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everybodys opinions...OMG

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PrincessP
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everybodys opinions...OMG

I dont know how I am gonna make the next 5 months. everyones got to open their mouth about how I look, where I am gaining, if its too much...Holy Cow! I feel like I should be on ww for pregnant women! Do they really expect that I wouldnt begin a belly at 4 months? Its so rude!

Posted 6/8/06 9:10 AM
 
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smith1234
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

OMG! I can't believe people are saying that! How RUDE!! WHo are these people? I would really tell them to mind their business. PG is stressful enough and you certainly don't need people making comments about your weight!!

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So sorry you are dealing with this.

Posted 6/8/06 9:12 AM
 

ana6178
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

I am almost 31 weeks and I am ready to snap.

I have learned that most people just s**k. Chat Icon

I literally just roll my eyes right infront of them.

Hang in there. Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/06 9:16 AM
 

Sweets13
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

someone at work,,grabbed my arm fat and said.."awww your finally getting chunky"
I just looked at her (older woman) and she said,,"only because you were so skinny prior to pregnancy, it is cute to see some meat on yur bones"
I HAD meat on my bones prior to pregnancy.....you MORAN!

hahaaa

Posted 6/8/06 9:31 AM
 

2kids2cats
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f

Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

I realized that people say the DUMBEST and most inappropriate things as soon as they find out you are pregnant, from your weight gain, to your eating/lack of eating habits, labor, after the baby is born, how to raise the baby, etc...part of being pregnant/a mom. Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/06 9:31 AM
 

Charly
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

Sorry you have to deal with that. It seems people nowadays have no class. Gosh I hope I never insulted a pregnant woman!!!!

A girl in my office said to me yesterday "you don't look pregnant yet, just like you put on some lbs, you know, like fat."

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Posted 6/8/06 9:34 AM
 

apb17
My guys

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Alli

Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

I was just congratulated on my "little" bump and then was told "you have been walking like a pregnant woman so I suspected something". What the he** is that? I couldn't even respond with a comeback. What an idiot!!!
Its amazing how insensitive women can be especially being preggo at one time or another themselves.Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/06 10:06 AM
 

Diane
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

Just ignore them, people dont know when to keep their MOUTHS SHUT!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/06 10:21 AM
 

michele31
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

Just literally say "I have 5lbs so far" and stick with that until month 8th then say "I have gained 9lbs so far" and that is that. I did that and people would be shocked and say "really" and I said "yes"Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/06 10:29 AM
 

wowcoulditbe
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Posted 6/8/06 11:03 AM
 

MommyofG
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

Ah ignore them, idiots!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/06 2:20 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I truly feel pregnant women become targets of negativity. People are stupid. Hang in there. I'll be un-prego real soon and available for any whoopassing needed!Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/06 2:23 PM
 

ana6178
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I truly feel pregnant women become targets of negativity. People are stupid. Hang in there. I'll be un-prego real soon and available for any whoopassing needed!Chat Icon




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Posted 6/8/06 2:32 PM
 

GenLCSW
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

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Posted 6/8/06 4:05 PM
 

betty
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

Unfortunately it's all downhill from here.....people keep giving you their opinions when you have the baby too.......of course they know what's best for YOUR childChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/06 5:42 PM
 

annie
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

It truly amazes me that normal people think it's perfectly ok to make comments about the way you look when you're pregnant. They would never ever comment about your size or weight otherwise, but once you're pregnant, it's all fair game! Why is that???!!!!

Posted 6/8/06 5:45 PM
 

WoodIAm
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JoAnne

Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

People are just so stupid sometimes.
All you can do is ignore it or laugh it off, otherwise you'll go nuts!

My picture was in the local newspaper this week and someone said, "You don't even look PG, you just look fat" Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/06 6:48 PM
 

Janice
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

Now that I am able to eat, I am so scared of the weight I am going to gain. I am always hungry!! I constantly eat fruit and cereal, hoping the fiber fills me.

Posted 6/8/06 9:33 PM
 

SoinLove
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

It boggles my mind how people think they can say whatever they want to preggo women. There are nicer ways to say things. For example...two comments from two different friends of mine.

Friend A (Nice comment): "Aw, you're starting to get a little preggo belly."

Friend B (Not so nice comment): "WHOA! You got BIG since the last time I saw you!" Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/06 9:50 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: everybodys opinions...OMG

When you get pregnant, it's like your body becomes public domain. People feel free to comment on it, touch it, stare at it....

I used to comment on the people's weight that commented on me. It nipped that right in the bud.

Posted 6/8/06 10:22 PM
 
 
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