A rehearsal dinner question...
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nov04libride
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A rehearsal dinner question...
DH is in a bridal party of a distant friend. I cannot go to the wedding (I have class that afternoon). He was invited to the rehearsal dinner, but they made no mention of me...Do you think I am invited? He called back to ask but they did not return his call yet. I can't see them not inviting his wife to go with him, but I think the bride is mad that I can't go to the wedding.
Message edited 9/26/2006 8:53:29 PM.
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Posted 9/26/06 8:51 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: A rehearsal dinner question...
hmmmm
i think it could go either day dependng on the couple if they are on a tght budget...probably not
otherwise i would assume you are
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Posted 9/26/06 8:54 PM |
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SuzyQ
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Re: WR but not mine...
That would be very rude (not to invite you to the rehearsal dinner) unless they are assuming you can't make that either due to your schedule. Hopefully they'll call him back and let him know. Is the wedding soon?
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Posted 9/26/06 8:55 PM |
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nov04libride
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Re: A rehearsal dinner question...
Posted by Redhead
hmmmm
i think it could go either day dependng on the couple if they are on a tght budget...probably not
otherwise i would assume you are
I always kind of assumed spouses are invited...I would consider it a slap in the face if they say I am not.
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Posted 9/26/06 8:55 PM |
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nov04libride
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Re: A rehearsal dinner question...
Posted by SuzyQ
That would be very rude (not to invite you to the rehearsal dinner) unless they are assuming you can't make that either due to your schedule. Hopefully they'll call him back and let him know. Is the wedding soon?
Strangely the wedding is a week from this Sat but the rehearsal is the day after tomorrow.
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Posted 9/26/06 8:56 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: A rehearsal dinner question...
Posted by nov04libride
Posted by Redhead
hmmmm
i think it could go either day dependng on the couple if they are on a tght budget...probably not
otherwise i would assume you are
I always kind of assumed spouses are invited...I would consider it a slap in the face if they say I am not.
i would too...unless they have a tight budget..
then i can see them trying to keep it to the bare minimum
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Posted 9/26/06 8:56 PM |
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SuzyQ
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Re: A rehearsal dinner question...
Posted by nov04libride
Posted by SuzyQ
That would be very rude (not to invite you to the rehearsal dinner) unless they are assuming you can't make that either due to your schedule. Hopefully they'll call him back and let him know. Is the wedding soon?
Strangely the wedding is a week from this Sat but the rehearsal is the day after tomorrow.
I would call them again if you don't hear from them and say something along the lines of "I was really looking forward to giving you both my good wishes at your RD since I am so disappointed that I can't make it to the wedding." (or have DH say it.) I agree that it would be a slap in the face to not invite you.
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Posted 9/26/06 9:02 PM |
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