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MsMitcia
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Anyone have any extra dresses? UPDATE AGAIN

Here is the story. I work as a Project Manager for a not-for-profit company. We build rehab facilities for those w/ mental health or addiction issues. Our residents live in our buildings for 2 years and while there they get the help they need as well as learn skills to help them prepare for life when they finished their rehab.

Well, we have one building, my favorite, and it houses girls aged 12-17 who all have addiction problems of some sort, whether it was drugs, alcohol, even prostitution. These girls are all missing their proms/dances or some sort of graduation party and have been so upset over it. I was there today and these girls are so sweet and cleaning themselves up so wonderfully and it broke my heart that they all were so down this time of year.

One of the girls is graduating out of the program in June and it is also the day she turns 16. The girls decided to have a sweet 16 party in their courtyard, and get dressed up and make it like a prom, graduation, birthday party in one.

The building director went to those places that give dresses to those girls who need prom dresses but cannot afford it, but they will not help us as this is not technically a "school" prom. So, these girls are very upset that now they cant have a dresses for this event, b/c honestly, most of them can't afford to buy anything like this. All they want is a chance to get out of their uniforms and dress up like most girls their age do around now w/ all the parties and proms going on.

I started thinking of what I could do to help, I thought, I have a few bridesmaids dresses and some others I don't wear, and I am sure some of you do too. If anyone has a dress they would like to donate to these girls they would so appreciate it. I really hope I can pull this off for them. They all have turned their lives around and are the sweetest bunch of girls you'd ever meet. There are girls there that were prostitutes and on drugs at age 12, its just so sad and I'm happy that they are getting the help they need.

If anyone has any sort of party dress they wouldn't mind donating, I and I know these girls would appreciate it. Even if its too big or whatever, these girls all are different sizes and shapes, but I will take care of getting it tailored for them. I need dresses for 16 girls. If anyone has anything, please FM me.

TIA
UPDATE
Wow...seriously the response from everyone here has been incredible. My office is in tremendous gratitude to everyone who offered to help us. Now that we got so many responses, we are going to offer girls in another building to come to the party as well, if we do get enough for everyone. All extras we will donate to another not-for-profit for their use.

Since the response has been so tremendous, we are asking if possible, can any donations be sent to our office and any monetary donations be made out to Odyssey House Foundation...and please indicate this is for the girls at 1264 Layfayette. With any donations we are going to get better food then a bbq and decorations as well as alittle something for the girl graduating w/ her GED and out of the program. Also, if we can get some monetary donations, we are going to get the boys as the facility just like this one dress shirts so they can come as their "dates". Chat Icon

I sincerely thank all of you and yes, we will take shoes (i didn't even think of that, so thank you to whoever through it out there) and costume jewelry, bags, etc.

If possible, please send to my office as we will have the girls come and have a dress shopping experience in our offices after hours. If you can't ship, please FM me and I will pick up whenever, wherever.

Again, I live in Seaford adn work in NYC. Anyone who lives close, I wll pick up or work in NYC, I will pick up there if you want. I wish I could pick everything up from anyone not to put anyone out, but I think it will get alittle nuts. Just let me know if you need me to pick up and we can arrange a time within the next few weeks.

Our address is:
Odyssey House Inc.
95 Pine Street
NY, NY 10005
Attention: Tina

Again, thank you so much, everyone is so excited, this is going to be even better then they imagine and we are so grateful to all of you to make this happen for our girls and possible teenage boys....

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SATURDAY NIGHT UPDATE
Just wanted to thank everyone again. Any donations are so welcome right now as these girls/boys have been through so much in their young lives and basically, they have nothing. I am working my way through all my FM's, and I promise, no FM will go unanswered, but I have so many, and its taking me awhile setting up pickup, etc....I appreciate everyone on this forum, I am so grateful for your help.....words cannot express how happy we are right now for your support.

Message edited 5/24/2008 9:30:40 PM.

