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AAARRGGHH!!! I am going to KILL DH (VENT)
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KateDevine
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AAARRGGHH!!! I am going to KILL DH (VENT)
I am so irritated right now. DH is on FMLA leave right now so that he can switch shifts to a day shift and so we can find childcare for DS.
So, to make ends mean, I have been working my A$$ off doing OT. I have been working 10 hour days. And when I come home the house is a disaster and Christopher isn't even dressed
When I was home and he was the one working, he'd b!tch if he didn't get "me" time. I wish the same thing worked for me, since HE is out with his friends I just spent an hour cleaning up
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Posted 1/10/08 10:37 PM  |
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karacg
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Re: AAARRGGHH!!! I am going to KILL DH (VENT)
Ohhh he needs a serious butt-kick!!
Maybe tomorrow will be better? Or is this every day?
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| Posted 1/10/08 10:40 PM |
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nferrandi
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Re: AAARRGGHH!!! I am going to KILL DH (VENT)
Did you point this out to him? Now be careful in your word choice, but nicely explain to him that you have certain expectations, the same way he did when he was working. Come up with a "schedule" of things that need to be done. Jump on the things you know you can take care of after work, and let him take care of the rest.
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| Posted 1/10/08 10:41 PM |
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KateDevine
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Re: AAARRGGHH!!! I am going to KILL DH (VENT)
Posted by nferrandi
Did you point this out to him? Now be careful in your word choice, but nicely explain to him that you have certain expectations, the same way he did when he was working. Come up with a "schedule" of things that need to be done. Jump on the things you know you can take care of after work, and let him take care of the rest.
This is why I haven't said anything yet...I'm trying to NOT start a fight, KWIM? He gets annoyed when I try to micromanage him too much.
I mean, I guess he tries, he was really proud of himself that he ran the dishwasher today
We discussed this BEFORE he took this leave (he was laid off once before right after we got married and he slept ALL the time!) and he swore up and down it would be different. It's only the first week, so that is the other reason I've kept my mouth shut.....
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| Posted 1/10/08 10:46 PM |
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