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Sometimes I wish I could smack people.

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BaroqueMama
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Sometimes I wish I could smack people.

Ok, let me first say that I LOVE my family to death. I'm very close with them, however, sometimes they need a good azz-kicking. My aunt told me two weeks ago that NEXT Saturday, whatever the date is, she's having a party for my cousin who just graduated mid-year. Ok, fine. I tell her I'll be there. My mom just calls me and says, "Your aunt wants to know if you're going to Nicole's party." GRR! I ALREADY TOLD HER YES! Ok, fine. So my mom says, "OK, then I'll see you later." So I immediately thought, "Later? When later?" So I asked my mom what she meant, and she said, "At you aunt's house, hello!?" So I told my mom, she said NEXT Saturday. So my mom proceeds to tell me, "Oh, no, she changed her mind during the week, it's today instead."
Well, was anyone going to f-ing tell me? I have so much to freaking do todayChat IconChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
But saying no is never an option with my family because I'll hear about it until next freaking year. They really freaking annoy me sometimes. Whatever your plans are do not matter because the family is supposed to come firstChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ARGH!

Posted 3/5/06 10:29 AM
 
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Posted 3/5/06 11:54 AM
 

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Posted 3/5/06 12:00 PM
 

Mrs-Boop
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Re: Sometimes I wish I could smack people.

Maybe its your shower??

Posted 3/5/06 12:06 PM
 

PupettaBella
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Posted 3/5/06 12:08 PM
 

Jax430
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Re: Sometimes I wish I could smack people.

How frustrating! I'd be livid, but probably end up doing the same thing you're doing and going. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/5/06 12:08 PM
 

Moehick
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Posted 3/5/06 12:10 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Sometimes I wish I could smack people.

Posted by Mrs-Boop

Maybe its your shower??



Cute thought, but considering I haven't registered and I haven't even given my mom the list for my shower yet, I doubt itChat Icon This is a typical thing for them, unfortunately.Chat Icon

Posted 3/5/06 12:10 PM
 

mrsmck
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Re: Sometimes I wish I could smack people.

I would call my aunt and say sorry you can't make it because you thought the party was the following week, and that you already had plans scheduled for today. Ask why she didn't call to tell you of the change of date.

Maybe offer to take your cousin to a special lunch soon, just the 2 of you to make up for it.

Good luck!

Posted 3/5/06 2:14 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Sometimes I wish I could smack people.

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Posted by Mrs-Boop

Maybe its your shower??



Cute thought, but considering I haven't registered and I haven't even given my mom the list for my shower yet, I doubt itChat Icon This is a typical thing for them, unfortunately.Chat Icon



Same thought crossed my mind..your shower!Chat Icon

Posted 3/5/06 2:53 PM
 

nferrandi
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Re: Sometimes I wish I could smack people.

If you really can't do it today, then just don't go. Tell her that you planned on the party being next week, and unfortunately you already have plans for this weekend.

Posted 3/5/06 2:55 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Sometimes I wish I could smack people.

Posted by nferrandi

If you really can't do it today, then just don't go. Tell her that you planned on the party being next week, and unfortunately you already have plans for this weekend.



I vote with you! Even if those plans are to sit on your tush, LIF all day and grow the baby.

I also thought your shower but WASN"T GOING TO POST IT in case it hadn't occurred to you so I didn't ruin the surprise.
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Posted 3/5/06 3:31 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Sometimes I wish I could smack people.

Well, I went because I called my aunt to tell her I didn't know it was this week and that she should have called me and I got completely chewed out, so to avoid the drama, I went. And, as I already knew, it was NOT my shower. It was exactly what I knew it would be....my family, sitting around, being loud and obnoxious. Love em for it, but today I was just so annoyed. The only good thing was that I didn't need to make dinner tonight, and I brought home food for JT. However, now my house is still a mess, I have no food for the week because I didn't go food shopping, and I'm too tired to go do any of that now. Chat Icon Stupid family!Chat Icon

Posted 3/5/06 6:40 PM
 

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Posted 3/5/06 6:46 PM
 
 

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