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Spookie-D
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Canceled transfer

On my way to drs I got the call canceling my transfer. There were two fertilized but from what I remember the dr say one didn't grow past 5 cell. I didn't hear anything he said I was too upset. I don't know if I'm overacting but I'm kinda furious The office is saying I cant get a consult until 3 weeks, there all booked up. I'm waiting to hear back from office mgr. is this just RSOFNY or do all RE's operate like this.

Posted 1/21/14 2:21 PM
 
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ANewDayHasCome
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Canceled transfer

Ugh I'm so sorry. My re never did that. Was it supposed to be a 5d or 3d?

I know it sucks but they have no control if they just stop growing. I would also demand a consult this week!!!

Posted 1/21/14 2:24 PM
 

Spookie-D
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C

Canceled transfer

It was supposed to be 5 day, on day 3 they call to schedule the 5 day but the don't actually look on the embies ( I asked for a report ). I'm waiting a call back for a thurs apt.

Posted 1/21/14 2:40 PM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: Canceled transfer

I'm sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon To answer your question, RMA does not operate like that.

Posted 1/21/14 3:19 PM
 

babyfever24
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Re: Canceled transfer

No all practices do not operate that way. That place can be a real nightmare. I'm sorry that happened to you. Chat Icon

Posted 1/21/14 4:00 PM
 

Lillies
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Re: Canceled transfer

RS does not look at embies until right before transfer and I have heard about girls getting there and the Drs having to give the bad news. I am praying my new RE gives me a heads up bc that's a long trip into the city.

Posted 1/21/14 4:18 PM
 

Lillies
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Re: Canceled transfer

Are you Dr. Sung's patient? Bc I am canceling my appt on Monday due to switching offices if you want it.

Posted 1/21/14 4:20 PM
 

ggt08
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Re: Canceled transfer

Posted by Spookie-D

On my way to drs I got the call canceling my transfer. There were two fertilized but from what I remember the dr say one didn't grow past 5 cell. I didn't hear anything he said I was too upset. I don't know if I'm overacting but I'm kinda furious The office is saying I cant get a consult until 3 weeks, there all booked up. I'm waiting to hear back from office mgr. is this just RSOFNY or do all RE's operate like this.


No not all practices are like that. Unfortunately RS of NY is. This is why I switched.

Posted 1/21/14 5:04 PM
 

babydreams21
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Canceled transfer

So sorry about all of this. I hope you get an appointment soon and they have a new plan for you.

Posted 1/21/14 7:45 PM
 

PregowithTwins
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Canceled transfer

So SOrry to hear you are going thru this disappointment. If you cant get an appt I would call dr/office & ask Dr to call you. Tell him you need to speak to him again.

Posted 1/21/14 8:29 PM
 

KMCGK
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Re: Canceled transfer

I'm sorry. That news stinks. I think a 3 week consult wait is ridiculous. I would be livid. You deserve better.

Posted 1/21/14 8:55 PM
 

Spookie-D
LIF Infant

Member since 3/11

325 total posts

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C

Canceled transfer

Thanks ladies,I ended up getting apt with dr.t on Thursday . Depending on what he says I might have to start thinking of switching, it's frustrating when you want the one on one sometimes

Posted 1/21/14 8:55 PM
 

corilee
LIF Infant

Member since 9/09

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Corinne

Re: Canceled transfer

I am also a patient at RS and when my transfer didn't take, they also told me I had to wait. To be honest, I lost it and was hysterical crying and I told them that I refuse to wait that long. They got me an appt a few days later. Unfortunately, I was in this situation twice and twice they fit me in. Sometimes acting crazy works..

Posted 1/22/14 5:36 AM
 

TyReseGreen
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Theresa

Re: Canceled transfer

I am so sorry.

The less manipulation or bothering the embies the better off. That's just from studies but this is one thing RSof NY believes in. This includes the pics of the embies before transfer. I didn't get one with my frozen cycle and when I asked Dr Trivax said its better if they don't bother them. That resulted in my DD who is almost 5 months.

Posted 1/22/14 6:18 AM
 

Hope2009
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Canceled transfer

I'm sorry, that really stinks. Glad you got an earlier appointment than what they first told you.

Posted 1/22/14 7:39 AM
 

WantBabyNoTwo
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Canceled transfer

Ugh that $ucks!!! I'm so sorry.

Posted 1/22/14 7:45 AM
 

CindySN23
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Cindy

Canceled transfer

If you want an appt just go back and demand another consult. They wont refuse you if your there. When my first IVF cycle failed I was crying as they drew my beta and they said something like it could take a couple of weeks and I flat out said no and I got an appt 2 days later no questions asked. Maybe they didnt want me to bring my bit ch out but I was in a hormonal rage.

Posted 1/22/14 8:21 AM
 
 

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