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Need ur love & support.. My never-ending fiasco Decision towards bottom...
I have been really over stressed about a ton of things going on in my life right now and I just need some emotional support... There's a whole book of things that I need some prayers and well wishes on.. and soon I will elaborate, but the fiasco today is apartment hunting..
Our lease is up Oct. 31st, and although we have been house hunting the vision of homeownership is a little further than we thought.. I am on my way now to check out some prospect apartments.. and I am so overly emotional-(preggo-hormones!)- it is not making all of these transitions easy....
I just really need some well wishes for some light at the end of this huge tunnel! TIA
Message edited 10/1/2005 12:47:26 PM.
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Re: Need ur love & support.. Maybe a couple of prayers..My never-ending fiasco
Ohh  I am someone who cannot deal with apartment hunting. I find it very stressfull, take everything personally and freak out at teh drop of a hat (and that is before I was preggers).
3 years ago, when DH and I decided to move intogether, we started looking in Manhattan. After seeing the first apartment, I cried so much, DH had to take me to my favorite restaurant. I thought we would never find something in our budget and what they wanted for $1700 was such crap- teh kitchen had no counters!!!
Well, after a month of hunting, we found a great apartment, which we still live in. We have been so happy here the last few years. We are subletting it until April to stay with my mom and save some $$ before the baby comes, but we will be coming back here.
It all works out! Its hard to see it in the beginning, but I promise- it all does!!
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MsMa
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Re: Need ur love & support.. Maybe a couple of prayers..My never-ending fiasco
Sorry that you are going through so much right now. The only thing I have to offer is my ears & my shoulder (eyes) & .
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NewYawkah
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iffer042373
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Re: Need ur love & support.. Maybe a couple of prayers..My never-ending fiasco
I know apartment and house hunting are pain in the butts I know what its like. What area are you looking at how many bedrooms? what is the price range I will try to look for things for you and e-mail what I I find or FM you what I find just FM m e the info.
Jenn
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lvdolphins
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Re: Need ur love & support.. Maybe a couple of prayers..My never-ending fiasco
Stay Positive! Everything will work out!
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| Posted 9/30/05 4:09 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: Need ur love & support.. Maybe a couple of prayers..My never-ending fiasco
I hope it all works out for you
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Crismicka
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dm24angel
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Re: Need ur love & support.. Maybe a couple of prayers..My never-ending fiasco
GOOD luck...I know its rough, my prayers for finding a good place are with you...
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dooodles
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Re: Need ur love & support.. Maybe a couple of prayers..My never-ending fiasco
Good luck apartment hunting
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| Posted 10/1/05 7:44 AM |
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Re: Need ur love & support.. Maybe a couple of prayers..My never-ending fiasco
Thanks for all the offes of helping to house/ apt. hunt for me, but last Nov, DH and I moved to Florida for a bit of "financial freedom" and yes, things have been MUCH easier, but everything seems to be piling up at the same time...
Things w. DH and I have been kinda rocky lately.. and the stress of a new baby and everything else was really boiling down on me.. I have been so stressed about this stuff, and DH is the exact opposite.. he is a procrastinator and waits for the last minute for EVERYTHING--
Our lease is up the end of this month.. and DH was insistant on us finding a new apt.. one bigger and everything else.. After searching for HOURS last night, and about seven different appointments I broke down and told my DH that we were not going to move.. we will extend our lease for 7 more months here.. Even tho new management brings it MUCH higher than what we are paying now... I cannot pack and move an apartment, with DH in College, and a two and a half year old that unpacks everything I pack, and my very uncomfortable pregnancy... I would need to be committed!!
.. So yesterday we saw what else was out there.. and even tho there were ones that were nicer than our apt.. I made DH agree to stay!!!  So for hte first time in months hes actually listened and responded to something I have said... Hey its a step, right??
thanks girls for the love and support.. I really needed it last night!!
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NewYawkah
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Re: Need ur love & support.. My never-ending fiasco Decision towards bottom...
I am glad that you guys were able to come to an undertstanding!
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| Posted 10/1/05 2:04 PM |
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dooodles
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Re: Need ur love & support.. My never-ending fiasco Decision towards bottom...
I'm glad you're staying for a few more months. Hopefully that will help your stress levels some
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| Posted 10/1/05 3:47 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: Need ur love & support.. My never-ending fiasco Decision towards bottom...
Glad to hear all is working out.
What part of FL are you in? (if you dont mind me asking?)
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