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Happy1
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After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
a BFN!!!!!! 
I am so upset, I didn't think this was going to be so hard...emotionially, physically and mentally.
We will now be moving on to our 3rd month trying.
I don't get it, if I got a +OPK on the 15th, bd'ed that night, the 13th, 17th...wouldn't that be hitting it???
I am staring not to like this TTC ordeal 
Now I am starting to think something is wrong with me.
Message edited 8/28/2007 6:13:59 PM.
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sasha96
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
sorry! that's a part of ttc that can be so hard...even if you time it perfectly, chart/temp/opk/monitor/etc, you still only have a chance of getting PG. you would think the chances would be greater than they are. good luck next time...hope you get your bfp then!
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| Posted 8/28/07 6:14 PM |
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JennZ
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
It's only month 3, don't beat yourself up over it. It will happen, sometimes just later then sooner. Don't worry. Did you get AF or just test, maybe tomorrow test again just for kicks. 
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| Posted 8/28/07 6:20 PM |
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Blondie805
Life is good :)
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
So sorry ! I know it's easier said than done, but don't be so hard on yourself...it's still early! ( I need to take my own advice!)
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| Posted 8/28/07 6:28 PM |
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Happy1
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
You girls are so supportive, thank you!! 
I only tested, Af is due tomorrow and still waiting for her to show. I usually get it every 28 days but sometimes she has a tendency of showing up on day 29 or 30.
Hopefully I am and it's just too early to tell 
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| Posted 8/28/07 6:31 PM |
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SupportACop
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
I am sorry but I will state it again...It ain't over yet!!! I know what you mean...I didn't think it was rocket science but after the past few months of trying each month I incorporate something new into the act. This month it was preseed. I am now day 2 into my 2ww and it SUX!!!
GOOD LUCK and hope for the best!!!!
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Happy1
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Posted by SupportACop
I am sorry but I will state it again...It ain't over yet!!! I know what you mean...I didn't think it was rocket science but after the past few months of trying each month I incorporate something new into the act. This month it was preseed. I am now day 2 into my 2ww and it SUX!!!
GOOD LUCK and hope for the best!!!!
Your right, I still have hope for some crazy reason.
Can you tell me what preseed is? Hmmmm...maybe I will move on to that.
Good luck on your 2ww...it does suck, I totally hear you on that one!!
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Kissy331
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
I am sorry you got a BFN but don't count yourself out just yet...Until AF shows her face, you are not out! It is very hard though to see that BFN. Like others have said, sometimes it takes some time! Don't beat yourself up about it & try to have fun & remain positive!
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| Posted 8/28/07 7:06 PM |
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Chai77
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
I'm sorry you got a BFN. I would test again tomorrow with FMU. Even if it's not your month, hang in there. I know how disappointing ttc can be.
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| Posted 8/28/07 7:07 PM |
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TeamSweet
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Posted by Chai77
I'm sorry you got a BFN. I would test again tomorrow with FMU. Even if it's not your month, hang in there. I know how disappointing ttc can be.
Yup, I would definitely test again in the morning with FMU. Like everyone else has said, you never know until AF shows!
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| Posted 8/28/07 8:44 PM |
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snowflake08
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
what is preseed and ww??
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| Posted 8/28/07 8:54 PM |
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alexlynn7
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
it sounds like you timed BDing perfectly well - but even so, there is only a relatively small chance of getting pregnant during any one cycle. 3 months seems like a lot (definitely been there...), but it's really not in the scheme of ttc...
now as far as this cycle is concerned, if AF is due tomorrow, you still may be pregnant. i tested the day before she was due and got a negative. i actually didn't get a positive until the day AFTER she was due - and i am now 33 weeks pregnant. so don't lose hope, this could still be it for you!!!
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| Posted 8/28/07 9:03 PM |
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kmac
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Don't lose hope until you see AF! It's so hard to see the BFN and I think we all know the feeling. No matter how perfectly everything is timed the chances are so small. It will happen though! Stay positive. Don't you wish you knew how hard it was all those years you were trying to prevent. haha.  We are all  for you!
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| Posted 8/28/07 10:10 PM |
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sweetdreams
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
try to stay strong-even though it seems so hard sometimes.
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| Posted 8/28/07 10:19 PM |
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SupportACop
Momma's Boy & Lovin' it!!
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Posted by sweetdreams
try to stay strong-even though it seems so hard sometimes.
So true! 
PRE SEED: Pre~Seed is the first "sperm-friendly" Intimate Moisture that mimics natural body secretions to relieve vaginal dryness while providing an optimal sperm environment. Pre~Seed's moisture is delivered in a fluid with the same pH and osmolarity as semen, so as not to harm sperm, and to be mild to a woman's body.
