He is really pi$$ing me off. We have both been working like dogs for the past few months and I need a serious break so I suggested we take a vacation and whenever I ask him if he wants to go he keeps blowing me off. Then one day he said yes, and I started researching vacations and decided on St. Kitts and I just needed him to check his calendar to see when he can take off and it's been a week and he still hasn't done it. he keeps telling me he's too busy at work, but, really, how long does it take to check your calendar??? So finely I called and he was like "fine, whatever, I'm free, go ahead". Like I was booking him an appointment to get a vasectomy or something!!

It's so frustrating!! Shouldn't he be excited about it rather than making me feel like I am forcing him to do something he doesn't want to do? He loves it when he is actually on vacation but the whole process makes me not even want to go through all the effort of planning.

VENT over!