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Not only did I have my D&C today but I also found out that DS's teacher at daycare is 10 weeks pregnant. She will be due around the time that I would have given birth I feel so mad at myself that I cant be happy for her right now

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I hope you're feeling ok and I know what you mean, its hard for me to see pregnant women right now. it will get better, today is 4 days after my D&C, and I'm feeling better each day (emotionally and physically).

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to both of you

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I know its very hard. it seems after i mc in may everyone around me was pregnant and due around the time i was. off the top of my head i can count 6 family members. It almost tore me apart.
It gets better. I know its not something u belive right now but it does. My second mc was the end of november. I have heard of pregnancies and truthfully i couldnt be happier for people this time around. I am thrilled beyond belief when someone on the if board gets a bfp!

Time does make it more bearable. Im sorry you are going thru this. Know its OKAY to be feeling the way u do. You will go thru the stages of sadness, anger, hurt etc and its perfectly normal.

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I totally hear you on this...my 2 best friends are pregnant and our due dates were just a week apart and i've been dying inside because I work with one of them so hearing all the baby talk and seeing her is just hurting me so bad and it makes me feel so selfish. And then today I found out my cousin is pregnant