Pre~Seed contains a naturally occurring bioactive plant sugar (arabinogalactan) which provides antioxidant support to cells. Antioxidant levels can be severely decreased in semen from men with fertility problems (see Reference Library) Pre~Seed comes in convenient single use vaginal applicators to coat the vagina and external cervix to replenish nature's moisture without harming sperm even while trying to conceive – a time of increased vaginal dryness when other personal lubricants should be avoided.
PRESEED- from the website Pre Seed
Just another thing to stress over but when I heard others use it and after the first month got a BFP I will try anything so I bought 2 boxes. it is supposed to coat the little swimmies so they can travel safely to the egg..as I think of it. Let's see if it works for me
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SupportACop
Momma's Boy & Lovin' it!!
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Also check out the post from women who used it...
http://www.lifamilies.com/chat/topic.aspx?ID=181501
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sfp0701
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
OH I am sorry! BUT... just like everyone else said... it is not over yet. You didn't use FMU so that could be it. Or you could have a situation like Alexlynn where she didn't get a positive until after AF was due. It sucks so bad to see the negative and you held out soooo long. 
REMEMBER... it ain't over until that wretched witch shows her ugly head.
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Happy1
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Wow, you guys...I am speechless! I can't get over how supportive a group of strangers are. I can actually cry, you girls are amazing and I truly thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me stay positive about this.
I never realized how much energy TTC can take out of a person.
I promise I will remain positive. Your right, it's not over until the wretched witch shows her ugle head (thanks spf0701  )!
Thanks for all the preseed info SupportACop and thanks to the rest of you for helping me keep my head held high.
As for you Alexlynn you are living proof, that's awesome...CONGRATS to you! Wishing you a happy and health few more weeks! Your almost there!! ALL THE BEST TO YOU!!! 
Love you girls!!! LOTS OF BABY DUST TO YOU GIRLS!!!
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Happy1
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Oh and of course I will continue to keep you posted!!
AF is due today, I really hope she doesn't show...so far no signs of her, thank God!!! I pray it stays this way
If no show I will test FMU tomorrow.
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hopin4baby
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Don't give up until AF shows!!
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Rycois
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Sorry!
Unless your DH has a sperm issue BD everyday for a few days after when you get your positive OPK. And every day if you see CM. If it's there - you're probably fertile.
Try to hang in there - I charted and did everything I thought I needed to do and it took 7 months the first time and 3 months the second time.
 
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Happy1
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Posted by SweetCaroline
Sorry!
Unless your DH has a sperm issue BD everyday for a few days after when you get your positive OPK. And every day if you see CM. If it's there - you're probably fertile.
Try to hang in there - I charted and did everything I thought I needed to do and it took 7 months the first time and 3 months the second time.
Thanks so much for sharing and I will certainly try to be more patient.
I have a friend who started trying the same month as me and she just found out she is pg. I guess some people are more lucky than others.
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mskittynj
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Posted by Happy1
a BFN!!!!!!
I am so upset, I didn't think this was going to be so hard...emotionially, physically and mentally.
We will now be moving on to our 3rd month trying.
I don't get it, if I got a +OPK on the 15th, bd'ed that night, the 13th, 17th...wouldn't that be hitting it???
I am staring not to like this TTC ordeal
Now I am starting to think something is wrong with me.
awwww hunny!!!!! I was really sure this was it for you!!! Don't be discouraged, I'm going into my 5th month!!!! I always thought this was gonna be a 1 time shot deal! (boy was I wrong) The average couple takes 6 months to conceive! Don't be down stay positive! It will happen sooner than you think!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty
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Happy1
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Re: After driving everyone crazy the end result is...
Posted by mskittynj
Posted by Happy1
a BFN!!!!!!
I am so upset, I didn't think this was going to be so hard...emotionially, physically and mentally.
We will now be moving on to our 3rd month trying.
I don't get it, if I got a +OPK on the 15th, bd'ed that night, the 13th, 17th...wouldn't that be hitting it???
I am staring not to like this TTC ordeal
Now I am starting to think something is wrong with me.
awwww hunny!!!!! I was really sure this was it for you!!! Don't be discouraged, I'm going into my 5th month!!!! I always thought this was gonna be a 1 time shot deal! (boy was I wrong) The average couple takes 6 months to conceive! Don't be down stay positive! It will happen sooner than you think!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty
You are too sweet!!! Thank you so much!!!
I wish you all the best, someone like you truly deserves it!!!
We will just have to stay positive together and it will happen
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