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usuk2004
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Farah

Body Image

Do you think you have a realistic body image?

There are times when I think maybe I look better than I think I do...but then sometimes I worry that I'm thinking I look better than I do.. KWIM???

Discuss....

Posted 6/6/07 9:37 AM
 
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J9-13
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Member since 6/06

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J9

Re: Body Image

I don't think I give myself enough credit sometimes. While I can always improve, I think I am extra hard on myself when it come to my body image. This is something that DH and I have issues about. He gets very upset when I put myself down.

Posted 6/6/07 9:44 AM
 

Beth
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Re: Body Image

Posted by MrsF519

I don't think I give myself enough credit sometimes. While I can always improve, I think I am extra hard on myself when it come to my body image. This is something that DH and I have issues about. He gets very upset when I put myself down.



I kind of feel the same way- I think I always focus on the negatitive and Dh doesn't get it

I'm short- so 1 lb makes a difference in how I look- and I am not kidding!

Posted 6/6/07 9:48 AM
 

Phyl
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Member since 5/06

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Re: Body Image

I have a horroble body image. My deal is I think I am bigger and look worse than I actually do and this get me into trouble! I can't even shop for clothes myself cuz I get the most boring things that do nothing for me.I have to have someone who cares about me go shopping with me!

Posted 6/6/07 9:48 AM
 

Lanabean
Yoginis

Member since 11/05

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Name:
Lana

Re: Body Image

Well, I had eating issues from ballet, and even though you can move past it, you are never truly over it. I would say that my self-image is distorted, no matter who tells me I look good.

Posted 6/6/07 9:49 AM
 

Diane
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Re: Body Image

Posted by MrsF519

I don't think I give myself enough credit sometimes. While I can always improve, I think I am extra hard on myself when it come to my body image. This is something that DH and I have issues about. He gets very upset when I put myself down.




Im in the same boat.

Posted 6/6/07 9:51 AM
 

mikeswife06
Drama Momma

Member since 9/06

9947 total posts

Name:
Anne

Re: Body Image

Well I always had a pretty nice body and then between getting older and quitting smoking things have changed. In 2 years I gained 13 lbs so now I think I am hard on myself which sucks because I used to realize how thin and toned I was. So to others I still look thin but it is 13 lbs more than I am used to Kwim? I will point to someone on TV and go "That's about my size right?" and DH will be like "NO! You are way skinnier than that" but that is not what I see when I look in the mirror.

Posted 6/6/07 9:54 AM
 

MikesWife
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Member since 1/06

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Karen

Re: Body Image

I find that I am always wishing to have the body back that I hated when I was 17. Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/07 9:55 AM
 

DonnaJoe708
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Re: Body Image

Posted by MrsF519

I don't think I give myself enough credit sometimes. While I can always improve, I think I am extra hard on myself when it come to my body image. This is something that DH and I have issues about. He gets very upset when I put myself down.



This is me too.

Posted 6/6/07 9:57 AM
 

Chatham-Chick
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Re: Body Image

My DH tells me I have BDD.

But in all honesty, I think I have a realistic body image of myself. It's just that most days I happen not to like what I have.

I do have good days though. Like this past weekend at the wine tasting...I must say, I was lookin' pretty damn fine. External Image

Posted 6/6/07 10:02 AM
 

Ophelia
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Member since 5/06

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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: Body Image

Posted by Chatham-Chick

My DH tells me I have BDD.

But in all honesty, I think I have a realistic body image of myself. It's just that most days I happen not to like what I have.

I do have good days though. Like this past weekend at the wine tasting...I must say, I was lookin' pretty damn fine. IMAGE



this is me, to a T.

but mostly my friends telling me I have BDD. dh doesn't say much of anything.

Posted 6/6/07 10:05 AM
 

Lisa
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Professional Aunts No Kids

Re: Body Image

when I was heavy....really heavy...for some reason, I knew I was fat but never realized how fat...I guess I had the skinny girl mirror!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Now that I am thinner (I still want to lose another 30-35 lbs) I still think I look fat....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon go figure!!

