LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

Posted By Message

curliegirl
He's here!!!!

Member since 3/06

10128 total posts

Name:
Gina

Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

Not only do I have one, but he's my boss. He never has anything good to say, always puts down other people's things, I guess because they are not his, or he didn't get it first.

He's also a snob and thinks he's better than everyone else.

Even is we do something good in the office, he has to find something that's not right.....Chat Icon

How do you deal with these people?????

Posted 11/14/06 12:18 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

joenick
Us

Member since 6/06

9370 total posts

Name:
Valerie...aka...Do Me A Favor?

Re: Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

Yup...sure do!
I try to avoid contact with this girl at all costs!!
You can say, I just won the lotto! And she'll reply, "Uhhh...wouldn't want to pay THOSE taxes."

So annoying.

I try to communicate with her just through email so I can't hear the "tone".

If it's your boss or someone you have to have daily contact with, UGGGHHH! That would drive me insane!! Chat Icon

Posted 11/14/06 12:22 PM
 

2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair

Member since 5/06

19861 total posts

Name:
Best Wife & Mommy

Re: Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

Yes!!! This person is so negative that it can be over bearing to be around her at times. I do not share any personal info with her about my life and I try to limit phone calls with her.

Posted 11/14/06 12:22 PM
 

Emily
Kasey & Me! Lurves it!

Member since 7/06

8703 total posts

Name:
STBHC

Re: Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

This post is funny! Dh calls me Debbie Downer and makes the sound effects. I do the same to him!

Posted 11/14/06 12:23 PM
 

curliegirl
He's here!!!!

Member since 3/06

10128 total posts

Name:
Gina

Re: Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

Posted by joenick

Yup...sure do!
I try to avoid contact with this girl at all costs!!
You can say, I just won the lotto! And she'll reply, "Uhhh...wouldn't want to pay THOSE taxes."

So annoying.

I try to communicate with her just through email so I can't hear the "tone".

If it's your boss or someone you have to have daily contact with, UGGGHHH! That would drive me insane!! Chat Icon



Yes, it makes me completely insane and this is a VERY small office. The other manager and I try to get him to take a back seat, but how do you tell the boss he's a @%#&ing pain in the azz????

The lotto thing is sooooooo true, I can see him saying the same exact thing!!!!

Posted 11/14/06 12:25 PM
 

joenick
Us

Member since 6/06

9370 total posts

Name:
Valerie...aka...Do Me A Favor?

Re: Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

Posted by curliegirl

Posted by joenick

Yup...sure do!
I try to avoid contact with this girl at all costs!!
You can say, I just won the lotto! And she'll reply, "Uhhh...wouldn't want to pay THOSE taxes."

So annoying.

I try to communicate with her just through email so I can't hear the "tone".

If it's your boss or someone you have to have daily contact with, UGGGHHH! That would drive me insane!! Chat Icon



Yes, it makes me completely insane and this is a VERY small office. The other manager and I try to get him to take a back seat, but how do you tell the boss he's a @%#&ing pain in the azz????

The lotto thing is sooooooo true, I can see him saying the same exact thing!!!!



How about everytime he says something "Debbie-Downerish"....make the waaaa-waaaa-waaaa sound??

Maybe he'll get the hint!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/14/06 12:27 PM
 

MrsCJK
Thankful!

Member since 11/06

1773 total posts

Name:
Cal

Re: Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

Yes I have a friend like that, I cant even be friends with her anymore, its just so hard to talk to her and I feel bad telling her anything good about me and my life because is always reverts back to her and how bad things are!!!!

Posted 11/14/06 12:37 PM
 

curliegirl
He's here!!!!

Member since 3/06

10128 total posts

Name:
Gina

Re: Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

Posted by joenick

Posted by curliegirl

Posted by joenick

Yup...sure do!
I try to avoid contact with this girl at all costs!!
You can say, I just won the lotto! And she'll reply, "Uhhh...wouldn't want to pay THOSE taxes."

So annoying.

I try to communicate with her just through email so I can't hear the "tone".

If it's your boss or someone you have to have daily contact with, UGGGHHH! That would drive me insane!! Chat Icon



Yes, it makes me completely insane and this is a VERY small office. The other manager and I try to get him to take a back seat, but how do you tell the boss he's a @%#&ing pain in the azz????

The lotto thing is sooooooo true, I can see him saying the same exact thing!!!!



How about everytime he says something "Debbie-Downerish"....make the waaaa-waaaa-waaaa sound??

Maybe he'll get the hint!! Chat Icon Chat Icon



And when he's annoyed he used to make this popping sound, and we called him out on it. Now he whistles!!!!! Like we are that dumb!!! Chat Icon I should start whistling too!!!

Message edited 11/14/2006 12:39:42 PM.

Posted 11/14/06 12:39 PM
 

Lauren
Very Happy!

Member since 10/06

3917 total posts

Name:

Re: Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

I used to work with one, but he quit - thank God - he drove me mental!

Posted 11/14/06 12:48 PM
 

Lauren
Very Happy!

Member since 10/06

3917 total posts

Name:

Re: Do you have a "Debbie Downer" in your life?

Posted by gwen1234

I used to work with one, but he quit - thank God - he drove me mental!




OMG! The guy who I used to work with and quit just popped into my office! He is here now and he is TOTALLY doing it! HE NEVER CHANGES!!!! DRIVING ME NUTS!!!!!! So strange because I haven't seen him in months and the day after this post, he pops up!

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 11/15/2006 10:53:06 AM.

Posted 11/15/06 10:50 AM
 
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 367406 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows