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LIBOUND
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Suzy

BFN...now with a question for you ladies on bottom of page 1

I don't know what hurts more. Getting my period this morning, or the look in my husband's eyes when I told him.

I'm going to let myself have a knock down, drag out cry, then I'm going to call my docor and tell him that I'm going to his office on Monday morning to try for IUI #3.

Message edited 3/17/2007 2:41:26 PM.

Posted 3/17/07 10:18 AM
 
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pedsnurse
LIF Adolescent

Member since 10/06

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Amy

Re: BFN

So sorry to hear!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/17/07 10:19 AM
 

angel7
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Re: BFN

Oh I am so sorry!
Have a good cry, it will make you feel better, and then you can move on!
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Posted 3/17/07 10:19 AM
 

DancinBarefoot
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The One My Mother Gave Me ;-)

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Posted 3/17/07 10:21 AM
 

halisa
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Re: BFN

i'm so sorry suzy! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

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Posted 3/17/07 10:39 AM
 

Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it

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D

Re: BFN

Im so sorryChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/17/07 10:44 AM
 

boosh1002
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Mommy to twins

Re: BFN

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Posted 3/17/07 10:53 AM
 

skygirl
Our prayers were answered:)

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Erica

Re: BFN

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Posted 3/17/07 10:55 AM
 

CookiePuss
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Re: BFN

I'm so sorry...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/17/07 10:55 AM
 

Eva Luna
Be kind...life's hard!

Member since 8/05

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God, bless & heal my DH, JenG's DH Rob & DebG

Re: BFN

I am so very sorry!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Praying that you get your BFP SOON!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/17/07 10:59 AM
 

shaye3
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/07

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Name:
Laura

Re: BFN

Sometimes a good cry really does help..very cathartic! Praying you get your BFP very soon!

Posted 3/17/07 11:14 AM
 

Gertyrae
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Gerty ®

Re: BFN

I'm so sorry...trust me - a good, long cry makes it much better.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/17/07 11:17 AM
 

jellybean78
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Re: BFN

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Posted 3/17/07 11:19 AM
 

sami
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Re: BFN

OMFG I cant believe it I'm so sorry I swear I wish I could say something to make you feel better. I'm sorryChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/17/07 11:56 AM
 

imyself

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me

Re: BFN

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon so sorry af found you. I pray the 3rd IUI will be the charm. good luck this cycleChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/17/07 1:20 PM
 

rose825
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Posted 3/17/07 2:24 PM
 

LIBOUND
Texting king

Member since 10/05

5289 total posts

Name:
Suzy

Re: BFN

Thanks. This day is only bearable because I can talk to you guys. I finally picked myself off of the floor and called Dr. Brenner's office.

I asked if he would increase the clomid to 100mg's since the 50 didn't produce any more follies that I probably produce on my own. Last month it was two and this month only one. Am I crazy, or is this stuff SUPPOSED to help you make more follies...what's the deal?

I just got a call and he wants to see me, but won't increase the clomid for this cycle. He want so discuss other "therapies" as the nurse put it, and said that since I'm ovulating, they won't increase the clomid.

I'm confused? Why wouldn'd he increase it since two cycles didn't produce more than three follies in total?

Message edited 3/17/2007 2:40:52 PM.

Posted 3/17/07 2:40 PM
 

Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!

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Gerty ®

Re: BFN...now with a question for you ladies on bottom of page 1

Because with IUI, he's not going to want too many follicles. Then there is a higher chance of multiples. He may suggest injectables or IVF...but more Clomid is probably not the answer.
The other thing is the longer and more Clomid you take, the more it can thin your lining over time.

Posted 3/17/07 2:49 PM
 

leighla
Support Cancer Research

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Name:
Lauren

Re: BFN...now with a question for you ladies on bottom of page 1

Gerty is exactly right.

Clomid is so unpredictable as to how it's going to work with your chemistry that 2x the dosage doesn't necessarily mean 2x the follicles.

Not to discourage you but both times I was on Clomid I had a few follies for the first two cycles and then didn't respond at all for the third cycle.

They couldn't explain why, but moved us on to IVF, where I responded much better to those meds.

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Posted 3/17/07 2:54 PM
 

michele31
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

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Michele

Re: BFN...now with a question for you ladies on bottom of page 1

Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry that today was so painful. I hope the doctors provides you with more answers.Chat Icon

Posted 3/17/07 10:29 PM
 

DTM
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Re: BFN...now with a question for you ladies on bottom of page 1

Nothings wrong with a little pity party. I have them myself - Just make sure they don't last that long and keep yourself happy (easier said than done - I KNOW) Just remember your husband will always love you no matter what!
Dee

Posted 3/19/07 11:40 PM
 

LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis

Member since 8/06

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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)

Re: BFN...now with a question for you ladies on bottom of page 1

Just wanted to say I'm sorry and send Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/20/07 9:45 AM
 

calendargrl
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

1686 total posts

Name:
jan

Re: BFN...now with a question for you ladies on bottom of page 1

I'm so sorry, i'm now only seeing this. Praying for you to get your BFP soon.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/20/07 9:49 AM
 
 

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