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christy
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feeling sad

I know I am oversharing, and people I know might be reading this...but I am so sad. I know TTC right now isn't realistic for DH and I. But he just told me that he basically wants to wait another 12-14 months to try! I really was hoping to have my first at 30, with this plan I would be 31 (considering everything worked right away). Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/06 2:30 PM
 
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Redhead
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Re: feeling sad

well maybe you can come to a compromise?

and if you are looking for houses right now and are going to have to sell yours...

it is a lot of STRESS STRESS STRESS....

maybe it is better to wait a bit

Posted 2/26/06 3:38 PM
 

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Re: feeling sad

According to our orginal plan we were supposed to start trying till May 2006...

May 23rd ,2006 will be my son's first birthday.. Huge change in plans:)

Things change all the time

Posted 2/26/06 3:44 PM
 

christy
Mommy of 2

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Christy

Re: feeling sad

Posted by Redhead

well maybe you can come to a compromise?

and if you are looking for houses right now and are going to have to sell yours...

it is a lot of STRESS STRESS STRESS....

maybe it is better to wait a bit



Thanks so much! He is even wanting to take a break from the house hunting. He prefers to do it all next year! I am going to hurt him!Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/06 4:27 PM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

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Jennifer

Re: feeling sad

Posted by christy

Posted by Redhead

well maybe you can come to a compromise?

and if you are looking for houses right now and are going to have to sell yours...

it is a lot of STRESS STRESS STRESS....

maybe it is better to wait a bit



Thanks so much! He is even wanting to take a break from the house hunting. He prefers to do it all next year! I am going to hurt him!Chat Icon


well....i would just give it time...
the spring is coming and then the summer

these are really good times to start looking around at the houses and maybe even start getting your own condo ready to sell

Fresh coats of paint, little updates, etc etc!

And i bet when he sees a house he really likes he will change his mind....

that or the GREAT money you will make off the sale of your condo Chat Icon

Either way maybe you could talk more and come to a compromise...

Maybe try to get a plan in place...
Meaning i would coax him into it by saying:
It is ideal to put your condo for sale in late spring, early summer...
Plus summer is the best time to be looking for a home...
HENCE...
if you do this next year...
You would be in house maybe next late summer-fall
you will have have to do some immediate repairs and what not..
Sooooooooo
Maybe it is best to put the condo up for sale THIS late spring-early summer as well as going house hunting....
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Posted 2/26/06 4:36 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: feeling sad

either way
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Posted 2/26/06 4:38 PM
 

christy
Mommy of 2

Member since 5/05

6787 total posts

Name:
Christy

Re: feeling sad

Posted by Redhead

Posted by christy

Posted by Redhead

well maybe you can come to a compromise?

and if you are looking for houses right now and are going to have to sell yours...

it is a lot of STRESS STRESS STRESS....

maybe it is better to wait a bit



Thanks so much! He is even wanting to take a break from the house hunting. He prefers to do it all next year! I am going to hurt him!Chat Icon


well....i would just give it time...
the spring is coming and then the summer

these are really good times to start looking around at the houses and maybe even start getting your own condo ready to sell

Fresh coats of paint, little updates, etc etc!

And i bet when he sees a house he really likes he will change his mind....

that or the GREAT money you will make off the sale of your condo Chat Icon

Either way maybe you could talk more and come to a compromise...

Maybe try to get a plan in place...
Meaning i would coax him into it by saying:
It is ideal to put your condo for sale in late spring, early summer...
Plus summer is the best time to be looking for a home...
HENCE...
if you do this next year...
You would be in house maybe next late summer-fall
you will have have to do some immediate repairs and what not..
Sooooooooo
Maybe it is best to put the condo up for sale THIS late spring-early summer as well as going house hunting....
Chat Icon




Chat Icon Thank you for being so positive...I know it will all work out. DH is such a planner! But I think the house hunting/condo selling idea will be more appealing in the spring/summer...so maybe that will get the ball rolling. Thank you so much for listening! It really helps!Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/06 5:57 PM
 
 

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