Posted 5/22/08 5:45 PM
 
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Goobster
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

This is a very nice thing to do. I will see if I have any. I am sure we can all come up with so many they won't be able to choose. Chat Icon

Posted 5/22/08 5:48 PM
 

MsSissy
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

When do you need these by? Where are you located? How can we get them to you?

Message edited 5/22/2008 5:50:40 PM.

Posted 5/22/08 5:49 PM
 

headoverheels
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

i am pretty sure i do... i will check and get back to you Chat Icon

Posted 5/22/08 5:50 PM
 

MsMitcia
27 dresses.?.ha..TY everyone

Member since 8/06

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Name:
Tina

Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

Posted by Goobster

This is a very nice thing to do. I will see if I have any. I am sure we can all come up with so many they won't be able to choose. Chat Icon



Thank you so much.....you made me smile and I've been so upset over this all day. I am on the construction side of operations, but I own my projects in a sense, so when the buildings are occupied, I still find myself attached...

Posted 5/22/08 5:54 PM
 

MsMitcia
27 dresses.?.ha..TY everyone

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Tina

Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

Posted by Mssissy

When do you need these by? Where are you located? How can we get them to you?



I need them by the middle of June. I will come pick up any donations, I am so grateful. I am in Seaford, but this is a mission for me, so I will come get anything anyone has to offer. Thank you again everyone. I really appreciate it.

Posted 5/22/08 5:55 PM
 

kmac
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Kris

Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

I definitely have a few dresses for you--let me look tonight and see what I have!

Posted 5/22/08 6:00 PM
 

MsSissy
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

Posted by MsMitcia

Posted by Mssissy

When do you need these by? Where are you located? How can we get them to you?



I need them by the middle of June. I will come pick up any donations, I am so grateful. I am in Seaford, but this is a mission for me, so I will come get anything anyone has to offer. Thank you again everyone. I really appreciate it.




I do have a few things. 1 is a real cute skirt set and the other is a polka dotted blk/wht dress. They aren't prom like gowns, would these be alright?
They are size 8 & 10.

ETA: I also found my daughters maid of honor dress (2 pc) that you are welcome to have.
I'm in Lake Ronkonkoma. If you're comfortable with it, you can FM me an address to ship them to.

Message edited 5/22/2008 6:27:15 PM.

Posted 5/22/08 6:02 PM
 

MsMitcia
27 dresses.?.ha..TY everyone

Member since 8/06

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Name:
Tina

Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

Posted by Mssissy

Posted by MsMitcia

Posted by Mssissy

When do you need these by? Where are you located? How can we get them to you?



I need them by the middle of June. I will come pick up any donations, I am so grateful. I am in Seaford, but this is a mission for me, so I will come get anything anyone has to offer. Thank you again everyone. I really appreciate it.




I do have a few things. 1 is a real cute skirt set and the other is a polka dotted blk/wht dress. They aren't prom like gowns, would these be alright?
They are size 8 & 10.



My my gosh, yes, that is fine....I just called the building director and told her that people were going to look and she started crying....I really appreciate it. I am going up there, its in the Bronx, the day of, to help the girls w/ their hair and makeup if we can pull this off...I really hope we can.

The cute thing is, we have another building in NYC which is boys of the same age, same issues, and they will be coming as their "dates"...Now, I just got to figure out how to get the tuxes...lol...that one, not so easy..lol..

Posted 5/22/08 6:07 PM
 

MsSissy
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

Posted by MsMitcia

Posted by Mssissy

Posted by MsMitcia

Posted by Mssissy

When do you need these by? Where are you located? How can we get them to you?



I need them by the middle of June. I will come pick up any donations, I am so grateful. I am in Seaford, but this is a mission for me, so I will come get anything anyone has to offer. Thank you again everyone. I really appreciate it.




I do have a few things. 1 is a real cute skirt set and the other is a polka dotted blk/wht dress. They aren't prom like gowns, would these be alright?
They are size 8 & 10.



