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baby shower gift question... NOW WITH UPDATE

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MarathonKnitter
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baby shower gift question... NOW WITH UPDATE

a little background: i hosted a shower for a friend. now, she's having one hosted by her mom/mil.

do you think this is a good gift?

*3 hand-knit washclothes with baby footprints on them in different colors
*3 hand painted onesies that say:
"jersey girl"
the family last name in "soprano font"
"i attended Lizbeth and John's wedding" (she was pregnant at my wedding but didn't know it)
*hand-knit booties to match a hand-knit hat i already gave her

the reason i ask is this.... i'm poor and all my items are "cheap".
she comes from well-to-do people.

i don't want it to look like i'm a cheap-o friend.

please be brutally honest

tia



UPDATE:
thank you all for your words of encouragement. (sorry i forgot to take pictures)

my friend's shower was yesterday. it was sooo nice and i bet it cost a small fortune.
i showed up with my little home-made gift... i did change it up a little from what i originally planned.

i gave her:
* 3 hand-knit washcloths (like planned)
* i didn't give her the booties, b/c the closure wasn't finished (i'll give them to her later)
* so, i decided to get an extra pack of onsies... ended up making 10.
they said...
~family last name in "soprano font" b/c mom is a big fan
~everyone loves a jersey girl
~fuggetabout it!
~future bon jovi fan
~i went to liz and john's wedding and all i got was this lousy onesie
~diva
~got milk?
~100% organic
~2007 tax deduction
~baby zorn version 1.0

THE GIFT WAS A HIT!!!
everyone asked where i bought them, and i sooooo proudly told them that i MADE THEM ALL!!

thank you all again, for giving me the encouragement to stand behind my handy-work.

Message edited 5/20/2007 6:42:30 PM.

Posted 5/14/07 3:04 PM
 
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Re: baby shower gift question

I think its a beautiful and thoughtful gift, and I would be very moved by your thoughtfullness...especially since you already hosted her shower. MHO.

Posted 5/14/07 3:06 PM
 

nbc188
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Re: baby shower gift question

Posted by MST9106

I think its a beautiful and thoughtful gift, and I would be very moved by your thoughtfullness...especially since you already hosted her shower. MHO.



Couldn't agree more. They're very thoughful (and cute) ideas!

Posted 5/14/07 3:07 PM
 

Phoebee
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Re: baby shower gift question

That is very generous and considerate of you! Especially since you're throwing her a shower as well. She'll love it Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/07 3:10 PM
 

karacg
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Re: baby shower gift question

I totally agree!! You are very sweet!

Posted 5/14/07 3:20 PM
 

Lillykat
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Re: baby shower gift question

I think that is a great gift. I sure she will appreciate the thought that went into it - besides it is the thought not the amount spent that matters.

Posted 5/14/07 3:22 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
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Re: baby shower gift question

thanks ladies. i feel better now.


Posted by Lillykat

I think that is a great gift. I sure she will appreciate the thought that went into it - besides it is the thought not the amount spent that matters.



i know that she's one who loves the fact that the items are (for the most part) hand made. it's just that i don't want to feel uncomfortable in a room of women i don't know and have them think i'm a tight-wad.

as i'm typing this, i realize that it's the mommy-to-be who matters. SHE is the one who is my friend, not her family and in-laws. who cares what they think/feel about my gift?!

ok, i feel better.
thanks for letting me vent/think-out-loud on this one.

**back to knitting**
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Posted 5/14/07 3:35 PM
 

smdl
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Re: baby shower gift question

Posted by nbc188

Posted by MST9106

I think its a beautiful and thoughtful gift, and I would be very moved by your thoughtfullness...especially since you already hosted her shower. MHO.



Couldn't agree more. They're very thoughful (and cute) ideas!



ITA

Posted 5/14/07 3:37 PM
 

smdl
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Re: baby shower gift question

Posted by libby2595
i know that she's one who loves the fact that the items are (for the most part) hand made. it's just that i don't want to feel uncomfortable in a room of women i don't know and have them think i'm a tight-wad.



Be proud of you handy work. Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/07 3:38 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
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Re: baby shower gift question... NOW WITH UPDATE

BUMP FOR UPDATE

Posted 5/20/07 6:42 PM
 

MrsK
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Re: baby shower gift question... NOW WITH UPDATE

wow! That is such a great idea!! I love it! Can you post a pic?

Posted 5/20/07 7:10 PM
 
 

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