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How not to behave like an "Ugly American" article from the WSJ

Teaching Americans How to Behave Abroad
Fearing Anti-U.S. Backlash, Big Companies Team Up To Offer Advice to Executives

By Scott McCartney
Wall Street Journal Online

Trying to combat anti-U.S. sentiment abroad, a campaign is under way to give the "ugly American" a makeover and improve the manners of business travelers overseas.

Employees and executives of some big corporations who are bound for other countries will receive a "World Citizens Guide" brochure with 16 tips to improve the image of the U.S., such as trying to speak a little of foreign languages and refraining from too much talk of wealth, power, status or American pride. The program starts next month and will expand in the fall to include a one-day seminar.

"We are broadly seen throughout the world as an arrogant people, totally self-absorbed and loud," said Keith Reinhard, chairman emeritus of DDB Worldwide Inc. who is leading the effort through a group called Business for Diplomatic Action Inc., a nonprofit organization that tries to get U.S. companies to work to improve the reputation of the U.S. in the world.

AMR Corp.'s American Airlines, Loews Hotels Corp. and Novell Inc. have all signed up for the program, the group says. Exxon Mobil Corp., Microsoft Corp., McDonald's Corp. and Weyerhaeuser Co. have officials on the board of Business for Diplomatic Action, and are expected to join the campaign, which is being funded by the National Business Travelers Association, a group of corporate travel managers. More than 40 large companies have been approached so far, according to NBTA, and about half expressed interest in participating.

Of course, major U.S. foreign-policy decisions and events like the Iraq war far outweigh manners when it comes to shaping the perception of Americans overseas. Some companies, in fact, cringe at the suggestion that their employees and executives are in need of "Miss Manners"-style lessons, and Mr. Reinhard's group runs into doubters who say personal interactions will do little to greatly shift the perception of U.S. citizens around the world. Indeed, a State Department effort to enlist Madison Avenue to boost America's image globally fell flat shortly after Sept. 11, 2001.

Business for Diplomatic Action has held discussions with the State Department about distributing its World Citizens Guide to every U.S. passport holder and putting it on the State Department's Web site. The group met in December with Karen Hughes, undersecretary of state for public diplomacy. No decisions have been made yet on the pamphlets.

The group's advice includes tried-and-true international travel suggestions, such as reminders that in Japan it is considered rude to look directly in the eye for more than a few seconds, and in Greece the hand-waving gesture commonly used in America for goodbye is considered an insult.

But it also goes after stereotypical American traits such as boastfulness, loudness and speed. The guide urges travelers to eat slower, speak slower, move slower and dress up when abroad since casual dress can be a sign of disrespect. Tone down talk of religion, politics and national pride, as well as your voice. "Listen as much as you talk," the guide says, and "save the lectures for your kids..

"Anger, impatience and rudeness are universal turnoffs," the guide says, imploring employees to "Help your country while you travel for your company."

Mr. Reinhard, a prominent advertising executive who created slogans like "You deserve a break today" and "Two all-beef patties..." said he started looking for ways to polish the image of the U.S. when he heard President Bush express dismay shortly after Sept. 11 that "people did not like us" in other parts of the world.

Believing this was potentially a major business issue for U.S. firms selling goods and services abroad, he launched a research effort inside his advertising agency, a unit of Omnicom Group. A polling firm sent questionnaires to people in 130 countries asking how America was viewed and what Americans could do to make a better impression overseas, and task forces from Omnicom studied results and interviewed business executives around the world.

The positive results were as expected: post-Sept. 11 sympathy for the nation, and a view that America is a land of wealth, opportunity, innovation, creativity and benevolence.

But the negatives were consistent and strident, centering on a belief that Americans have a lack of respect for other peoples and are concerned only for themselves. People interviewed for the survey, some videotaped, talked of Americans never listening and showing little regard for local customs. A corporate executive from Düsseldorf, Germany, expressed dismay that Wal-Mart Stores Inc.'s employees gather every morning to recite a company cheer, something that may build team spirit in U.S. stores, but comes off as offensive and arrogant to German workers. A Wal-Mart spokeswoman says the cheer is optional in Germany, and some stores don't participate.

