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A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

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headoverheels
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A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

This was all DH... when DS starts throwing a tantrum, we both say "It's TAAAAAAANTRUUMM TIIIIIMMME" (said in the "t-shirt time" voice of Pauly D Chat Icon) and DS always stops in his tracks and says "No!" and stops throwing the tantrum. I hope this works forever Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 10/23/2010 8:30:06 AM.

Posted 10/23/10 8:29 AM
 
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ChrisDee
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

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Posted 10/23/10 8:33 AM
 

JennZ
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

I'm so going to try this. Chat Icon

Posted 10/23/10 8:34 AM
 

Palebride
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

Excellent!!

Posted 10/23/10 8:41 AM
 

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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon hahahahahaha he's PIZZED you're enjoying it Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/23/10 8:57 AM
 

mommyIam

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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

LB, I've been reading Happiest Toddler on the Block, a big part of the method is acknowledging that you understand and can relate to the child when they are having a tantrum, but using only short simple phrases.

I think you're doing that, with saying "its tantrum time", acknowledging to your DS that you understand where he's coming from.

I could be totally wrong, but wow so glad you found something to work! I'm watching our cousins grow up, and its scaring me. Perfect sweet babies turned ... toddler Chat Icon

Posted 10/23/10 9:07 AM
 

azoodie

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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I will have to remember that!

Posted 10/23/10 9:10 AM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

Chat Icon love it!

When DD wakes up from her naps, DH grabs her and says OH YEAH! Baby's up! OH YEAH!
I crack up every time!

Posted 10/23/10 10:11 AM
 

KennysMommy
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

Posted by headoverheels

"It's TAAAAAAANTRUUMM TIIIIIMMME" (said in the "t-shirt time" voice of Pauly D Chat Icon)



Chat Icon Chat Icon OMG I can totally "hear" it! That's so funny!!!

Posted 10/23/10 12:50 PM
 

Little-J-Mommy
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

LOL that's hilariousChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

when Jack was younger, he used to go "invisible" when he started crying/tantruming. He'd start and I'd look around saying Oh no, where's Jack...I can't see him. He'd immediately stop crying and start laughing, he thought this was the funniest thing. It worked for a LOOOOOONG timeChat Icon

Posted 10/23/10 12:59 PM
 

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Posted by mommyIam
I think you're doing that, with saying "its tantrum time", acknowledging to your DS that you understand where he's coming from.



Funny, I took it as no kid will knowingly do anything a parent wanted so they do the complete oppositeChat Icon

Message edited 10/23/2010 1:07:54 PM.

Posted 10/23/10 1:06 PM
 

pjay
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

hysterical!!!!! def gonna try this...... lololol love it, even if DS doesnt stop at least ill laugh my butt off!

Posted 10/23/10 1:49 PM
 

sweetie101
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

lol

Posted 10/23/10 1:50 PM
 

waiting4ablessing
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

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Posted 10/23/10 9:02 PM
 

neener1211
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Posted 10/23/10 9:37 PM
 

mommyofTrevor
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

Love it, def giving it a try.Chat Icon

Posted 10/23/10 9:41 PM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

Enjoy it while you can.... I try something similar with DD, and it just makes the tantrum worse. She's still upset about whatever caused the tantrum, PLUS she's annoyed at me for doing something like that.... Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/10 7:44 AM
 

Deeluvsvinny
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

that's too cute!! and smart DH!

When it's time to get DD ready for bed...we say "It's PEEE JAAAY time, oh YEAH" LOL

Posted 10/25/10 9:05 AM
 

sunflowerjesss
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Posted 10/25/10 9:12 AM
 

JoJo2010
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

DH refers to evertying in the Pauly D voice. OH YEAH its bottle time OH YEAH. OH YEAH its poopy time OH YEAH. OH YEAH its bedtime OH YEAH!

Posted 10/25/10 9:47 AM
 

chikita315
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

Genius!

Posted 10/25/10 10:17 AM
 

MrsPornStar
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Re: A fool-proof way to head off and prevent tantrums

That is great!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/10 10:18 AM
 
 
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