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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
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Jennifer
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Re: Bachelor Partys
i have no problem with it....
But i do not like the all nighters...unless it is because of excessive drinking...
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ggt08
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by MrsERod
Posted by june262004
Posted by Scotty-CassidysMom
My take is...
I have no problem with him going, no problem with strippers, no problem with drinking...
BUT...he better not drive home drunk and I'm not a big fan of the "staying out all night". I see no reason that a married man has to be out past 3 or 4 am.
JMO
Perfect! I totally agree with that!
YEP!! Exactly!!
i agree with that as well. My fellow bartenders and I always say, anyone out past 2am is looking for trouble!!
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| Posted 8/11/05 6:41 PM |
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Lichi
what what!?
Member since 5/05 4206 total posts
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Lissette
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Hope about bachelor weekends? Are those guys looking for trouble?
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| Posted 8/11/05 6:46 PM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
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Properly perfect™
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Re: Bachelor Partys
If DH is drinking I would rather him sleep over a friends house to know he is safe
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| Posted 8/11/05 8:25 PM |
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CowgirlChick97
Nike. Just do it.
Member since 5/05 3303 total posts
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Brianna
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Re: Bachelor Partys
I think I might be in the latter here...but here i go:
I've NEVER been to a strip club, neither has FH...He doesn't have much interest in them bc he knows i'll perform a dance for him 
I just think they are very seedy-i just feel like why would u have to go see girls dance, instead of asking me to? I dunno....
The girls IMO are skanky---I don't think FH is going to a strip club for his bachelor party-he's just not into that-and I hope he doesn't!! The thought of a girl dancing all over him and touching him grosses me out IMO...and also pisses me off. LOL. As far as the private parties go....absolutely not.
Now the MALE strip clubs i've heard are really bad, what they do to you...yikes!!
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| Posted 8/11/05 9:03 PM |
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ggt08
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by Syliblond81106
I think I might be in the latter here...but here i go:
I've NEVER been to a strip club, neither has FH...He doesn't have much interest in them bc he knows i'll perform a dance for him
I just think they are very seedy-i just feel like why would u have to go see girls dance, instead of asking me to? I dunno....
The girls IMO are skanky---I don't think FH is going to a strip club for his bachelor party-he's just not into that-and I hope he doesn't!! The thought of a girl dancing all over him and touching him grosses me out IMO...and also pisses me off. LOL. As far as the private parties go....absolutely not.
Now the MALE strip clubs i've heard are really bad, what they do to you...yikes!!
But if he DID want to go, lets say a Bachelor Party that was having strippers, would you be ok with him going or would you not ALLOW him to go... that sis the main issue everyone is talking about. a lot of girls dont like the idea but wont stop their husbands from going...
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| Posted 8/11/05 9:33 PM |
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DjPiLL
Member since 5/05 3664 total posts
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Richard
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Re: Bachelor Partys
My DW gave me three simple rules for my bachelor party weekend in Vegas:
1. Don't f--- anybody
2. Don't drink and drive
3. Don't gamble the co-op away
Thats IT! Anything else would have been fair game. But frankly I didnt even do anything. We went clubbing all weekend. I didn't even see a single pair of tits the whole weekend in Vegas if you can believe that. And I had a GREAT time.
We ended up going to a strip bar back in NYC the week after I returned... which was cool because one of my groomsmen couldn't go to Vegas because of an overbearing f--king wife!  He was able to at least go to the strip club in NYC for the night.
Any woman who wouldn't allow her husband to go to a bachelor party or go away with a bunch of guys for a couple of days for a bachelor party has SERIOUS INSECURITY ISSUES. End of story... case closed.
Its ok to "not like it". But its NOT ok to force your DH to not go if it means a lot to him and he wants to go.
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| Posted 8/11/05 9:47 PM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
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Re: Bachelor Partys
I voted absolutely not because of the way the question was phrased...Do you have an issue with BP? my answer is NO. So that may be why there are so many absolutely nots.
It wouldn't bother me if DH went to a BP with strippers -- I trust him 100000000%
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| Posted 8/11/05 10:12 PM |
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05mommy09
Family of 5!
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by FeliciaDP
Posted by Marcie
He can go - I have no problems with it.
I also know that my DH hates going to bachelor parties with strippers (I think he is the minority!  )
Well my DH also gets NOTHING out of strippers or that sort of thing, so I guess both our hubbies are in the minority 
That said - am I THRILLED when I hear that my DH might be at a party with strippers? well NO, not particuarly. But do I care/would I prevent him from going? Again- NO
What I DON"T agree with (and many of you may disagree with my feelings) is the "private parties' in hotel rooms and such, where strippers are hired as entertainment  I dont mind strip clubs because there are some rules and limitations to what goes on, but the private stripper thingy is BAD NEWS (IMO) I've heard TOO many stories and its just not something I'd really like my husband to be a part of, IF I had the choice (which I don't , since he can choose what he wants to do)
AND NO it has nothing to do with trust, I trust my DH completely .. its just sleazy is all 
I couldnt agree more with everything you said!!
DH is not into strippers AT all... he'd rather go have a few beer with the guys and discuss sports and cars...
I would NEVER tell him he couldnt go...but Im happy he has never wanted too...
As far as the private parties... I think there just gross... you wanna go to a strip club...and watch from a distance...go right ahead... but there is no need to be in a hotel room with these chicks...
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| Posted 8/11/05 10:19 PM |
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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
Member since 5/05 11357 total posts
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Kathy
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Re: Bachelor Partys
No way, I dont agree with private parties at ALL!
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| Posted 8/11/05 10:22 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
Member since 5/05 27567 total posts
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Janice
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Re: Bachelor Partys
i guess the thing I find funny is sitting your spouse down and going over ground rules. It is a marriage, I am the only naked woman in his life.