The nonprofit Business for Diplomatic Action was started in 2004, using the research interviews to draft a list of suggestions for Americans traveling and working abroad. Last year, BDA began distributing 200,000 passport-size guides at no cost to college students heading off to study abroad, created with help from advertising students at Southern Methodist University. Now, the focus has turned to business travelers. "Business has a role to play in the reputation of the United States," Mr. Reinhard said.

Along with other travel groups, Business for Diplomatic Action and the National Business Travelers Association have also been lobbying the State Department for improved processing of foreign visitors to the U.S. Travel to the U.S. from other countries is still below 2000 levels, in part because tighter visa and border procedures have made it more difficult to enter the country.

A push to promote the image of the U.S. has backfired before. Shortly after the 2001 terrorist attacks, Madison Avenue executive Charlotte Beers was confirmed as undersecretary of state for public diplomacy and produced an advertising campaign showing Muslims integrated into American society. Many target countries declined to show the campaign, and Ms. Beers resigned.

Instead of advertising the virtues of America, Mr. Reinhard thinks the U.S. will be better served by getting Americans who make the approximately 60 million trips abroad each year to be more virtuous -- simply behaving better. His effort, however, has drawn some criticism in the corporate world as being perhaps too politically motivated and critical of the Bush administration -- charges he denies.

Posted 4/28/06 9:23 AM
 
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I thought the "rude" part was just a NY stigma.....Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/28/06 9:26 AM
 

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I've found that people in general are rude, regardless of background. Chat Icon

A few years ago I took a tour through Europe with a company based in Australia. There were about 6 Americans; the majority were from Australia and NZ. On our last night in Paris I was with a group (probably 15 of us, 2 American, both sober) and the Aussies were smashed and really loud. And this French woman looked at us, said something in French, then yelled "Effing Americans!" at us. So if we have a bad image, I blame it on the Aussies. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/28/06 9:32 AM
 

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I wonder if those pamphlets will make any difference? Chat Icon

Posted 4/28/06 9:41 AM
 

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OMG, the British are the worst abroad!!!
They vacation where the beer is cheapest!!!

Posted 4/28/06 10:04 AM
 

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OMG, the British are the worst abroad!!!
They vacation where the beer is cheapest!!!



WORD! That is what I was thinking! The French too are not the SNOBBIEST(Stereotypically)???

Posted 4/28/06 10:19 AM
 

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Re: How not to behave like an "Ugly American" article from the WSJ

I went to a Dutch island for my honeymoon. I may have spoken in a full voice at times on the beach, but at least I didn't rudely stare down everyone around me. I had to be an 'ugly American' and tell them that it's impolite to stare at someone like that.

Posted 4/28/06 10:22 AM
 

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*sigh* I wish I knew what the answer to this was!! I think it has more to do with people learning to be open minded and not to use sweeping stereotypes than it has to do with certain people being nicer when traveling.

People frequently tell me taht I need to speak up, they can't hear me and in the next sentence go on about how loud American's are....I always feel like saying I'm American and you just told me you coudlnt' hear me!!! I feel like people don't conisder me "that kind of American" just because they know a little bit about me. Makes me think that people should just take more time to get to know others before "branding" them!!

Have you had the same experiences Racheee?

Posted 4/28/06 10:42 AM
 

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I may get flamed for this, but I think people who live in (or close to) metropolitan areas are more globally aware and the Americans that are being criticized are the ones who go to other countries expecting everyone to cater to them and speak their language etc. I think LI being so close to NYC, most of us are not the ones that irritate other countries.

Posted 4/28/06 10:52 AM
 

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*sigh* I wish I knew what the answer to this was!! I think it has more to do with people learning to be open minded and not to use sweeping stereotypes than it has to do with certain people being nicer when traveling.

People frequently tell me taht I need to speak up, they can't hear me and in the next sentence go on about how loud American's are....I always feel like saying I'm American and you just told me you coudlnt' hear me!!! I feel like people don't conisder me "that kind of American" just because they know a little bit about me. Makes me think that people should just take more time to get to know others before "branding" them!!

Have you had the same experiences Racheee?



