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Should he be in the bridal party?

Forum Opinion Poll
Yes 4 20.00%
NO 13 65.00%
Casually mention it to his sister..... 3 15.00%
 

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CowgirlChick97
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Message edited 5/25/2007 9:55:04 PM.

Posted 10/20/05 7:50 PM
 

AJsMommy122
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

In this case I would tell them you want to keep your bridal party as small as possible and mostly family.

I would ask him to maybe do a reading instead so at least he is involved in some wayChat Icon

Posted 10/20/05 7:57 PM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

I hate to say, but I'm not sure if he can even read........Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/05 8:05 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

IMO, if it was up to me...i wouldn't ask any bf unless you are really close with them.

BUT i left the GM picking up to the DH...So if you DH is really set on it...then i wouldn't fight it.

I would just hate to look back and see picks of a possible ex-bf that you never liked to begin with

Posted 10/20/05 8:05 PM
 

Tany
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

Posted by Syliblond81106

I hate to say, but I'm not sure if he can even read........Chat Icon



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Posted 10/20/05 8:07 PM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

Message edited 5/25/2007 9:54:45 PM.

Posted 10/20/05 8:07 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

Posted by Syliblond81106

I hate to say, but I'm not sure if he can even read........Chat Icon




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Posted 10/20/05 8:07 PM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Brianna

Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by Syliblond81106

I hate to say, but I'm not sure if he can even read........Chat Icon




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Chat Icon Chat Icon Did i mention he gets high most of the time..greattttttttChat Icon

Posted 10/20/05 8:07 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

Posted by Syliblond81106

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by Syliblond81106

I hate to say, but I'm not sure if he can even read........Chat Icon




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Chat Icon Chat Icon Did i mention he gets high most of the time..greattttttttChat Icon




um...i think maybe NOT asking him to be in the BP is a good idea. Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/05 8:10 PM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Brianna

Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by Syliblond81106

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by Syliblond81106

I hate to say, but I'm not sure if he can even read........Chat Icon




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Chat Icon Chat Icon Did i mention he gets high most of the time..greattttttttChat Icon




um...i think maybe NOT asking him to be in the BP is a good idea. Chat Icon



thats waht IM thinking Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/05 8:11 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

If the FH really wants him in i don't think i would fight it though

Posted 10/20/05 8:13 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

Posted by Redhead

If the FH really wants him in i don't think i would fight it though



she said that her FH doesn't even want him in it....

i would look for a cousin or something before i put him in my wedding!! Chat Icon

Message edited 10/20/2005 8:14:56 PM.

Posted 10/20/05 8:14 PM
 

Redhead
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Jennifer

Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

well her FH said that he thinks he should be in it...but yes i saw that he doesn't really want him in it...

I would just leave it up to the FH to decide

Posted 10/20/05 8:17 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

I would have him in it. Your FH probably doesn't want to upset his sister. It would be so much easier to have him in, then to take him out. Grooms make so few requests that I would include him.

Posted 10/20/05 8:21 PM
 

saraH
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

honestly, i would never have a fbil or fsil's gf or bf in my bridal party.

Posted 10/20/05 8:22 PM
 

HarleyGirlFLA
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

Just kick them all in the shins Chat Icon

You have who you want in the party

Posted 10/20/05 9:03 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Don't hate me for asking a wedding question..but I like you guys here!!!!!!!

I wouldn't ask him. You would just be asking him out of obligation - and it doesn't seem in the spirit of what the BM party should stand for. I would mention to his sister that you dont' really know him and that's why.

My guess is if he's not interested in his gf's family - than it won't matter to him anyway.

Posted 10/20/05 9:19 PM
 
 

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