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btrflygrl
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Member since 5/05 12013 total posts
Name: Shana
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Dreams about ex's?? bad, good....makes you think...
OK...I've been having dreams about 2 ex's. One was a jerk, the other I think is the one that got away.
The bad dreams about the jerk are always filled with anger, fear, disappointment and dealing with his drug/alcohol habits and the way he abused me. Funny thing is, the visual image is of DH but the feelings I feel in these dreams I know are of this jerk.
The other dreams....I feel like I miss this guy, wonder what if I had called him that last time....they are dreams of the things we did that were so much fun. I often wonder where is these days...I've tried finding him, but can't.
Do I tell DH about them? How do I deal??
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Posted 8/24/05 7:42 PM |
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monkeybride
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Re: Dreams about ex's?? bad, good....makes you think...
Hmmmm I don't know if that's something to discuss with DH or not. I assume you wouldn't act on anything and call or look up "the one that got away".
I have never had dreams about an ex so I don't know what I would do.
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Posted 8/24/05 7:45 PM |
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Redhead
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Name: Jennifer
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Re: Dreams about ex's?? bad, good....makes you think...
i wouldn't tell your DH. THose kinda thoughts and dreams are totally normal!
I even wonder what some of the jerkoffs are doing these days...
I would just laugh about it and then forget it! All of us have that curiousity!
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Posted 8/24/05 7:46 PM |
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btrflygrl
me and baby #3!
Member since 5/05 12013 total posts
Name: Shana
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Re: Dreams about ex's?? bad, good....makes you think...
I would never go out of my way to find either one of them...I've heard about the jerk here and there from various people still in NY....makes me laugh.
but the other guy.....I just wonder.
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Posted 8/24/05 8:04 PM |
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Re: Dreams about ex's?? bad, good....makes you think...
A friend told me that dreams about exes are common during pregnancy.
I'm not pg, but when I heard about an ex getting married recently it caused me to have a few dreams about him. I realized that a lot of it had to do with unresolved things that I'd never dealt with. Needless to say, I wrote down my thoughts in my journal. It was, to me, a better route than spilling all to DH.
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Posted 8/24/05 8:28 PM |
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IrishTracy
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Name: Tracy
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Re: Dreams about ex's?? bad, good....makes you think...
A dreeam is just that a dream. I wouldn't tell your husband. Why start something that doesn't need to be started?
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Posted 8/24/05 8:36 PM |
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