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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Sonia
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Can Cheaters Change?
Found this Article..what do you think? Do you think it's a personality trait or can they change their ways????
Cheaters....
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Posted 4/11/07 12:33 PM  |
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MsMBV
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Member since 5/05 28602 total posts
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Me
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I think it is possible to change if someone's priorities change.
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| Posted 4/11/07 12:35 PM |
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LIMOMx2
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
Yes
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| Posted 4/11/07 12:36 PM |
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Marcie
Complete Happiness :)
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LOVE being a Mommy!
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I don't know of any that actually changed 
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| Posted 4/11/07 12:36 PM |
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smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I think it depends on the situation.
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| Posted 4/11/07 12:37 PM |
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leighdvm
My golden boys!
Member since 3/06 4419 total posts
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Michele
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I am living proof that yes, they can...
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| Posted 4/11/07 12:38 PM |
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MsMitcia
27 dresses.?.ha..TY everyone
Member since 8/06 1527 total posts
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Tina
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I think so. I'll admit, I was once a cheater/player. Nobody ever thought I would settle down. Well, I did and I couldn't be happier. I think it took me finding the right person to change my ways. The thought has not and never will cross my mind now.
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| Posted 4/11/07 12:39 PM |
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MrsM-6-7-08
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Nicole
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I think that with psychological help its possible,
I have cheated on many past relationships, but got help to figure out why, and now that i am aware and conscious i feel like i am cured
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| Posted 4/11/07 12:39 PM |
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jellybean78
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Mommy
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
Yes they can.
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| Posted 4/11/07 1:19 PM |
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july06bride
I'm a mom!
Member since 5/05 3966 total posts
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Nicole
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
yes, they can
someone in my family-( I don't want to get too specific, you never know)had an affair- he was the last person you would ever imagine to do something like this-he seemed to adore his wife and he had three beautiful children- his wife found out-obviously distraught-eventually she confronted him/and the "other woman" -it was a mess- but they made it work- I don't know how she trusts him again and honestly, I dont know if she could ever trust him the way she used to-but they are happily married now-and he has changed- he knew that he was ruining his family-he was unhappy with himself-it was a HUGE mistake-and somehow they made it through- I am thankful because I didnt want to see the children suffer anymore then they were-even though they were young, they knew "something" was wrong with their mommy and daddy
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| Posted 4/11/07 1:28 PM |
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MrsBlueSash
Love my sailor
Member since 6/05 5793 total posts
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Christian
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
Possible, but I'd think it'd be tough to be the one having to trust the cheater to change.
Message edited 4/11/2007 1:33:33 PM.
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| Posted 4/11/07 1:28 PM |
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DebG
Pick a cause & stand up for it
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The cure IS worse!
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I have to believe they can change. To believe people can't evovle is just a sad thought for me.
Also, UNREALISTIC..are you the same person you were 10 years ago (as in, have ALL the same personality traits?)
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| Posted 4/11/07 1:31 PM |
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BabyAvocado
Happy New Year
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
Yes.
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| Posted 4/11/07 1:38 PM |
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KGools
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Member since 9/06 9532 total posts
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Kim
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I odn't know... I've never cheated and I've never been cheated on... My theory is that if you're cheating on your SO, than you are not with the right person. Once you find the right person, you won't cheat...
Does that make sence or sound totally stupid??
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| Posted 4/11/07 1:42 PM |
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hazeleyes33
LIF Adult
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Ginger
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
Posted by smdl
I think it depends on the situation.
I agree.
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| Posted 4/11/07 1:43 PM |
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sammy123
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
prob not
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| Posted 4/11/07 1:51 PM |
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aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys
Member since 4/06 11426 total posts
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Ali
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
yes they can. An old boyfriend way back when cheated on me. Now this was early on in our relationship and after we broke up, he hated himself for it. It took a while, but we got back together and he was 100% more committed. It was like he turned into the guy i always knew he could be.
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| Posted 4/11/07 2:26 PM |
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SweetestOfPeas
J'taime Paris!
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I heard this expression once and I think it is very true.
"if he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you"
once a cheater - always a cheater.
and even if they can change, they might always be tempted!
JMHO
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| Posted 4/11/07 2:29 PM |
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lululu
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
Posted by CoopersMom01
I odn't know... I've never cheated and I've never been cheated on... My theory is that if you're cheating on your SO, than you are not with the right person. Once you find the right person, you won't cheat...
Does that make sence or sound totally stupid??
This makes sense to me. I think if you are cheating, something is lacking in your relationship, and in the right relationship, whatever that is wouldnt be lacking.
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| Posted 4/11/07 2:30 PM |
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mrsv
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Member since 7/06 2969 total posts
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I have always said, once a cheater always a cheater... but.... I cheated on my first boyfriend when i was 19 and seeing how much hurt it caused, i never thought about cheating ever again and learned my lesson and would never hurt someone like that again.
so yes... i believe they can change.
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| Posted 4/11/07 2:34 PM |
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MommaG
Yay Spring!
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Gloria
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
I think they will always be a cheater but may not act on it. People seem to cheat because something is lacking in their current relationship and they go elsewhere to find it, or just because they are unhappy at the moment and seek happiness elsewhere (instead of working on their relationship). If a cheater is in a relationship where they are happy and feel fulfilled, they will probably not cheat. But, as soon as that changes, they will cheat. JMO.
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| Posted 4/11/07 8:02 PM |
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angnick
Life is So Wonderful!
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Angela
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
i said once a cheater always a cheater.
people dont change that much, at least in my experience.
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| Posted 4/12/07 9:23 AM |
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MommyofG
just the girls
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Janice
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Re: Can Cheaters Change?
Ehh, this is tough, do I think they can "change" no but I think they can "control" themselves now.
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