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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief

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Getting discouraged....

I know there have been girls trying WAY longer than we have... but we're in month #3 and I'm really feeling like this isn't our month! I'm 7 dpo and have ZERO symptoms today.

I've been trying to stay positive but I feel like I keep going through the same cycle of hopefulness, anxiety, then heartbreak.

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Posted 12/16/07 12:40 PM
 
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MrsS518
Big Sister to be!

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Tara

Re: Getting discouraged....

what i keep telling myself is that is going to take time. stay postive and things will happen! i know im feeling the same way and we just started. your time will come and i pray its soon for youChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 12:42 PM
 

mikeswife06
Drama Momma

Member since 9/06

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Anne

Re: Getting discouraged....

Most people probably don't have symptoms 7 DPO. Don't worry!!!!! You shouldn't worry for at least a week Chat Icon

Try to relax, it'll happen!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 12:43 PM
 

DeniseMarie
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Re: Getting discouraged....

dont get discouraged. You just have to take it day by day. I hope this is your month. Chat Icon Chat Icon

also - were you on bcp?

Message edited 12/16/2007 1:24:55 PM.

Posted 12/16/07 1:24 PM
 

JenandMikey
life is good =)

Member since 5/07

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We're so blessed!

Re: Getting discouraged....

i know the feeling at 12dpo.....try your best to not get so discouraged and ill try with u....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 1:25 PM
 

maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief

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Re: Getting discouraged....

Posted by DeniseMarie

dont get discouraged. You just have to take it day by day. I hope this is your month. Chat Icon Chat Icon

also - were you on bcp?



No, I was never on bcp.

Posted 12/16/07 1:31 PM
 

runlikethewind
Love my babies!

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Re: Getting discouraged....

Don't worry....some people have no symptoms whatsoever even around AF time. It is easy to get discouraged, completely understandable.

Posted 12/16/07 2:47 PM
 

TimeForOneMore
LIF Infant

Member since 8/07

130 total posts

Name:
mommy

Re: Getting discouraged....

many people have no symptoms. my only symptoms were AF-like cramps the day AF was due. i'm almost 12 weeks and still have no symptoms.

don't give up

Posted 12/16/07 2:49 PM
 

HarleyGirlFLA
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Mel

Re: Getting discouraged....

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Dont get discouraged


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Posted 12/16/07 3:18 PM
 

Stephybaby
Love my two girls!!

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Stephy

Re: Getting discouraged....

Hang in there babe...it is WAY too early to stress....


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Posted 12/16/07 3:19 PM
 

LadyH
April Baby Girl is Here!

Member since 12/07

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Re: Getting discouraged....

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Don't get discouraged!!!

Posted 12/16/07 3:47 PM
 

mia818
LIF Adult

Member since 12/07

2197 total posts

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Mia

Re: Getting discouraged....

Don't get discouraged! It took me almost a year to conceive my son but I did! I know how you feel. It will happen!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 3:53 PM
 

Dani922
Here's to new beginnings

Member since 10/07

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Danielle

Re: Getting discouraged....

Don't get discouraged yet! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 6:41 PM
 

PattyK
Lovin my hubby!

Member since 10/07

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Re: Getting discouraged....

I know it easn't easy, but try not to get discouraged. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 7:14 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

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Leslie

Re: Getting discouraged....

I can see how a person can get easily discouraged. Hang in there. I think it is also important to remember that everyone is different and has different circumstances that bring them to their BFPs. Try not to compare yourself to others and you may be able to find more peace with your process. I had to teach myself that and it was a rough lesson, but one well learned.

Posted 12/16/07 7:17 PM
 

sweetbabydreams
My Dream come true!

Member since 12/07

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Stephanie

Re: Getting discouraged....

I know what you mean... i am going on month #4 and becommming more and more discouraged each time. I keep telling myself there are so many people who dont want kids yet that end up pregranant and us who are willing and ready to have a family have so much trouble. argh... i beginning to think it is me. Dont give up.. you still have a chance. chin up hun!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 7:17 PM
 

diva7531
My Peanut

Member since 2/07

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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!

Re: Getting discouraged....

I know how you feel, I do the same thing to myself every single month!!!!

We are going to try some new things this month and see what happens. Good Luck!!

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Posted 12/16/07 8:17 PM
 

MrsS518
Big Sister to be!

Member since 7/07

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Tara

Re: Getting discouraged....

Posted by diva7531

I know how you feel, I do the same thing to myself every single month!!!!

We are going to try some new things this month and see what happens. Good Luck!!

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wanna share your new ideas with meChat Icon Chat Icon JK!

Posted 12/16/07 9:14 PM
 

Kelly529
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/06

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Kelly

Re: Getting discouraged....

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Posted 12/17/07 1:34 AM
 

Lolitababy
LIF Adolescent

Member since 12/07

724 total posts

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Lolita

Re: Getting discouraged....

Stay positive...I know it is hard because I'm where you are right now...no real symptoms. Lets just try to have good vibesChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/17/07 9:28 AM
 

jennyb
Expecting #3 in Sept!

Member since 8/07

2174 total posts

Name:
Jen LIW: jenafee

Re: Getting discouraged....

Don't give up hope! I had no symptoms even at 10DPO when I got my BFP. I was really surprised to see that xtra line. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/17/07 10:36 AM
 
 

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