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GaknTak
He has my heart
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Tracy
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DH is leaving to go on vacation with his buddies while Im home being PG. Need some very honest opinions!
Dont get me wrong its not like I even have any days left to go on vacation. But its just that Im so nervous he's leaving for a week to go on a BIKE trip. Meaning motorcycle trip. Him and 2 other guys are riding their bikes to Florida and camping for a few days and then coming back. I didnt mind last yr when they did this but Im just so nervous something is going to happen to him. Horrible to say I know. I just wish I could get over it. What would you do? Should I ask him not to go or does that sound like a bad wife?
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nferrandi
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Nicole
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Re: DH is leaving to go on vacation with his buddies while Im home being PG. Need some very honest opinions!
How far along are you? Unless you are towards the end, I would probably just let him go. Just make sure he checks in often so you have some peace of mind.
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| Posted 5/6/08 12:42 PM |
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MrsPornStar
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Re: DH is leaving to go on vacation with his buddies while Im home being PG. Need some very honest opinions!
I don't think you sound like a bad wife. It's not that you don't want him to have fun but you're scared since it's a motorcycle. I agree that you should just ask him to check in with you frequently so you're not constantly stressed.
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| Posted 5/6/08 12:46 PM |
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GaknTak
He has my heart
Member since 12/07 1379 total posts
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Tracy
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Re: DH is leaving to go on vacation with his buddies while Im home being PG. Need some very honest opinions!
Posted by nferrandi
How far along are you? Unless you are towards the end, I would probably just let him go. Just make sure he checks in often so you have some peace of mind.
Thank you guys!!! Im only 21 wks but thank you guys for understanding. 
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| Posted 5/6/08 12:47 PM |
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Celt
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colette
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Re: DH is leaving to go on vacation with his buddies while Im home being PG. Need some very honest opinions!
I agree with PP, unless you're at the very end I'd let him go. Actually my DH just got back from Vegas last night with 5 of his friends, to celebrate 2 of the guys' 40th birthdays. I'm 22 weeks and all is going well, so there was no reason for him not to go.
He's not 'mushy' but I know he appreciated my being cool with it; the way I see it, it's his last 'hurrah' before  arrives, and I'm glad he had fun. Make sure he answers his phone when you call, AND set a time to check in every day.
Frankly you might find you enjoy the peace and quiet for a few days, I LOVED having the remote to myself, and I slept like a log while he was gone!!!
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| Posted 5/6/08 12:48 PM |
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bicosi
life is a carousel
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M
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Re: DH is leaving to go on vacation with his buddies while Im home being PG. Need some very honest opinions!
Posted by nferrandi
How far along are you? Unless you are towards the end, I would probably just let him go. Just make sure he checks in often so you have some peace of mind.
I agree.
Take this week to get much needed rest and keep yourself busy. Read a book, go get a massage, get a mani/pedi, make a date with some girlfriends too!
Enjoy it!
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| Posted 5/6/08 12:50 PM |
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twinkletoes807
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Member since 11/07 10116 total posts
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Re: DH is leaving to go on vacation with his buddies while Im home being PG. Need some very honest opinions!
I totally know what you mean. DH is a highway police officer and is on a motorcycle whenever it is nice outside. I HATE IT!! I am so nervous that he is going to die or end up in a horrific accident that will leave him on a respirator. Since he loves riding so much he wants to get a bike of his own!! I told him to forget it!! You are a lot stronger than me to be ok with your DH riding at all. If it were me... I would ask him not to go on the trip. But then again... I would ask him not to go on the bike ever again!!  
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| Posted 5/6/08 12:50 PM |
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avamamma
My Girl
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Re: DH is leaving to go on vacation with his buddies while Im home being PG. Need some very honest opinions!
I understand how you feel, but I think he will be just fine if he goes.
I found that after I had DD, I worried a lot more about "What if" something happened to me or DH. It's only natural.
During my first pg, DH had to go away on business a trip a month before my due date, and I was in a panic the entire time. This time around, he will be going away about a week before my c-section, and I am not worried at all.
Let him go, don't worry! Enjoy having the bed to yourself..
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| Posted 5/6/08 12:53 PM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
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Re: DH is leaving to go on vacation with his buddies while Im home being PG. Need some very honest opinions!
Posted by MrsPornStar
I don't think you sound like a bad wife. It's not that you don't want him to have fun but you're scared since it's a motorcycle. I agree that you should just ask him to check in with you frequently so you're not constantly stressed.
this is what it sounds like to me.
i can't tell you what to do since my DH doesn't ride, but if you are sure he will be safe and call to check in with you often, i would lean towards not making a big deal out of it. i hope he stays safe
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| Posted 5/6/08 1:02 PM |
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mikeswife06
Drama Momma
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Re: DH is leaving to go on vacation with his buddies while Im home being PG. Need some very honest opinions!
You do not sound like a bad wife. Things are different this time thats all. As for your worries...it doesn't matter long distance or local, something bad could happen anywhere so I would probably just let him go and like others said, ask him to check in often.
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| Posted 5/6/08 1:08 PM |
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