My my gosh, yes, that is fine....I just called the building director and told her that people were going to look and she started crying....I really appreciate it. I am going up there, its in the Bronx, the day of, to help the girls w/ their hair and makeup if we can pull this off...I really hope we can.

The cute thing is, we have another building in NYC which is boys of the same age, same issues, and they will be coming as their "dates"...Now, I just got to figure out how to get the tuxes...lol...that one, not so easy..lol..



Great than they're yours! And they're CLEAN alreadyChat Icon
I will talk to a few friends to see if I can get anything else.Chat Icon
16 dresses is nothing! The women on this site will come through, I just know it!Chat Icon

Posted 5/22/08 6:16 PM
 

Kara
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

I am on my way up to scour my closet! I may not have anything fancy, but I probably have SOMETHING. I'll do my best!!

Posted 5/22/08 6:17 PM
 

baghag
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

I'll check my closet and get back to you. Chat Icon

Posted 5/22/08 6:21 PM
 

Kara
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

Found one! I actually have a simple black dress -- It's not super fancy, but I think I wore it to a semi-formal function at work and it was fine.

I only wore it once b/c it's too big for me now. It's a size 14. If that's not too big, you're welcome to have it.

Posted 5/22/08 6:23 PM
 

Juliet
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

I will look through the bridesmaid dresses I think I still have. If my mom didn't donate them already, they are yours.

See if you can make this thread a sticky for a while so it doesn't drop to page 10 and we all forget to look.

If I can unload the dresses I have (I think I have two or three) I will be as happy as the girls receiving them.

Posted 5/22/08 6:27 PM
 

Donna
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

I don't know about dresses but what about shoes?

I know I have 2 BRAND NEW pairs of those white dyables, they were never worn, they're still in the bag and boxes, they're 8 1/2 and you're welcome to them

Posted 5/22/08 6:27 PM
 

Celt
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

I'm going to look tonight too!! And I've linked this on the LIW Newlywed board!!
What a great idea!!!!

Posted 5/22/08 6:28 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

honestly, i don't have anything pretty.

but...

do they need anything else??

shoes?
accessories?

i think i could help in that dept

Posted 5/22/08 6:28 PM
 

Kara
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

Posted by Donna

I don't know about dresses but what about shoes?

I know I have 2 BRAND NEW pairs of those white dyables, they were never worn, they're still in the bag and boxes, they're 8 1/2 and you're welcome to them



That's a great thought! If you need shoes, too, I will see if I have any of those to donate. I'm not a shoe fiend, so I may not, but I will look!

Posted 5/22/08 6:28 PM
 

MsSissy
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

Posted by Donna

I don't know about dresses but what about shoes?

I know I have 2 BRAND NEW pairs of those white dyables, they were never worn, they're still in the bag and boxes, they're 8 1/2 and you're welcome to them



OOOHHH 1 of those would go real cute with the blk/wht polka dot dress I haveChat Icon

Posted 5/22/08 6:29 PM
 

stayandjohn
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

I think I still have a lilac bridesmaid dress. very pretty, high neck halter. I'll go to my moms to see if its stilll there

Posted 5/22/08 6:31 PM
 

LoveyQ
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

This is such a great thing that you're doing! I will look to see if I have anything!!!

Posted 5/22/08 6:32 PM
 

rose825
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

I have a pink champagne colored bridesmaid dress in size 18 I think. Its yours if someone can use it.

Posted 5/22/08 6:34 PM
 

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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

FM Chat Icon

Posted 5/22/08 6:35 PM
 

MRamirez
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

I have a lilac bridesmaid dress in size 14 and a mocha bridesmaid dress in size 10. They both need to be dry cleaned but you can have them if you want.

Posted 5/22/08 6:49 PM
 

Shorty
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Re: Anyone have any extra dresses? LONG

such a great idea!!!

I'll check for dresses Chat Icon

Posted 5/22/08 6:56 PM
 
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