Anyone's husband freaked out about TTC?

DH wants to start a family so badly and actually wanted to discuss it the DAY AFTER we got married!!!!

I have always kinda brushed it off, but now that I think I am ready, he's freaking out about $$$ and having enough time, me working, nannies...everything!

Anyone else?

Re: Anyone's husband freaked out about TTC?

The reality is setting in for him, huh??

I am sure that is will be temporary! My friend pointed out to me that everyone has to remember that you have almost 10 months to get your ducks in a row. She said she thinks it is a popular misconception you IMMEDIATELY have to figure out what you are going to do once you get pg.

Re: Anyone's husband freaked out about TTC?

DH always likes to have everything all planned out, and this is new territory for him....he is so scared of newborns!!! I know he will make a great dad, but he gets so nervous about his ability to provide, even though he is the best provider I could imagine!

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My DH is totally freaked out. Just bringing up the subject used to get him so nervous, it was so cute. But the other day i was saying maybe we should put it off a few months becasue I am looking for a new job and i didn't want to start so soon after getting a new job (of course thats if i get one). And he was all against it, he's like we said we would start in september and w will keep to the plan. It was so cute one minute he's freaking out and the next he wants to start ttc. I think everyone freaks out at first but they relax afte a while.

Re: Anyone's husband freaked out about TTC?

My husband cannot wait!! He is more excited than I am, I am excited but sooo scared!