Posted 6/6/07 10:06 AM
 

robynfs
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Re: Body Image

This is a big problem for me...I hate my body and nobody understands why...I feel guilty when I don't run or workout and when I don't eat clean and healthy. I strive for something I will never attain because of my body type...I want to be lean and slender instead I have curves and strong legs...yuck!! SO wishes I could get past it because he thinks Im perfect the way I am...but Im just not happy with the way I look.

Posted 6/6/07 10:13 AM
 

NewlyMrs
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Member since 10/06

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Name:
Jennifer

Re: Body Image

Posted by MrsF519

I don't think I give myself enough credit sometimes. While I can always improve, I think I am extra hard on myself when it come to my body image.



that is me too!

Posted 6/6/07 5:35 PM
 

Tany
Becoming a different woman

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Tania

Re: Body Image

I'm at a point of my life that I feel really happy of how I look and feel about myself.Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/07 5:36 PM
 

munchkinbugs
My little loves!

Member since 1/06

8093 total posts

Name:
Lisa

Re: Body Image

I don't have a realistic body image.

I look at pictures of myself from a few years ago and think I looked good. But then I felt like I looked horrible. I feel the same way now, but haven't really changed.

Posted 6/6/07 6:11 PM
 

johnsae
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Re: Body Image

Mine is all screwed up now that I'm pregnant....but, before I was pregnant most people would tell me that my body was a lot better than I believed it to be...I am a perfectionist and if there was one little area of cellulite I would refuse to take off my bathing suit bottoms...it got a little ridiculous at times, but after the baby I'm sure it's going to be a lot worse Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/07 6:16 PM
 

Jessica
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Re: Body Image

Posted by johnsae

Mine is all screwed up now that I'm pregnant....but, before I was pregnant most people would tell me that my body was a lot better than I believed it to be...I am a perfectionist and if there was one little area of cellulite I would refuse to take off my bathing suit bottoms...it got a little ridiculous at times, but after the baby I'm sure it's going to be a lot worse Chat Icon



alicia, im you to a T its so freaky i could have written this except im not pg
im actuially scared of getting pregnant bc i know my body image will be sooo distorted....

Posted 6/6/07 6:20 PM
 

ziamaria
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Re: Body Image

now that i'm preg I feel fat, though i know i'm not, but it is the first time that i am truly self conscious about my looks - i.e. i wouldn't wear a bikini the other day w/o a shirt - i never did that before. maybe its b/c its early in teh preg 17 wks and i don't look preg, just bloated...i hope i snap right back...i'm worried about it, probably more than i should be but i can't help it.

Posted 6/6/07 6:40 PM
 

curliegirl
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Member since 3/06

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Name:
Gina

Re: Body Image

I definitely have BDD.
I look in the mirror and it's like I see someone else.
Kinda like the opposite of that Gweneth Paltrow movie Shallow Hal, except it's shallow Gina and I see the fat girl instead of the beautiful one.
It can be pretty bad and pregnancy doesn't help one bit!

Posted 6/6/07 6:43 PM
 

Arieschick29
aries+cancer= pisces&gemini

Member since 3/06

4268 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: Body Image

I think it changes- Some days I feel like a blob!
Last night I was feeling HOT and bought a skintight minidress and seduced DH when he came home from a business dinner. My body image last night was off the charts and I think he appreciated that very much Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/07 8:04 PM
 

sunflowerjesss
Mommy to 3!

Member since 10/05

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Jesss, duh.

Re: Body Image

I am very negative about my body image. These days I wish I wasn't so hard on myself and appreciated myself a few years ago when I was in much better shape.

Posted 6/6/07 8:23 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Member since 1/07

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Re: Body Image

my body image is horrendous - i feel like the heaviest and least toned out of everyone around me

when i find out what other people weigh or what size they wear i am always in disbelief bc i am *positive* that i am heavier than they are.

Posted 6/6/07 9:10 PM
 

Kate07
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Member since 5/05

4476 total posts

Name:
Kate

Re: Body Image

I'm very self-conscious - always have been. I was always the type to wear clothes too big, etc because I did not like my figure or draw any attention to it. DH made me feel more comfortable. I actually felt most attractive when I was pregnant.

Posted 6/6/07 9:25 PM
 

beautyq115
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Member since 5/05

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Me

Re: Body Image

I have an absolutely horrible body image and always have and probably always will!Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/07 9:26 PM
 
 

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