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Posted by kdelace


I know.. I am not going to go THERE though... some of you might change your mind about letting your DH go!! (just kidding!)

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Posted by Marcie

Posted by kdelace


I know.. I am not going to go THERE though... some of you might change your mind about letting your DH go!! (just kidding!)

Oh boy!

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i dont know. i havent been in this situation.

i would say that i'd be ok with it as long as he was home at a specific time.. but idont mind if he drinks. its the strippers i wouldnt like.

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Posted by kdelace

Posted by Marcie

Posted by kdelace


I know.. I am not going to go THERE though... some of you might change your mind about letting your DH go!! (just kidding!)

Oh boy!

Just to clarify, I am NOT a stripper!!

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ok.. so i voted "Nah, he can go and drink", b/c that really is what it comes down to. i would NEVER tell him not to go (this is just in the instance of a BP.. not going to a strip club all the time "just 'cause"). BUTTTT i'm not happy about it either. i trust him, and i consider myself a Very secure person, But its just not a situation that i like the thought of. I completely disagree with people "disallowing" their DHs to do something- i feel like that is Demeaning and out of place, and so i would never do it, But you also wont ever catch me saying "Oh Im so glad theres a BP tonight so DH can go out and see some strippers" just ain't happening.

also- i didnt want to add super long quotes, but i completely agree with what Both Flee and Don had to say.

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Posted by kdelace

Posted by Marcie

Posted by kdelace


I know.. I am not going to go THERE though... some of you might change your mind about letting your DH go!! (just kidding!)

Oh boy!

Just to clarify, I am NOT a stripper!!

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Posted by FeliciaDP

Posted by Marcie

He can go - I have no problems with it.

I also know that my DH hates going to bachelor parties with strippers (I think he is the minority! )

Well my DH also gets NOTHING out of strippers or that sort of thing, so I guess both our hubbies are in the minority

That said - am I THRILLED when I hear that my DH might be at a party with strippers? well NO, not particuarly. But do I care/would I prevent him from going? Again- NO

What I DON"T agree with (and many of you may disagree with my feelings) is the "private parties' in hotel rooms and such, where strippers are hired as entertainment I dont mind strip clubs because there are some rules and limitations to what goes on, but the private stripper thingy is BAD NEWS (IMO) I've heard TOO many stories and its just not something I'd really like my husband to be a part of, IF I had the choice (which I don't , since he can choose what he wants to do)

AND NO it has nothing to do with trust, I trust my DH completely .. its just sleazy is all

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Don, what would you do if Boosh said I don't allow you to go to your friends bachelor party?

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Posted by Moehick

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by Moehick

Don, what would you do if Boosh said I don't allow you to go to your friends bachelor party?

i'd tell her to go scratch

Leave a little sauce for her and she will be fine!

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and as for janice, hers is a COMPLETELY different story

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I don't have a problem with it at all. I just get a little jeleous, but that's just how I am. Once he comes home and tells me all about it, I don't care.

For DH's bachelor party, they went to AC, and had 2 lesbian strippers, who performed on each other!

Of course I WILL NOT sit home alone while he is out! I go out with the girls, and have our own fun!

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Posted by jar823

I don't have a problem with it at all. I just get a little jeleous, but that's just how I am. Once he comes home and tells me all about it, I don't care.

For DH's bachelor party, they went to AC, and had 2 lesbian strippers, who performed on each other!

Of course I WILL NOT sit home alone while he is out! I go out with the girls, and have our own fun!

Message edited 8/11/2005 6:15:14 PM.

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I wouldn't ban him from going, but I wouldn't be happy about an overnight thing with private strippers.
Drinking and going to a strip club, thats no problem.

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Posted by kdelace

Posted by jar823

I don't have a problem with it at all. I just get a little jeleous, but that's just how I am. Once he comes home and tells me all about it, I don't care.

For DH's bachelor party, they went to AC, and had 2 lesbian strippers, who performed on each other!

Of course I WILL NOT sit home alone while he is out! I go out with the girls, and have our own fun!

speaking of having our own fun, I have been to a few bachelorette parties and whoa!!!!! SOME girls can be just as crazy as the guys..


Not me though... For mine, we went to some show in the city and I performed the song Like a Virgin on stage with my girls as my backup singers/dancers!!!

And I did NOT pick the song!!

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I would have no problem whatsoever letting DH attend a bachelor party with strippers there. If he was going weekly to strip bars I'd start thinking about our relationship. My only rule is as always "you can look, but ya can't touch!"

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My take is...
I have no problem with him going, no problem with strippers, no problem with drinking...
BUT...he better not drive home drunk and I'm not a big fan of the "staying out all night". I see no reason that a married man has to be out past 3 or 4 am.

JMO

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Posted by Moehick

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

you're awesome!!!!

Thank You My DH and his friends are all going to one at the end of the month and one of the wives had to know if there would be strippers because if so....her DH would not be allowed to go. Her DH who is a friend of my DH's wasn't allowed to go to my DH's for that reason.

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