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maymama
my little loves

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do you ever...

for a split second, *think* you see your loved one on the street or passing by in a car or passing by you in the grocery store or wherever?

do you ever have to do a double take and just for a second you think "what if"

i know he is gone but there is a part of me that can sometimes be fooled into thinking it was all a bad dream. Chat Icon

Message edited 7/15/2011 8:17:23 PM.

Posted 7/15/11 8:15 PM
 
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Lauren82
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L

Re: do you ever...

I had one of these moments today...can't even describe the feel accurately.

Posted 7/17/11 8:10 PM
 

julz33
i run for bacon

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julz

Re: do you ever...

YES!

Well, I know I am not seeing mom but I know the feeling exactly.

At my 6 week post partum checkup after the twins, a nurse called me in from the waiting room and she had many similarities to my mom. She was new there and I couldnt stop staring at her. Overall didn't look like her, but had a lot of the same "little" things, like the way her hair fell and the veins/wrinkles on her hands. I had a lump in my throat the whole time.

Posted 7/17/11 9:05 PM
 

MichLiz213
Life is Good!

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Re: do you ever...

This JUST happened to me over the weekend.

We used to run into my great-uncle all over town (he passed the day after Christmas in 2009 of glioblastoma)- the post office, the gym, etc. We were driving past a gas station and for a split second I thought it was him until I remembered.

Posted 7/18/11 10:44 AM
 

PrettyPeonies
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Pino

Re: do you ever...

It used to happen to me all the time after my brother passed away. As a matter of fact, a few days after he died I was heading back to my dads house (where my brother passed away) and my dads neighbor was in front of his house. I slammed on the brakes so hard my head almost hit the steering wheel. I thought this man was my brother. There were other times but now its more that I see someone who maybe has the same hair as him or nose and I cant help staring.

My mother had a break down in Home Depot a few weeks after my brother died. She told me that she thought she saw him and collapsed sobbing on the ground. Chat Icon My heart broke for her.

Posted 7/18/11 4:29 PM
 

Diana712
RIP my beloved Brother Richard

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Diana

Re: do you ever...

ALL the time!!! ALL ALL ALL the time.. I look for them!!

Posted 7/28/11 7:45 PM
 

2boys4me
He's coming soon!

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Re: do you ever...

This happens to me all the time!! If only :(

Posted 8/15/11 7:09 PM
 

kindnessmatters
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Marymob

Re: do you ever...

Yes, I have seen guys who look like my deceased younger Brother!!! Mary

Posted 8/15/11 11:28 PM
 

BAM 2009
I am who I am!!!

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Re: do you ever...

Yes... All the time!!!

Posted 8/16/11 2:11 AM
 

maymama
my little loves

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Re: do you ever...

Posted by kindnessmatters

Yes, I have seen guys who look like my deceased younger Brother!!! Mary




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Posted 8/16/11 1:20 PM
 

ikona8
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Re: do you ever...

Hi there, Speaking of death prediction, I find it really odd that one of the on-line death prediction services showed me the same death date that I was foretold in my dream about a year ago. - I can’t explain this coincidence in any other way except that there must be some kind of magic involved here.

Posted 9/12/11 2:55 PM
 

maryb
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Mary

Re: do you ever...

i dont see my mother in law or my daughter, but i feel them with me all the time.

In times im mostly alone at home or when im rocking my son to sleep.. i know they are with me... i just wish they were still hereChat Icon

Posted 9/20/11 10:45 PM
 

maymama
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Re: do you ever...

Posted by maryb

i dont see my mother in law or my daughter, but i feel them with me all the time.

In times im mostly alone at home or when im rocking my son to sleep.. i know they are with me... i just wish they were still hereChat Icon



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Posted 9/23/11 10:21 PM
 

drpepper318
MIR MIR MIR!

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me

Re: do you ever...

This has happened to me several times. I'll see a guy somewhere that looks just like my dad, and I have to do a double take. It definitely startles me every time! My heart beats faster for a few seconds, and then I feel sad.

Posted 10/22/11 9:11 PM
 

rojerono
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Jeannie

Re: do you ever...

Last weekend we stopped at a rest station on the Jersey Turnpike and when we came out I saw a woman who looked so much like my Mom I actually stopped. I could only see her from the side and back because of the way she was turned.. I didn't want to stare so I just shook my head and started to walk toward the car. My littlest grabs my hand and goes "That looks like Uma, doesn't it?" I was grateful for the confirmation. We got in the car (we were first row - right in front of the area where she was walking the dog. I told my friend Elaine (who was driving) - but when she looked, the woman was gone. Soooo weird. And only 2 days before my Mom's birthday!

Posted 10/25/11 1:13 PM
 

sweetie101
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Re: do you ever...

yea i seen this man who look like my dad. another time i seen this lady who look liked my good friend mom who died of cancer

Posted 2/13/12 9:35 AM
 

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