I will probably tell our parents right after the first dr's appointment. I could not keep it a secret for 12 weeks from my mom. For everyone else, I am going to try and hold out for the 12 weeks. I am definitely someone who typically has a couple of drinks when out to dinner with friends, etc. so I feel like I may have to go into hiding so no one will know!!! I would tell my BF earlier but she has a BIG mouth, so going to try not to. I am not good with secrets, so will see how it goes.