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GenLCSW
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A little personal but its really bothering me
I posted about this a while ago but I just need some reassurance. I am 13w3d and I still have no desire to "do the deed"  If I am not very nauseous, I am sooo tired and go to sleep at 7 or 8 every night. DH has not really said anything about it but I feel sooo bad. Is this normal? TIA 
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BaroqueMama
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Re: A little personal but its really bothering me
Posted by GenLCSW
I posted about this a while ago but I just need some reassurance. I am 13w3d and I still have no desire to "do the deed" If I am not very nauseous, I am sooo tired and go to sleep at 7 or 8 every night. DH has not really said anything about it but I feel sooo bad. Is this normal? TIA
I would say it's completely normal, and if it's not, then mark me down as not normal, too! I was the same way in the beginning. First of all, as if it's not bad enough that you're sick to your stomache and more tired than you've ever been before, there's all those hormonal and emotional changes you are going through. I found that as I got closer to 16, 17, 18 weeks, I felt more "normal" in many, many ways. Just having more energy, less nausea and more, e-hem, desire to, e-hem, you know what . Hang in there, honey. You WILL feel normal again, and even if it's not until after the baby, it's still not forever, right? I'd say something to DH. They're usually more in-tune with us than we give them credit for.
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| Posted 5/29/06 10:02 AM |
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ParentsInJune
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Re: A little personal but its really bothering me
I didn't want it at all in the beginning. Now it's my husband that doesn't want to do it because he's afraid he'll hurt the baby. So my advice is to get it as much as you can now- I wish I had!!!
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| Posted 5/29/06 10:10 AM |
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Charly
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Re: A little personal but its really bothering me
Genna I feel the same way and I'm never had m/s or fatigue. I just don't have any desire I hope it goes away, I feel bad too.
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| Posted 5/29/06 1:07 PM |
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heidla
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Re: A little personal but its really bothering me
I feel bad too, but I have no desire to have sex right now. Between my stomach aching, boobs hurting and exhuastion it is truely the last thing on my mind.
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| Posted 5/29/06 2:20 PM |
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NS1976
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Re: A little personal but its really bothering me
Ohhhhh if I could tell you how long its been for my poor dh, none of you would feel bad at all! Lets just say I am now 26 weeks and my desire NEVER came back. We dont talk about it much but I feel really bad, but not bad enough to do something about it.
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| Posted 5/29/06 2:25 PM |
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iwed2005
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Re: A little personal but its really bothering me
Posted by ParentsInJune
I didn't want it at all in the beginning. Now it's my husband that doesn't want to do it because he's afraid he'll hurt the baby. So my advice is to get it as much as you can now- I wish I had!!!
I agree !!! I have to say ask him if he wants to  . Which he graciously accepts, but it's like pulling teeth
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| Posted 5/30/06 8:34 AM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
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Re: A little personal but its really bothering me
Posted by nycchic24
Ohhhhh if I could tell you how long its been for my poor dh, none of you would feel bad at all! Lets just say I am now 26 weeks and my desire NEVER came back. We dont talk about it much but I feel really bad, but not bad enough to do something about it.
thats how I feel
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| Posted 5/30/06 8:42 AM |
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monkeybride
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Re: A little personal but its really bothering me
I had pretty much no desire my entire pregnancy. DH was very understanding.
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| Posted 5/30/06 9:24 AM |
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pmpkn087
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Re: A little personal but its really bothering me
I'm 15 1/2 weeks and i have no desire either. Sometimes I do, but when I think of how tired I am and how much energy it will take, I nix the idea.
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