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A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

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SweetTooth
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Lauren

A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

Yesterday I was in Trader Joe's and it must have been old lady day. All the old ladies were gushing over the babies, fine. I don't really mind that it takes 1/2 an hour to do a 10 minute shopping trip because I get stopped every two seconds. I kind of mind the old lady who kept touching my hand, but at least she wasn't touching the babies.
But there was one old lady who was trying to argue with me about them being identical. Actually I didn't really mind this, I found it pretty funny. She did her oohing and ahhing and asked if they were a boy and a girl. I said yes. Then she asked if they were identical. And I said "no, they are a boy and a girl." And she says "yes, but they could still be identical, they look so alike!"
I just smiled at her, and told her again they were not identical.

I don't think she believed me. Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/09 9:41 AM
 
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MrsRbk
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Michelle

Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

Oh come on...really, they are NOT identical? Could be a medical marvel you know! Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/09 9:45 AM
 

dm24angel
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

I think the common reason this is said is that I think people believe "identical" means "looks" and nothing more.

Posted 5/14/09 9:48 AM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

Even in HS, my bro and sis would get asked if their opposite-gender sib and them were identical twinds.... Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/09 9:55 AM
 

2BEANS
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Tina

Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

Chat Icon there sis and bro they can still look alike without being identical twins..

Old ladys are soo funny. I had the one ask me when i was pregnant if my older dd was going to be a Big Sister or Big Brother... Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/09 9:59 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

I'm a twin. My sister has blond hair & blue eyes. I used to say "You don't know what the word identical means do you?"

They really don't. We always found it amusing.

Posted 5/14/09 10:00 AM
 

hbugal
Lesigh

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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

The next time someone argues with you go into a whole long explaination of twinning..

You can even give them the very special circumstances involving a set of identicals who were in fact boy and girl...

They'll have that glazed look in their eyes in no time...

Posted 5/14/09 10:03 AM
 

smdl
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

Like Donna said, people think identical means "looking alike".

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Posted 5/14/09 10:03 AM
 

babyonthebrain
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

OH MY!!!! LMAOOOO Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/09 10:33 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

By the way, I laughed outloud at "Old Lady Day"

Posted 5/14/09 10:36 AM
 

bonitachyc
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

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Posted 5/14/09 10:36 AM
 

BigB
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Stacey

Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

I go through this all of the time! I used to fight it out, now I just let it go....Chat Icon

The same way, people used to say "two boys?" When dd was rockin' all pink from head to toe! I just smiled and would say "No"

Posted 5/14/09 10:50 AM
 

Blissful
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

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Posted 5/14/09 10:53 AM
 

Tracey
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

I used to get that all the time......

now they think dd is a year older than ds because she is bigger.....Chat Icon
i think i would know!

Posted 5/14/09 10:59 AM
 

Michelle
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

People would ask me about thier ages since they were different weights, I started telling them one was 4 months and the other was 6 months but they were twins. Chat Icon

There is also a lady at work who deons't beleive mine are idnetical. Apparently the Dr's saying they shared a placenta was not good enough proof for her. No **** they look different they are different weights. If you lost 25% of your body weight you would look different too.

Message edited 5/14/2009 11:31:27 AM.

Posted 5/14/09 11:30 AM
 

DRMom
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Melissa

Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

I sh!t you not here is a conversation I had the other day

Guy: Twins
Me: yep
Guy: Same age?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 5/14/2009 12:42:26 PM.

Posted 5/14/09 12:42 PM
 

eroxgirl
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Rebecca

Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

Posted by Michelle

People would ask me about thier ages since they were different weights, I started telling them one was 4 months and the other was 6 months but they were twins. Chat Icon




That is exactly how you're supposed to deal with stupidity! Love it! Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/09 1:06 PM
 

clmj2
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Candice

Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

Posted by DRMom

I sh!t you not here is a conversation I had the other day

Guy: Twins
Me: yep
Guy: Same age?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon im sorry i totally lol at work!

Posted 5/14/09 1:23 PM
 

wannabemom
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aka marriedinportjeff

Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

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sign # 312 that we have insufficient science education in american high schools...... Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/09 1:32 PM
 

wannabemom
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aka marriedinportjeff

Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

Posted by DRMom

I sh!t you not here is a conversation I had the other day

Guy: Twins
Me: yep
Guy: Same age?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



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oh, if anyone ever asks you that again, you MUST reply 'nope, I held on to the 2nd one for an extra month Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/09 1:34 PM
 

pinky
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

I got that a few times too. Ask them next time if they passed hs biology Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/09 1:43 PM
 

carolyns4cupcakes
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Re: A boy and a girl are NOT identical twins.

Posted by dm24angel

I think the common reason this is said is that I think people believe "identical" means "looks" and nothing more.



Hey D- are your twins identical or are there 2 sacs?

I never asked.

Posted 5/14/09 1:52 PM
 
 

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