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In love with a boy named Luca
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Ditching DH - anyone shake him loose as ur diet partner?
Well, in the four years we have been together I gained about 50lbs and he gained prob 25ish. However, I look fat and he really doesn't b/c he is sooo tall. Because of this I feel like he wants to lose the weight but ehhh he doesn't really feel the sadness/ discomfort of being overweight like I do.
We tried a bunch of diets together but always fail.
Now, I've sorta ditched him (I've been following the Dr. Oz diet- but a little modified) and I am down 5lbs.
I feel guilty for abandoning him as my diet partner but it just wasn't working. Also, I felt like meal planning for both of us was always on my shoulders even though we are hardly together all week.
Thoughts?
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Posted 10/1/10 1:16 PM  |
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Re: Ditching DH - anyone shake him loose as ur diet partner?
Oh yeah, dieting together just doesn't work for us b/c he can basically eat what he wants and not gain any weight...jerk.
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| Posted 10/1/10 3:07 PM |
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Kidsaplenty
Sister love
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Re: Ditching DH - anyone shake him loose as ur diet partner?
I ditched my DH as my diet a long time ago. He wasn't staying on the wagon, kept asking to go to Taco Bell, pizza, Chinese food, etc. Thats when I knew he wasn't as serious as I was. Since then I'VE lost 50 lbs and him-ZERO!
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| Posted 10/1/10 4:14 PM |
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Re: Ditching DH - anyone shake him loose as ur diet partner?
I abandoned DH when DD was 2 weeks old and he refused to walk with us. I am glad I did. I am down over 70 lbs and he is only down 30!
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| Posted 10/1/10 8:25 PM |
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Mrs213
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Re: Ditching DH - anyone shake him loose as ur diet partner?
My DH is 140 lbs soaking wet so yeah he doesn't need to loose any weight on his diet of wendy's and beer very discouraging...
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| Posted 10/1/10 11:37 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Janice
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Re: Ditching DH - anyone shake him loose as ur diet partner?
big argument this week about it.
I feel like he is trying to sabotage me.
He cannot discuss anytihng food related with me any longer.
He is crazy and selfish. To put it mildly
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| Posted 10/2/10 11:13 AM |
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MrsSchwags
Soccer Baseball Lax Mom
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Re: Ditching DH - anyone shake him loose as ur diet partner?
We both follow WW. However I go to meetings and he follows what I tell him. He doesn't take it as seriously as I do.
I prepare meals for myself - he can modify them as he chooses. He isn't the best diet partner - but I am trying to encourage healthy eating for both of us.
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| Posted 10/2/10 9:45 PM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky
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Re: Ditching DH - anyone shake him loose as ur diet partner?
He is on WW, but only because I only cook WW point friendly recipes.
He is okay with that though (he doesn't need to lose weight at all though, he is just health conscience-I hate him a little for this).
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| Posted 10/4/10 3:15 PM |
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eggo9d9
LIF Toddler
Member since 11/09 436 total posts
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Erica
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Re: Ditching DH - anyone shake him loose as ur diet partner?
Posted by Janice
big argument this week about it.
I feel like he is trying to sabotage me.
He cannot discuss anytihng food related with me any longer.
He is crazy and selfish. To put it mildly
ugh i feel that way too, or sometimes he just tries to "test me" i cant stand it. also, my mom is a BIG time sabotager!
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| Posted 10/4/10 4:05 PM |
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