Child Therapist

Ex-dh and I had a very bad divorce and unfortunately my son witnessed a lot of the fighting. We are now civil, even still living together, (financial reasons for now) and both are in relationships for the past year and a half. Some days my ex goes to stay over his gf house and my ds is fine with that. The problem is when I stay over even 1 night at my bf house. Ds says things like why am I choosing bf over him, why can't I stay with him, etc. It breaks my heart because ds and I are very very close and like I said, he doesn't even miss ex dh if he's not around. Ds is 8, I work most weekends so I tell ds if he didn't have school I'd take him with me to bf house (we live in Nassau, bf in Suffolk). At most I only stay over bf place 2x a week, and never consecutively. Having bf stay over my house isn't an option bc ex dh refuses to allow him in the house. Long story. Anyway, I don't want ds growing to resent me and hate bf or thinking bf is taking me away from him. Ex and I talk to ds and he understands but just says he's sad. Does anyone have any child therapist or counselors he can talk to? He goes to a program in school for split parents but I feel he needs more 1 on 1. Sorry for the rambling. It's hard to type all this on my phone.

Re: Child Therapist

I don't have a recommendation but You may be able to get a refer from your school psyc. Or your ped.

Re: Child Therapist

Message edited 4/3/2016 11:18:48 PM.