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Pumpkin
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New hugs and advice and prayers
I need to have surgery on my foot, this somethng that I have needed to have done for a long tme but have been putting off for different reasons. Anyway I have an infection in my foot, it is really painful and I am antibiotics. I have to get the surgery done asap. I go to school so as soon as the semester ends I am gettng it done and wll not be behind.
The problem is DH started a new job it is a union job and he is low man on the list so he is barely workng, eventually it will be good. We have been living off my salary and savings. When I go out for the surgery I will be on disability so that is not going to be full pay.
I am freaking out about this. I will be off my feet for 2 wks, no work 6 wks and this is with perfect healing.
Dh is really going to have step up. His work situation ***** and we fight over this, he needs to really help me when I have this surgery and need to stress this to him but he just is clueless about things.
I hate broadcasting my busness like this but i am just so nervous about this whole thing.
Thanks for listening I just had to get this out.
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Posted 3/11/06 9:45 AM |
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nov04libride
big brother <3
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Re: New hugs and advice and prayers
Sometimes I feel like DH doesn't step up to the plate, but at times when I really need him he always comes through. I hope your DH does the same. Good luck witht he surgery!
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Posted 3/11/06 9:47 AM |
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reggie
I love my boys!!
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Re: New hugs and advice and prayers
I am sorry. Remember everything will work out in the end.
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Posted 3/11/06 9:48 AM |
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IrishTracy
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Name: Tracy
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Posted 3/11/06 9:50 AM |
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dm24angel
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Re: New hugs and advice and prayers
So sorry your so worried. I do understand the worry. I hope you can figure something out....
I think constantly explaining it to your husband might help. Sometimes they need the situation explained to them 10-15 times to fully grasp it.
Bottom line is you NEED the surgery, so you have to have it, and you can and will deal with the results as it comes.
GOOD LUCK!
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Posted 3/11/06 9:53 AM |
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CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)
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Posted 3/11/06 6:03 PM |
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oakslady
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Re: New hugs and advice and prayers
Posted by dm24angel
So sorry your so worried. I do understand the worry. I hope you can figure something out....
I think constantly explaining it to your husband might help. Sometimes they need the situation explained to them 10-15 times to fully grasp it.
Bottom line is you NEED the surgery, so you have to have it, and you can and will deal with the results as it comes.
GOOD LUCK!
ditto i find this so true - they have to have it drilled into their head 100 times before the light goes on
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Posted 3/11/06 6:05 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: New hugs and advice and prayers
for you and for a quick recovery!
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Posted 3/11/06 7:07 PM |
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twobabies
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Posted 3/11/06 7:54 PM |
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