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Do you ever drink at home alone?

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lmnscc
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Do you ever drink at home alone?

I mean beer or wine. I was talking to a friend the other night and was told that drinking alone (being the only one drinking or physically alone) is white trash. I was completely taken aback because I don't think there is anything wrong with having a glass of wine or two or a couple of beers at night after work, etc. I do this more these days because I hardly ever go out and I do enjoy beer and wine. However, I never get drunk and think that maybe someone who drinks to get drunk should rethink what they are doing. Anyway, what do you think?
(note - the person that told me this is only an ocassional light drinker)

Posted 3/12/07 10:30 AM
 
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MikesWife
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

Well than call me white trash because I see no problem having a glass of wine if I am buy myself.

Posted 3/12/07 10:33 AM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

Posted by MikesWife

Well than call me white trash because I see no problem having a glass of wine if I am buy myself.



Me too!

Posted 3/12/07 10:34 AM
 

mtnmama

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Message edited 6/8/2009 3:48:13 PM.

Posted 3/12/07 10:34 AM
 

johnsae
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

I don't think white trash is the appropriate term at all. Maybe if you were drinking 40s alone? Having a few glasses of wine is fine - I did it before I was pregnant and after I have this child I will DEFINITELY be doing it.

Posted 3/12/07 10:35 AM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

ive had a glass of wine

or even a martini

Posted 3/12/07 10:35 AM
 

mtdr1106
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

i dont think there is anything wrong with it.

Posted 3/12/07 10:37 AM
 

Waste06
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

I see nothing wrong with having an occasional glass of wine, or even a beer or two, after a long hard day at work.

If DH is working or traveling or whatever on a Friday night, and I'm home alone, I'll cozy up on the couch and relax with a glass of wine. I don't think that's white trash....I think it's a pretty relaxing way to spend an evening!

But then again...that may be my white-trash side of me talking! Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/07 10:38 AM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

I don't think that is white trash at all! I see NOTHING wrong with it, but I don't do it. I am not a big drinker though.

Posted 3/12/07 10:38 AM
 

Maathy317
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

Saying that someone who has a drink or two by themselves is "white trash" is harsh. I see nothing wrong with this. I, myself, do not drink. I used to in my younger days, but, lost my taste for it a long time ago. Does this person have any alcoholics in her family? This may be where she is coming from.

Posted 3/12/07 10:40 AM
 

KGools
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

Posted by MikesWife

Well than call me white trash because I see no problem having a glass of wine if I am buy myself.



White trash right here.

Posted 3/12/07 10:42 AM
 

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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

Drinking alone is on the checklist to determine whether you are an alcoholic or have a problem with alcohol. I think this has more to do with getting drunk alone rather than the occasional glass of wine with dinner or after work.

I'm not a big drinker so my answer is no.

As for the white trash comment, if she's correct then our country is made up of white trash. My friend's husband is a wine collector on the Board of Directors of many charities, etc, making well over seven figures. I hardly think he's white trash because he opens a bottle of wine after work.

Message edited 3/12/2007 1:11:01 PM.

Posted 3/12/07 10:52 AM
 

jxnoscar
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

The comment make absolutely no sense.

Posted 3/12/07 10:52 AM
 

usuk2004
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

Posted by CoopersMom01

Posted by MikesWife

Well than call me white trash because I see no problem having a glass of wine if I am buy myself.



White trash right here.



If a glass is white trash, what would she call a whole bottle? Chat Icon (in my defense, it was a good TV night, I got carried away!) Chat Icon

Message edited 3/12/2007 12:48:51 PM.

Posted 3/12/07 10:52 AM
 

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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

(hand raised)

I am white trash then Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/07 10:54 AM
 

scarletbegonia
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

I don't see anything wrong with it, unless it becomes such a habit that you (in the general sense) NEED to drink alone everyday.

I do have the occasional glass of wne, so put me in the white trash caregory.

Posted 3/12/07 10:59 AM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

Posted by jxnoscar

The comment make absolutely no sense.



Agreed.

Posted 3/12/07 11:15 AM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

I think calling any single activity "white trash" is just ignornant. I think if driking alone, as in heavy drinking becomes a habit it's a cause for concern about dependence, etc. But I know a lot of people muyself incluided, who will pour a cold beer or a glass of wine, or evena cocktail after a hard day at work

Posted 3/12/07 11:21 AM
 

DanaRenee
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

Hell yeah! DH and I used to also, just the two of us at home. Now I'm pg so its just him....and hes no white trash!!

Posted 3/12/07 11:26 AM
 

JennZ
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

Well there are alot of us "white trash" people on here then Chat Icon Drink on and enjoy.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/07 11:29 AM
 

2Pisces
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

Posted by Libragal07

(hand raised)

I am white trash then Chat Icon



me too. Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/07 11:30 AM
 

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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

That just makes no sense to me - what does white trash have to do with having a glass of wine alone?? Chat Icon

Posted 3/12/07 11:38 AM
 

jxnoscar
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

The last day of my vacation from in between jobs, I purchased a small bottle of champagne and celebrated by myself.

Chat Icon
Best day ever!

Posted 3/12/07 11:39 AM
 

oops123
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

maybe getting Sh*tfaced drunk alone (and on a regular basis) could be a sign of a "problem" but I have no problem with putting my children to sleep and having a glass of wine-or depending on what kind of day it was, a martini by myselfChat Icon

Posted 3/12/07 11:41 AM
 

anonttcer
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Re: Do you ever drink at home alone?

I've done it but it's no fun.
So I usually just keep it to a glass of wine when I get home from work or a cocktail by the pool in the summer to relax.
For me, part of the fun of drinking is having other people with you and just acting all stupid!

Message edited 3/12/2007 11:56:13 AM.

Posted 3/12/07 11:55 AM
 
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