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ddunne2
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Name: Doreen
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Anyone feel like all they do all day is yell?
I am my wits end! DD is 2, DS is 4 and we dont go more than 10 minutes without me telling someone to stop what they are doing, break up fights over toys, etc etc! I can't entertain them all day and the second I pay my attention somewhere else it chaos! I can't deal with it anymore. I want to run out the door the second my DH gets home!
I know everyone says enjoy this time, they are only little once, but right now, I'd give anything to fast foward to the school aged years
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Posted 2/26/09 4:55 PM |
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yankinmanc
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Re: Anyone feel like all they do all day is yell?
Thats why Mommy works!!!
I do spend my while day saying things like Noah, listen to me. Noah...Noah...look at me. Noah, I'm talking to you...
Things like that...
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Posted 2/26/09 5:02 PM |
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ddunne2
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Name: Doreen
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Re: Anyone feel like all they do all day is yell?
Posted by racheeeee
Thats why Mommy works!!!
I do spend my while day saying things like Noah, listen to me. Noah...Noah...look at me. Noah, I'm talking to you...
Things like that...
I hear ya! I work two days a week, but its not enough!
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Posted 2/26/09 5:05 PM |
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Re: Anyone feel like all they do all day is yell?
I feel the same way. Some days I want to record "leave her alone" and keep it on a loop . I am going to start taking yoga though to help me relax a little and try and do some things at home. The instructor told me that was her saving grace when her kids were little like this. I hoping she is right.
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Posted 2/26/09 6:10 PM |
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Elizabeth
Mom of Three
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Re: Anyone feel like all they do all day is yell?
My kids are the same age and I have a 6 yr old too and I felt the same way - all day long it was yelling and breaking up fights. The worst is when you hear yourself yelling "Stop yelling!" After awhile they don't even hear it anymore so I've been concious about not yelling. They take on that energy you give off from yelling too and get even more amped up. I have found trying to talk calmer is really helpful - more than you'd believe. I have family members where the parents are both always yelling (I'm lucky bc my DH is not a yeller) and the kids have totally tuned them out, it's really insane bc it takes on a whole other vibe. I mean the kids barely even answer at all even when they aren't being yelled at - you have to ask them Q's 4x to get an answer. They just learn to tune out.
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Posted 2/26/09 6:22 PM |
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pharmcat2000
Mom of 2 + 1
Member since 10/05 7395 total posts
Name: Catherine
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Re: Anyone feel like all they do all day is yell?
Some days I feel like this and I only have 1 right now!! I often have to make a conscious effort to stop yelling at her and try other approaches.
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Posted 2/27/09 2:41 AM |
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pharmcat2000
Mom of 2 + 1
Member since 10/05 7395 total posts
Name: Catherine
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Re: Anyone feel like all they do all day is yell?
Posted by ddunne2
I know everyone says enjoy this time, they are only little once, but right now, I'd give anything to fast foward to the school aged years
It's even worse then! My niece and nephew are 5 & 11 and I yell at them alot more than my 2 year old.
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Posted 2/27/09 2:42 AM |
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