Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

If you haven't bee following this month's journey...

Usually get +OPK on CD 17. This month, was all negative until CD 23 - but saw EWCM on CD 19. BD'd CD 19, 21, and 22. Got the +OPK on CD 23, figured we'd skip that night since three in a row is way too much. Got another +OPK on CD 24 (yesterday) but for whatever reasons, couldn't BD last night either.

We also kind of tried this morning but it was 5 am and we weren't feeling it and couldn't "finish" if you know what I mean. I don't know if it's because of the pressure, or if it was just too early in the am, or if it's because we don't usually BD so much! (Typically, or not around O time, we usually BD maybe once a week!)

Does this mean my I'm out this month before I even start???

Re: Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

Hmmm...I don't know much about OPKs because I chart my temps, but although the timing wasn't perfect, I wouldn't count yourself out just yet! What did the OPK say this morning? Any surge? BD tonight if you can and then just wait for AF!

Re: Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

Nooo!!! If you BD'd a few days before sperm can live for a few days ....I know many people that conceived without even BDing on the days they ovulate....
There is even a method called the shettles method that says if you want to conceive a girl to NOT BD on the days around ovulation!!!!
So you're definitely not out of the running!!!!

Re: Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

The last time we bd'd was the night before I got a + opk, and I am now 21 weeks pregnant.

Re: Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

Posted by futuremommy

Hmmm...I don't know much about OPKs because I chart my temps, but although the timing wasn't perfect, I wouldn't count yourself out just yet! What did the OPK say this morning? Any surge? BD tonight if you can and then just wait for AF!

Re: Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

thanks for giving me some hope girls!

Re: Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

Your not out, stop worrying, that will hinder you more than anything else. You don't have to BD the exact day you get the Just means you will O in the next 12-36 hours. Have a glass of wime tonight and have a nice evening with DH and then maybe BD, if not tonight then tommoroww morning.

Good Luck!!!

Re: Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

Posted by maybeamommy

Posted by futuremommy

Hmmm...I don't know much about OPKs because I chart my temps, but although the timing wasn't perfect, I wouldn't count yourself out just yet! What did the OPK say this morning? Any surge? BD tonight if you can and then just wait for AF!

I do the OPKs in the afternoon, but I'm all out of sticks now (I used 2 boxes this month!)

I got +OPK on Wednesday at 4:45, and +OPK on Thursday at 3:45.

Re: Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

Nope, you're not out.

When I got pregnant my first time my DH was away on business for five days during the time I was ovulating. We BD'd just before he left, and that was enough to get me preggers

Re: Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

Noooo you're not out! Dh's swimmers can live up to 5 days especially is you had some EWCM. There is still hope!

Re: Does this mean I'm out before I even start the 2ww?

Posted by Dani922

Noooo you're not out! Dh's swimmers can live up to 5 days especially is you had some EWCM. There is still hope!