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| Posted 8/11/05 10:48 PM |
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boosh1002
We like hanging together!
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Re: Bachelor Partys
I dont have any problem with Don going to bachelor parties where there is a stipper. Trust is something I dont have to worry about in our relationship. He always asks me if he's allowed to get a lap dance and I always tell him "you've had more t i ts in your face the night of your bachelor party, you dont need any more"
We've actually been to a couple of strip clubs together.
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| Posted 8/11/05 11:06 PM |
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Posted by Diane
I have no problem, I trust him
Same here - and I trust his friends, which may be even more important!
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| Posted 8/11/05 11:39 PM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by boosh1002
I dont have any problem with Don going to bachelor parties where there is a stipper. Trust is something I dont have to worry about in our relationship. He always asks me if he's allowed to get a lap dance and I always tell him "you've had more t i ts in your face the night of your bachelor party, you dont need any more"
We've actually been to a couple of strip clubs together.
If you did he would just tell ya to scratch 
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| Posted 8/12/05 7:10 AM |
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MsMBV
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Me
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by boosh1002
I dont have any problem with Don going to bachelor parties where there is a stipper. Trust is something I dont have to worry about in our relationship. He always asks me if he's allowed to get a lap dance and I always tell him "you've had more t i ts in your face the night of your bachelor party, you dont need any more"
We've actually been to a couple of strip clubs together.
I go with DH, and I have also *sent* him for his B-day. I will give his brother or his best friend a few $$ to have a good time. When we go together we even get lap dances. Really I don't find it to be a big deal. It is not an intimate experience, it is just for some fun. Not meant to offend anyone who is opposed to it, it is just the way we handle things.
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| Posted 8/12/05 7:55 AM |
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Donna
1 year already!!
Member since 5/05 3360 total posts
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Donna
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by Marcie
He can go - I have no problems with it.
I also know that my DH hates going to bachelor parties with strippers (I think he is the minority! )
No mine does also. Plus there are tons of things he rather spend his $$ on than giving it to a stripper
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| Posted 8/12/05 8:40 AM |
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Donna
1 year already!!
Member since 5/05 3360 total posts
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Donna
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by DjPiLL
My DW gave me three simple rules for my bachelor party weekend in Vegas:
1. Don't f--- anybody
2. Don't drink and drive
3. Don't gamble the co-op away
This isn't meant to be against you personally so please don't take it this way but why does anyone tell have to tell their DH/DW #1? Aren't we already in a committed relationship?
I could not imagine doing anything with another person besides my DH (kiss/sex, etc)
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by Moehick
Posted by boosh1002
I dont have any problem with Don going to bachelor parties where there is a stipper. Trust is something I dont have to worry about in our relationship. He always asks me if he's allowed to get a lap dance and I always tell him "you've had more t i ts in your face the night of your bachelor party, you dont need any more"
We've actually been to a couple of strip clubs together.
If you did he would just tell ya to scratch
moe did you say that the girl in question recently got a lap dance at another party??
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:07 AM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by Moehick
Posted by boosh1002
I dont have any problem with Don going to bachelor parties where there is a stipper. Trust is something I dont have to worry about in our relationship. He always asks me if he's allowed to get a lap dance and I always tell him "you've had more t i ts in your face the night of your bachelor party, you dont need any more"
We've actually been to a couple of strip clubs together.
If you did he would just tell ya to scratch
moe did you say that the girl in question recently got a lap dance at another party??
Yes but she claims it is different she getting one with a male stripper rather than a female stripper at a bachelor party that her DH will attend
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| Posted 8/12/05 9:47 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by Moehick
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by Moehick
Posted by boosh1002
I dont have any problem with Don going to bachelor parties where there is a stipper. Trust is something I dont have to worry about in our relationship. He always asks me if he's allowed to get a lap dance and I always tell him "you've had more t i ts in your face the night of your bachelor party, you dont need any more"
We've actually been to a couple of strip clubs together.
If you did he would just tell ya to scratch
moe did you say that the girl in question recently got a lap dance at another party??
Yes but she claims it is different she getting one with a male stripper rather than a female stripper at a bachelor party that her DH will attend
if i was the husband, i would go and tell the wife to like it or lump it
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
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Re: Bachelor Partys
I would too but I think she has him by the balls....I don't get it why do men do that? He is handsome, successful and has $$$
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| Posted 8/13/05 8:12 AM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by Moehick
I would too but I think she has him by the balls....I don't get it why do men do that? He is handsome, successful and has $$$
hey for all we know he may be smarter than he appears
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| Posted 8/13/05 12:28 PM |
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Jax430
Hi!
Member since 5/05 18919 total posts
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Jackie
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Re: Bachelor Partys
Posted by FeliciaDP
Posted by Marcie
He can go - I have no problems with it.
I also know that my DH hates going to bachelor parties with strippers (I think he is the minority! )
Well my DH also gets NOTHING out of strippers or that sort of thing, so I guess both our hubbies are in the minority
That said - am I THRILLED when I hear that my DH might be at a party with strippers? well NO, not particuarly. But do I care/would I prevent him from going? Again- NO
What I DON"T agree with (and many of you may disagree with my feelings) is the "private parties' in hotel rooms and such, where strippers are hired as entertainment I dont mind strip clubs because there are some rules and limitations to what goes on, but the private stripper thingy is BAD NEWS (IMO) I've heard TOO many stories and its just not something I'd really like my husband to be a part of, IF I had the choice (which I don't , since he can choose what he wants to do)
AND NO it has nothing to do with trust, I trust my DH completely .. its just sleazy is all
Flee, I agree with you 100%.
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