I think because I live in Manchester and its a smaller city with a small tourist trade, I am still a bit of a novelty to people, I always get...what are you doing in Manchester. People treat me so well here, I have lived in London and did get more hassle (but its that North/South divide that I am so obsessed with)

But I don't believe that Americans are so bad abroad, I hate to say it, but the British are the worst...they drink so much. I never saw so much vomit on the street until I moved here!

Posted 4/28/06 11:13 AM
 

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But I don't believe that Americans are so bad abroad, I hate to say it, but the British are the worst...they drink so much. I never saw so much vomit on the street until I moved here!



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Posted 4/28/06 11:15 AM
 

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But I don't believe that Americans are so bad abroad, I hate to say it, but the British are the worst...they drink so much. I never saw so much vomit on the street until I moved here!



Ah, you haven't been to Newcastly then, have you???? Chat Icon

Posted 4/28/06 11:42 AM
 

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Re: How not to behave like an "Ugly American" article from the WSJ

Who is going to teach the regular Joe from Ohio how not to be an ugly American? They need it most.

Posted 4/28/06 11:44 AM
 

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Who is going to teach the regular Joe from Ohio how not to be an ugly American? They need it most.



Where are those Queer Eye for the Midwest Guy shows when you need them?

Posted 4/28/06 12:13 PM
 

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Where are those Queer Eye for the Midwest Guy shows when you need them?



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I think because I live in Manchester and its a smaller city with a small tourist trade, I am still a bit of a novelty to people, I always get...what are you doing in Manchester. People treat me so well here, I have lived in London and did get more hassle (but its that North/South divide that I am so obsessed with)

But I don't believe that Americans are so bad abroad, I hate to say it, but the British are the worst...they drink so much. I never saw so much vomit on the street until I moved here!



Oooh, I just remembered a good story. I was on a plane from NY to London a few years ago and there was this very tall American guy on the plane. They sat him in the first row for more leg room and he had this elderly British couple sitting behind him who were EXTREMELY loud. Well, halfway through the flight the woman gets up to stretch or go to the bathroom or whatever and the guy in front of her had put his shoes under his own seat and I guess it came through behind. So she picks it up, looks at it and hurls it down the aisle!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Me and long legs both look at her like she's out of her mind, at which point the man stands up and says very loudly in his British accent.

"I'm terribly sorry, it seems my wife just threw your shoe"

Incredulous stare from long legs.

Brit, even louder than before (if possible): "Your SHOE, MY WIFE JUST THREW YOUR SHOE!!!"

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Posted 4/28/06 12:22 PM
 

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Posted by racheeeee

But I don't believe that Americans are so bad abroad, I hate to say it, but the British are the worst...they drink so much. I never saw so much vomit on the street until I moved here!



Ah, you haven't been to Newcastly then, have you???? Chat Icon



OMFG...a. My husbands parents are Geordies and all his cousins live in the Chapel Park Estate b. newcastle...shudder
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Overheardinnewyork.com gives us an example:

Guy: Maybe it has to do with Grover Cleveland...
Drunk girl: Who's Grover Cleveland?
Guy: I'm a Canadian and I know who Grover Cleveland is.
Drunk girl [proudly]: Well, I'm an American and I don't know!

--Yankees Stadium

Posted 4/28/06 1:04 PM
 

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I have worked for 9 yrs. in a bar in the theatre district. We have tourists from around the globe and around the US nightly. I can say with confidence that every country has its far share of rude a$$holes.

Posted 4/28/06 1:52 PM
 

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A corporate executive from Düsseldorf, Germany, expressed dismay that Wal-Mart Stores Inc.'s employees gather every morning to recite a company cheer, something that may build team spirit in U.S. stores, but comes off as offensive and arrogant to German workers. A Wal-Mart spokeswoman says the cheer is optional in Germany, and some stores don't participate.




I found this part interesting. I can't BELIEVE I am defending Wal-Mart on this, but I think that if this is part of their corporate culture, I don't see why it is seen as so offensive. I remember hearing customs that Japanese automobile companies had as their corporate culture and if they were operating plants in other countries and included these, I don't see them getting any grief for it, JMO.

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