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Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

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kerrycec03
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Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

Ok, so I posted this AM about the commute killing me and I'm 38.5 weeks. I just found out tonight that I'll probably be getting induced/or having a sked c-section some time next week (based off a sono & internal tomorrow).

Now, I was orignally going to work from home tomorrow but I can only do about 75% of my job accurately from home. Being Monday or Tuesday next week will probably be my last day of work, would you go in tomorrow? I have to go in Thurs & Friday & Monday due to my company switching floors. I would leave work early tomorrow for my sono anyway. I would only work till 330PM lets say.

I'm a big career gal (aka workaholic)so I know my judgement is not always the best. What would you do? Need answers asap because this determines if I go to bed right now.

Message edited 1/6/2009 10:35:20 PM.

Posted 1/6/09 10:33 PM
 
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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

I wouldn't go in !! That's my opinion. I am not so good at convincing people to go to work Chat Icon

Posted 1/6/09 10:46 PM
 

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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

because you are a workaholic - i would definitely go in....work until 3:30 - if anything - to show your company that you haven't changed at all (not that i know anything about your job or how they feel about it)...

i know for me - i'd rather do one last half day even just to show them that i was there until i no longer could be....

but i'm totally type A too.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/6/09 10:55 PM
 

kerrycec03
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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

Posted by davenjess

because you are a workaholic - i would definitely go in....work until 3:30 - if anything - to show your company that you haven't changed at all (not that i know anything about your job or how they feel about it)...

i know for me - i'd rather do one last half day even just to show them that i was there until i no longer could be....

but i'm totally type A too.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



see I think you missread my post. Its not my last day tomorrow. My last day will probably be Monday. I'll be in Thurs & Friday.

Posted 1/6/09 10:56 PM
 

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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

Posted by kerrycec03

Posted by davenjess

because you are a workaholic - i would definitely go in....work until 3:30 - if anything - to show your company that you haven't changed at all (not that i know anything about your job or how they feel about it)...

i know for me - i'd rather do one last half day even just to show them that i was there until i no longer could be....

but i'm totally type A too.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



see I think you missread my post. Its not my last day tomorrow. My last day will probably be Monday. I'll be in Thurs & Friday.



no - i didn't misread.... Friday and Monday - you will be moving floors, etc....so would that really count as a "WORK" day sort of thing - ya know??? Technically your last 2 days of work (one would think) would be tomorrow and Thursday....

Posted 1/6/09 10:58 PM
 

kerrycec03
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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

Posted by davenjess

Posted by kerrycec03

Posted by davenjess

because you are a workaholic - i would definitely go in....work until 3:30 - if anything - to show your company that you haven't changed at all (not that i know anything about your job or how they feel about it)...

i know for me - i'd rather do one last half day even just to show them that i was there until i no longer could be....

but i'm totally type A too.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



see I think you missread my post. Its not my last day tomorrow. My last day will probably be Monday. I'll be in Thurs & Friday.



no - i didn't misread.... Friday and Monday - you will be moving floors, etc....so would that really count as a "WORK" day sort of thing - ya know??? Technically your last 2 days of work (one would think) would be tomorrow and Thursday....



no, I'll be working Friday & Monday (yes we are moving floors, but maintance is doing the actual moving). Our phones/comp stay the same until Monday AM when we come into our new floor and unpack. It will only take me maybe 2 hours to unpack.

Posted 1/6/09 11:00 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

okay, then screw it! stay home....your commute has been torture and you have plenty of days left!

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Posted 1/6/09 11:02 PM
 

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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

Stay home.. it is suppoosed to be rainy and icy out!

Posted 1/6/09 11:05 PM
 

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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

Stay home. It is going to be bad weather tomorrow.

Posted 1/6/09 11:09 PM
 

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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

Hunny, it's time to stop working. You're very close to giving birth. Give yourself a break!
XOXOXO
BOTB

Posted 1/6/09 11:14 PM
 

kerrycec03
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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

Posted by babyonthebrain

Hunny, it's time to stop working. You're very close to giving birth. Give yourself a break!
XOXOXO
BOTB



awww, this just made my decision for me. I'm working from home. Thanks!!

Posted 1/6/09 11:57 PM
 

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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

I would stay home

Posted 1/7/09 12:00 AM
 

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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

I am the same way. workaholic and every time docs said i needed to stop i kept on going. I finally had to stop denying it and come out of work early. So i dont know what to say.. Part of me would say go and then be done but then the expectant mother in me says stay home good luck!

Posted 1/7/09 9:14 AM
 

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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

stop working nowChat Icon

Posted 1/7/09 9:26 AM
 

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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

You are so close and if you didn't have the commute I would say do as much as you are comfortable with but with the stairs and subway etc, I think it would be best to stop. Why push it? You don't want to go into labor on the LIRR.
Do you have to go in to move your office? That seems like a lot of added stress.

Posted 1/7/09 9:29 AM
 

ARIELSMOM
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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

id work from home tomorrow.

Posted 1/7/09 10:07 AM
 

kerrycec03
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Re: Dilema about working till the end (need asap help)

Posted by kmac

You are so close and if you didn't have the commute I would say do as much as you are comfortable with but with the stairs and subway etc, I think it would be best to stop. Why push it? You don't want to go into labor on the LIRR.
Do you have to go in to move your office? That seems like a lot of added stress.



its not too much. Half my cube is boxed up, I'll finish the rest tomorrow. Then I'll unpack Monday. I'm also curious as to my new cubby on the other floor. I can't wait 2 mos to see the new living quarters. hehe

Posted 1/7/09 10:36 AM
 
 

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