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Due Date and No Baby

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JenBenMen
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Due Date and No Baby

Dr said I can WAIT one more week, but wants me to go for another biophysical on Friday.

Should I just induce? I am so confused!!!

Posted 5/1/07 8:27 PM
 
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2girls4now
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Kerri

Re: Due Date and No Baby

See how you feel after Friday.

I'm in a similar situation - I really want he baby to come when ready but there are so many reasons that they might need some help. I have to make the same decision on Saturday and right now am leaning towards waiting as much as I am so over pregnancy!

Posted 5/1/07 8:45 PM
 

karacg
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

I would do the BioPhysical and see what steps to take from there...

Posted 5/1/07 10:29 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

Posted by karacg

I would do the BioPhysical and see what steps to take from there...



Kara is totally right (as usualChat Icon )

All kidding aside, try to go on your own. I was induced and it is hard on your body and I was so nervous about a c section too.

BUT on the flip side, an induction isn't the end of the world.

Posted 5/1/07 11:13 PM
 

Karebaby
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

I would try to wait. Inductions have a higher chance of c-section.

Posted 5/1/07 11:22 PM
 

Lillykat
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

I would wait and see if you go naturally - I wouldn't induce unless there is a need b.c it increases the risk of complications/c-section. If you need to induce that is one thing but your baby might just not be ready and that is okay depending on how late you are.

Posted 5/2/07 9:28 AM
 

SuzyQ
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

Posted by KateDevine

Posted by karacg

I would do the BioPhysical and see what steps to take from there...



Kara is totally right (as usualChat Icon )

All kidding aside, try to go on your own. I was induced and it is hard on your body and I was so nervous about a c section too.

BUT on the flip side, an induction isn't the end of the world.



I agree. I was induced when DD was 6 days late and had a c-section. I have a feeling I would probably have ended up with the c-section anyway and it wasn't awful (the c-section), but sometimes I wish I would have waited just a couple more days to see if she would have come on her own.

Posted 5/2/07 9:42 AM
 

JenBenMen
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Jen

Re: Due Date and No Baby

Thanks ladies. That is my dilemma--if I do it soon, i wiill never know what would have been. I think I will see the test results and make a decision--my dr said we can do it as early as friday if we dont like what we see

Posted 5/2/07 9:45 AM
 

dawnie
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

Posted by Lillykat

I would wait and see if you go naturally - I wouldn't induce unless there is a need b.c it increases the risk of complications/c-section. If you need to induce that is one thing but your baby might just not be ready and that is okay depending on how late you are.



I totally agree!

Also: your due date is just an estimate. If it is your first baby the majority of people go late.

Posted 5/2/07 9:46 AM
 

Eleanor
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

I waited and was late - had a c/s anyway b/c of the size! LOL - sometimes its a no win situation!

Posted 5/2/07 12:07 PM
 

heidla
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

I am waiting for 10 days that's it. My fluid is already on the low side and they estimate that he is already around 9 lbs. If he gets too much bigger my doctor said I'm probably going to have to have a c-section anyway. I'm weird though. The thought of a c-section doesn't really freak me out too much. I just want a happy healthy baby how he comes out I really don't care.

Posted 5/2/07 12:12 PM
 

curliegirl
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

Your baby is just lazy and comfy, kinda like his daddy!

All kidding aside, see what Friday brings, you know it's more convenient for me to see my neice or nephew on the weekend too!!!! Chat Icon

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Posted 5/2/07 12:12 PM
 

Reese1106
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

See how you're feeling Friday. Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/07 1:02 PM
 

karacg
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

Jen are you still here? Any progress? My fingers are crossed for you ... &&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&

Message edited 5/3/2007 8:22:52 AM.

Posted 5/3/07 8:22 AM
 

nferrandi
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

My due date came and went too, and everyone (the Dr. included) thought I would go early. I wound up being induced 6 days past my due date because they felt the baby was running low on fluid. By the time I was induced, I was having contractions on my own and "probably" would have gone into labor on my own within a few days. For me, the induction was what was best for the baby, so it made the decision very easy. I know what it's like to just want the baby out of there. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/3/07 9:34 AM
 

JenBenMen
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Jen

Re: Due Date and No Baby

I am still here!!! Biophysical test is tomorrow

Posted 5/3/07 9:54 AM
 

curliegirl
He's here!!!!

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Gina

Re: Due Date and No Baby

I dreamt last night that you had a BOY!!!!!!!

He was so beautiful and looked so happy!

Message edited 5/3/2007 10:46:32 AM.

Posted 5/3/07 10:46 AM
 

JenBenMen
party of five

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Jen

Re: Due Date and No Baby

Posted by curliegirl

I dreamt last night that you had a BOY!!!!!!!

He was so beautiful and looked so happy!



I hope so!!!

Posted 5/3/07 11:43 AM
 

karacg
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Re: Due Date and No Baby

Posted by JenBenMen

I am still here!!! Biophysical test is tomorrow



Me too -- but I am still a few weeks away. Hope all goes well tomorrow!!

Dilate cervix dilate!!

Posted 5/3/07 4:44 PM
 
 

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