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mrsv
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
Absolutely judge chaeters.....I have no respect for anyone that has that much disrespect for their spouse.
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cazhley
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
I don't have respect for cheaters. I have respect for people who respect their spouses.
I think the organization is being hurt, since people within the organization have lost respect for both of them. And work situations involving them seem to be compromised.
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| Posted 7/9/07 11:46 AM |
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lucyloo
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
Maybe her husband is cheating too and they are just "open"
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| Posted 7/9/07 11:57 AM |
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nov04libride
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
Posted by dita
Maybe her husband is cheating too and they are just "open"
It's true, that is a possibility, but apparently he is old and sick. 
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| Posted 7/9/07 11:58 AM |
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lululu
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
Posted by nov04libride
Posted by dita
Maybe her husband is cheating too and they are just "open"
It's true, that is a possibility, but apparently he is old and sick.
Maybe they have some type of arrangement because of his illness.
Personally, what people do on their own time is none of my business and I wouldnt be inclined to judge. However if they are groping eachother in the office, that would make me uncomfortable and I think I would report it to HR. No one should be subjected to that in the workplace.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:02 PM |
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J9-13
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
I think it is so wrong to publicly display the affair. She is making a fool out of her DH. There is no excuse for cheating, but I do believe that people make mistakes from time to time....in this case....she knows what she is doing and is parading it around for all to see. I would have no respect for someone like that.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:05 PM |
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Kate07
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
Posted by MrsPorkChop
who knows what type of marriage her and her husband have?
Maybe they have an "open" marriage.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:14 PM |
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Kara
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
Posted by lululu
Posted by nov04libride
Posted by dita
Maybe her husband is cheating too and they are just "open"
It's true, that is a possibility, but apparently he is old and sick.
Maybe they have some type of arrangement because of his illness.
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I love my FH whether he is ill or healthy. I'd never disrespect him like this.
They may have made an arrangement, but the idea of that makes me sick. That's a slap in the face to your spouse.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:22 PM |
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roxygrl8
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
I don't judge people who are married and that are having affairs. My co-worker who is a friend at work confided to me that he was having an affair with one of his workers that works for him. However they DO NOT make it obvious I would have never known. I don't know why he told me this I guess he just needed someone to talk to about it. He loves his wife and they have some issues. But obviously he gets something from the other woman that he's not getting from his wife. I'm not saying that this is ok. But he has his reasons for doing what he did and who am I to pass judgement on him. I'll be there to listen when he needs it.
BUT what your co-workers are doing making it public known is wrong. It makes people uncomfortable. It is your employers obligation to their workers to provide a comfortable work environment. If they are not they will see their butts in court. Has anyone complained to HR about this?
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:25 PM |
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Chatham-Chick
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
No. I've learned that you never know what's going on behind closed doors.
I know a number of people who "cheat" on their spouses, but in their cases, it's an arrangement. The spouses don't want a divorce because of the kids or they like their lifestyle just the way it is.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:31 PM |
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MsG
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
I think these two are repulsive b/c of the reporting relationship they have at work - imagine the raises and performance evals she received! And how unfair to anyone thinking the appeals process is fair.
If there were no pictures or PDA I'd say, it's their business. But it must make many people personally uncomfortable, since some must know her DH. And professionally, it probably makes everyone uncomfortable.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:40 PM |
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Gertyrae
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
Yes, I think they are Pieces of Sh*t and do my best not to deal with them at all.
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| Posted 7/9/07 12:45 PM |
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
Posted by MrsF519
I think it is so wrong to publicly display the affair. She is making a fool out of her DH. There is no excuse for cheating, but I do believe that people make mistakes from time to time....in this case....she knows what she is doing and is parading it around for all to see. I would have no respect for someone like that.
I agree - I am sorry that you and your coworkers have to endure this uncomfortable situation.
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| Posted 7/9/07 2:51 PM |
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
It almost sounds like she has some sort of weird arrangement with her husband.
Yes, I would judge. It's only natural. This is something that speaks to her trustworthiness.
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| Posted 7/9/07 2:55 PM |
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pmpkn087
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Re: Do you judge those that have affairs when married?
It doesn't seem like the husband has much respect for himself either, since he lets this go on right under his nose.
I say...it's none of my business and I am nobody to judge. I believe that's the job for the man upstairs, not me.
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| Posted 7/9/07 3:24 PM |
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mtnmama
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