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Ali
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OBGYN Recommendations

I live in Commack and am trying to decide whether I should go with Huntington Hospital or Stonybrook. Which one do you ladies think is better? And do you have any recommendations for OBGYNs that are affiliated with either of these hospitals? Many thanks!

Posted 6/16/05 11:00 AM
 
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Claud
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

I don't know anything about Huntington hospital, so I will not say anything for or against it.

I am scheduled to deliver my second at Stony Brook, and I'm using the midwives that are part of the University Associates practice. They have a group of regular OB's and also high risk OB's in the same facility in East Setauket. You might want to consider them.

One of my reasons for choosing Stony Brook is for the Level 3 NICU. I just wanted to be on the safe side...god forbid the baby needs special care, I didn't want to end up in a different hospital than the baby! It might be overly cautious to think that way, but that's just me I guess.Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/05 11:35 AM
 

dm24angel
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

I would rely more on the DR . If you have a GOOD Dr, then the hospital really in my opinion is that THAT important.
I say this because I had a HORRIBLE experience with STony Brook, BUT it was the Dr's I saw there more then the rest of the staff that caused my problems. I had prob's with the NICU as well.

BUT I have a friend who delivered a pre-term baby at Stony Brook and she recieved the best quality care.

Posted 6/16/05 12:33 PM
 

Claud
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

Posted by dm24angel

I would rely more on the DR . If you have a GOOD Dr, then the hospital really in my opinion is that THAT important.
I say this because I had a HORRIBLE experience with STony Brook, BUT it was the Dr's I saw there more then the rest of the staff that caused my problems. I had prob's with the NICU as well.

BUT I have a friend who delivered a pre-term baby at Stony Brook and she recieved the best quality care.



I'm sorry to hear you had a bad experience. What was so horrible about your experience at Stony Brook? For personal reasons, if you feel more comfortable replying by FM, that is fine!Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/05 12:40 PM
 

Ali
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Allison

Re: OBGYN Recommendations

Posted by dm24angel

I would rely more on the DR . If you have a GOOD Dr, then the hospital really in my opinion is that THAT important.
I say this because I had a HORRIBLE experience with STony Brook, BUT it was the Dr's I saw there more then the rest of the staff that caused my problems. I had prob's with the NICU as well.

BUT I have a friend who delivered a pre-term baby at Stony Brook and she recieved the best quality care.



I'm so sorry that you had such a bad experience at Stony Brook. Thanks for your advice. My biggest problem is that I don't have a doctor and I'm new to the area so I don't really know anyone I can ask for recommendations. I think you're probably right that the doctor is the most important.

Posted 6/16/05 12:44 PM
 

CookiePuss
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

Posted by Claud

I don't know anything about Huntington hospital, so I will not say anything for or against it.

I am scheduled to deliver my second at Stony Brook, and I'm using the midwives that are part of the University Associates practice. They have a group of regular OB's and also high risk OB's in the same facility in East Setauket. You might want to consider them.

One of my reasons for choosing Stony Brook is for the Level 3 NICU. I just wanted to be on the safe side...god forbid the baby needs special care, I didn't want to end up in a different hospital than the baby! It might be overly cautious to think that way, but that's just me I guess.Chat Icon



I use the same practice and would definately recommend my Dr. Fm for name if you are interested.

Posted 6/16/05 12:55 PM
 

dm24angel
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

I just want to clarify that I used when PG the dr's at Stoneybrook OBGYN located within the Hospital and a satellite location in Setauket.

I have heard great things about them but not my own experience.

I did not like the SB OBGYN Emergency room.

I had a high risk PG and visited the Labor and Delivery ER about 15 times.

I had a nurse ask me once " you cant possibly be here again" ..with a snicker??? ( I was 3 cm's dialtated at 21 weeks , that was my reason)

I was misdiagnosed two times...

I had an infected IV that fell OUT of my arm and the night nurse called my Dr. and said " she pulled her IV out" because I guess she was afraid to get in trouble for ignoring the fact it was infected?

Since its a teaching hospital during a stay I had 18 people come in to watch the dr. examine me, and when he asked how I was I said kinda $hitty...OBVIOUSLY..Im in a hospital BED...The Dr. said ...well maybe a more positive attitude would have prevented this???????

I had a L&B aide who came to get me in a wheelchair after delivery and loss of my daughter tell me not to eat my tray of food because it looked like my MOTHER was tired and needed it more? AND that I was young and it was probably foolish to have gotten PG in the first place Chat Icon )

side note- I actually attempted to punch that aide( hormones? ) and had a meeting with the hospital director to discuss the issues I had with the hospital. I also investigated sueing them for issues I had.

It was a nightmare.

I do NOT want to scare anyone. This was 7 years ago and major improvements have been made, but I still believe SB has a long way to come as far as patient care goes.

THIS IS JUST my opinion again, and I dont doubt there are some great dr's/staff and experiences at SB, but I will tell my story anyway because I cant reccomend them as a hospital.

Posted 6/16/05 1:19 PM
 

Claud
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

Donna, I'm very sorry for the gross mistreatment you received. It is awful, and there are no excuses for it. Chat Icon Chat Icon

However, I don't think Stony Brook is alone in these issues. Any hospital can find themselves with staff members that are insensitive assholes.Chat Icon It is unfortunate that you had to experience so many of them at once.

Also, WRT to it being a teaching facility...as a patient, you absolutely have every right to REFUSE to have students involved in your care. I'm not sure if you are (or were) aware of that at the time of your experience. You have rights as a patient in ANY facility!

So far, I've had nothing but good experiences there...both with my chosen caregivers (midwives) and the hospital staff, since I did have go to L&D for 4 hours of monitoring b/c of spotting and some mild contractions.

Hopefully, my birth experience will be a wonderful one. But I'm afraid there are just no guarantees, no matter which hospital I choose. I have faith in the midwives and hopefully they will help see me through.Chat Icon

Posted 6/16/05 7:35 PM
 

btrflygrl
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

I really liked Dr Birnbaum in Smithtown, but he's affiliated with St Catherine's.

I was a patient at STony Brook for gallbladder surgery and it was terrible, but it wasn't great either. I went in on a friday, took forever to get out on SAt.

Posted 6/16/05 8:03 PM
 

lorimarie
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

I go to Contemporary Women's Care in the medical building right next to St. Catherines. All 3 doctors are phenomenal - they were so fabulous with my first pregnancy and continue to be that way with my second.

I delivered at St. Catherines and had no problems - I actually had a good experience there. The nurses were fabulous and very attentive.

Posted 6/16/05 9:26 PM
 

CarrieAnn
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

I use Dr.Scanlon who is associated with Huntington Hospital.

He is part of the North Shore Medical Group located on New York Ave (just behind the hospital). There are 3 other women in the practice as well.

I was seen by all 4 Drs and all 4 were excellent (I was in the office every other day the last few weeks and was sent to the hospital 3 times).

Dr. Scanlon was actually in Africa when my baby was born (I ended up going in early), so a different Dr. performed the delivery.

I had a great experience at Huntington, plus you get a lobster/steak dinner before you go home :)

Message edited 6/16/2005 9:34:50 PM.

Posted 6/16/05 9:33 PM
 

lele4me
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Lisa

Re: OBGYN Recommendations

I live in commack too...I delivered my first last Sept. and had a great exp. at Huntington Hospital. My obgyn group is WGM in e. northport and they also have a second office in Huntington.
I am about 6 weeks pregnant with my second and will definately go back to Huntington!

Posted 6/17/05 2:30 PM
 

colesmom
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

I had a great experience with Huntington Hospital (not such a great experience with my labor, but that was ME, not the hospital). I can't say emough about my doctors. I use Kramer, Greenstein and Gronau. Dr. Gronau is a young female, and I highly recommend her. I had a very unusual complicated pregnancy, and she was right on top of everything. In fact, 2 of my L&D nurses said that they used my group also, which says a lot. We just moved out to Port Jeff, but if I do this again, I will deliver in huntington despite the trip.

Posted 6/17/05 2:35 PM
 

Claud
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Claudine

Re: OBGYN Recommendations

Posted by btrflygrl

I really liked Dr Birnbaum in Smithtown, but he's affiliated with St Catherine's.



How long were you in this doctor's care? Did you ever have a pregnancy or delivered a baby with Birnbaum?

My son's teacher has told me some AWFUL things about this doctor...I would not recommend him to my worst enemy, based on what I was told. He was so bad that this woman's husband even HATED the man! Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/05 2:56 PM
 

sam
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S

Re: OBGYN Recommendations

Posted by colesmom

I had a great experience with Huntington Hospital (not such a great experience with my labor, but that was ME, not the hospital). I can't say emough about my doctors. I use Kramer, Greenstein and Gronau. Dr. Gronau is a young female, and I highly recommend her. I had a very unusual complicated pregnancy, and she was right on top of everything. In fact, 2 of my L&D nurses said that they used my group also, which says a lot. We just moved out to Port Jeff, but if I do this again, I will deliver in huntington despite the trip.



I also use this group, although Greenstein is my favorite. We also moved- to Lake Grove and continue to make the trip to Huntington.

Posted 6/17/05 4:30 PM
 

waytogo
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a

Re: OBGYN Recommendations

I'm sorry you had such a tough time at SB. I think things might be much better nowadays.

