stay or Go?
Were you watching discovery health????
Their was actually an episode on discovery health where a couple was married for many years and had children. The husband never felt complete and had undergone a sex change. They divorced.
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| Posted 1/18/06 11:02 PM |
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CAJ
woulda, coulda, shoulda
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Re: Stay or Go?
Posted by Luvlylady
Posted by CAJ
What would you do if you just found out your spouse of ten years had previously undergone a sex change operation?
Previously meaning before they met??????
Yes I guess so...because if it was after I am sure the spouse would have known about it...
Message edited 1/18/2006 11:06:36 PM.
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CAJ
woulda, coulda, shoulda
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Re: Stay or Go?
Yes I saw that but the question came from that game what would you do?
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| Posted 1/18/06 11:04 PM |
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Luvlylady
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Re: Stay or Go?
Posted by CAJ
Posted by Luvlylady
Posted by CAJ
What would you do if you just found out your spouse of ten years had previously undergone a sex change operation?
Previously meaning before they met??????
Yes I guess so...because if it was after I am sure the spouse would have know about it...
Well something I guess would trigger this comming out!
Also this would not be a completly honest person!!!!!
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| Posted 1/18/06 11:06 PM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: Stay or Go?
If my Husband under went surgery to change his sex i would go because i married a man not a woman!
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| Posted 1/18/06 11:06 PM |
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Moehick
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Re: Stay or Go?
Wow if he could keep something like that from me for 10 years then there is no hope for trust in that marriage!
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| Posted 1/19/06 6:38 AM |
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Redhead
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Re: Stay or Go?
Go...
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| Posted 1/19/06 6:39 AM |
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Diane
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Re: Stay or Go?
go....
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| Posted 1/19/06 7:18 AM |
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dm24angel
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Re: Stay or Go?
If he hadnt told me , GO!!!
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| Posted 1/19/06 7:47 AM |
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GenLCSW
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Re: Stay or Go?
I would go....
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| Posted 1/19/06 8:44 AM |
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CookiePuss
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Re: Stay or Go?
Posted by nancygrace
i want to know who would stay and why????
I think I would stay. Yes, something like that should have been shared with me before hand but this is still the person I fell in love with and built a 10 year marriage with. I also think that with people that change their sex, they are becoming who they always thought they should be.
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| Posted 1/19/06 9:03 AM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Stay or Go?
I voted stay by accident. But I can understand why someone would stay...I mean if everything else was going great in the marriage and I had no inkling that he used to be a woman, I guess there's a possibility. It wouldn't change whether or not I loved him.
But...I don't know how long staying would last for those who would stay because things would never be the same...especially in the bedroom.
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| Posted 1/19/06 9:07 AM |
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Janice
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Re: Stay or Go?
I am not honestly sure what I would do, but I am leaning towards stay. I have no issues in my marriage now, I really love him and it must have been killing him to keep it a secret. I would imagine that if someone does undergo the change that their life has been plagued with fear of rejection. I could not reject the one that I love so much for something that happened years ago. I would be upset by the secret, but in reality, I can understand why a person would keep that a secret.
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| Posted 1/19/06 9:24 AM |
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dandr10199
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Re: Stay or Go?
Posted by Shorty
WOW what a question.
I would GO, because if he couldn't tell me in TEN YEARS, then our relationship would have absolutely no trust, and would not be worth saving.
I agree
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| Posted 1/19/06 9:42 AM |
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LI2VA
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Re: Stay or Go?
I wouldn't just go... I would RUN!
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| Posted 1/19/06 10:37 AM |
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MommyofG
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Re: Stay or Go?
Posted by mrsv1015
I wouldn't just go... I would RUN!
Same here!!!!
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