I was one of those students at one time and spent more time with my patients than anyone else ever could. Sometimes it is better to have a student help take care of you. They typically only have 1-3 patients as opposed to the 10-20 some docs have at once. So you can use them to your advantage to vent and have your concerns addressed.

I ran around trying to help with anything patients needed if it was possible. Everyone I spoke to appreciated it. And people in my family ask to have students because of this.

It sounds like you just had an unfortunate string of insensitive ppl. I would have slapped someone too. I hope next time is MUCH better!



Posted by dm24angel

I just want to clarify that I used when PG the dr's at Stoneybrook OBGYN located within the Hospital and a satellite location in Setauket.

I have heard great things about them but not my own experience.

I did not like the SB OBGYN Emergency room.

I had a high risk PG and visited the Labor and Delivery ER about 15 times.

I had a nurse ask me once " you cant possibly be here again" ..with a snicker??? ( I was 3 cm's dialtated at 21 weeks , that was my reason)

I was misdiagnosed two times...

I had an infected IV that fell OUT of my arm and the night nurse called my Dr. and said " she pulled her IV out" because I guess she was afraid to get in trouble for ignoring the fact it was infected?

Since its a teaching hospital during a stay I had 18 people come in to watch the dr. examine me, and when he asked how I was I said kinda $hitty...OBVIOUSLY..Im in a hospital BED...The Dr. said ...well maybe a more positive attitude would have prevented this???????

I had a L&B aide who came to get me in a wheelchair after delivery and loss of my daughter tell me not to eat my tray of food because it looked like my MOTHER was tired and needed it more? AND that I was young and it was probably foolish to have gotten PG in the first place Chat Icon )

side note- I actually attempted to punch that aide( hormones? ) and had a meeting with the hospital director to discuss the issues I had with the hospital. I also investigated sueing them for issues I had.

It was a nightmare.

I do NOT want to scare anyone. This was 7 years ago and major improvements have been made, but I still believe SB has a long way to come as far as patient care goes.

THIS IS JUST my opinion again, and I dont doubt there are some great dr's/staff and experiences at SB, but I will tell my story anyway because I cant reccomend them as a hospital.

Posted 6/18/05 1:58 PM
 

MM2004
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

I'm going to be delivering at Huntington. I was in the L&D for a while in early May after a car accident for monitoring and everyone was really nice.

I used Dr. Siegel of the Huntington Medical Group. The main office is in Huntington Station but Dr. Siegel also practices out of an office on Commack Rd in the medical building across from Consumers Bed & Bath. Everyone in the office is really nice and very patient.

I had a scare in the middle of my pregnancy where I could feel the baby moving and the rushed me right into the office to check me out. Everything turned out fine.

I met another doctor at Huntington, a Dr. Grasnoff (?) when I went in for monitoring. He was nice, a bit kooky but nice. He kept teasing me about getting into a car accident.

Posted 6/18/05 7:59 PM
 

kimmie
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

Posted by lele4me

I live in commack too...I delivered my first last Sept. and had a great exp. at Huntington Hospital. My obgyn group is WGM in e. northport and they also have a second office in Huntington.
I am about 6 weeks pregnant with my second and will definately go back to Huntington!



I second this quote.. I use them too and I think they are truly great doctors. I use Dr. Wagner and he puts you at such ease and doesnt panick you about anything like some doctors could when you are pregnant. My sister used them also and she loves them too.Chat Icon

Posted 6/19/05 10:03 AM
 

Ali
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Allison

Re: OBGYN Recommendations

Thank you all so much! This is very helpful. I'm definitely going to go with Huntington after hearing all the good reviews. Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/05 9:08 AM
 

Wendy
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

Posted by CarrieAnn

I use Dr.Scanlon who is associated with Huntington Hospital.

He is part of the North Shore Medical Group located on New York Ave (just behind the hospital). There are 3 other women in the practice as well.

I was seen by all 4 Drs and all 4 were excellent (I was in the office every other day the last few weeks and was sent to the hospital 3 times).

Dr. Scanlon was actually in Africa when my baby was born (I ended up going in early), so a different Dr. performed the delivery.

I had a great experience at Huntington, plus you get a lobster/steak dinner before you go home :)




This is the Dr I was going to suggest, although I have not used him. Several of DH's friends wives use him and he also went to HS with my BIL.

Posted 6/20/05 9:13 AM
 

Corinne
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Re: OBGYN Recommendations

Im 10 weeks today and i go to WGW its 2 women and 2 men and I will deliver out of Huntington. Had bad experience with St. Catherines hospital and changed doctors. The office had a 2 hour wait an the doctors were so impersonal plus my aunt delivered at st. johns which used to be st. catherines and they left a sponge in her during c-section and she almost died.

Posted 6/20/05 11:58 AM
 
 

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