Getting so aggrivated!

Today is CD 34. AF is nowhere in sight. I have no AF symptoms. So I tested today and got BFN. At this rate I'd rather just get AF so I can go on to the next month. Now I'm just waiting. I hate not knowing when AF will come. I hate thinking that I would have been almost 20 weeks pregnant and now I'm back at square one! I'm sorry to b!tch to you all about this. I just feel like I can't even complain about it to anyone else. I don't want my family to know that I'm obsessing over it bc I feel like they don't understand. DH just keeps assurring me that I will get pg soon. Ugh, sorry Im so complainy! This BFN just p!ssed me off lol.

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I hear ya Kristen! I haven't even gotten AF yet due to all the crap that stayed inside me...but I can feel your frustration! How long are your cycles normally? Or at least how long did they used to be?

I totally get not being able to vent to family. they just get so worried. my mom told me that I should go "talk" to someone at one point. I was like seroiusly mom? It's normal to be sad for a while..lol....I can't even imagine how it's going to feel once I'm really in TTC mode again.

to you. Hey you never know. just cause the test is negative doesnt mean you are out hang in there!

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Thanks Jen. I mean, my family means well I just feel like they treat the situation with "kid gloves" especially DH and sometimes I just want them to get angry about it with me and not worry about making me feel better. Does that make sense, lol?

Anyway, my cycles were usually pretty regular - 28 days, maybe a little less. Like I said, I'd rather have something, even AF than nothing. Thanks for the , how are you feeling?

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I get that! I think Anger is extremely normal but I really believe that if someone hasn't gone through it then they don't understand.

I guess cycles get out of whack after a m/c? But I hope you find out what's up either way!

I'm doing ok...had a good doctors appt today so I'm moving on! waiting on AF to arrive myself! only 3 weeks since D&C though. i have no idea what to expect. He told me that whatever I experienced before wasn't AF...so If i bleed now then I know what it is Good to know!

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Sorry! I hope AF arrives soon. That is the worst....the waiting and not knowing. I have read that your cycles can be thrown off after going through a miscarriage.

Vent all you want. We all certainly do when we have our moments & that's what is great about this board.

I certainly understand where you are coming from about Family. I think some people just do not know how to respond to this happening unless they have been through it. I know everyone means well! But sometimes it just gets me more fustrated sharing and venting to famly. I have noticed some people just get strange when something happens like this....they either don't know how to respond, avoid the subject all together, or just give you all the positve stuff (that sounds nice) but not what we want to hear. We want to hear the ups & downs...and the reality of what you go through.

I hope AF arrives soon or u still have a chance of getting a BFP. Your cycle may just be longer this month.

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Kristin, sorry to hear this. I watch "I didn't know I was pregnant" and a lot of those women tested negative...maybe you should go to dr. for blood test. Maybe you'll be surprised. Is this the first AF after m/c?

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I feel the exact same way. Last Thursday when i got AF for the first time since the d&c, I cried ALL DAY because I would have been 14 weeks pregnant but instead I had my f*&^%
period!

It is hard at this point to vent to the family because its almost like they expect you to be over it by now. I know my family understands why Im still upset but at this point they are just getting more concerned that Im going to fall into some kind of depression because I too am obsessing over it a lot, but I think thats normal. I mean Im anxious and excited to be able to try again but I can get past the fact that Id be way out of the woods by now had the pregnancy lasted. Especially with today being my 3rd wedding anniversary, I had it in my head from the first week I was pg that today would be the day i tell EVERYONE

We are all here for support!! Hopefully your cycles are just out of whack and youll get a BFP in a few days!!

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Thank you all for listening to me! I don't know what I expected to feel or act like after the mc but just when I think I'm ok I get all crazy over it again. Thank you again

Heather, to answer your question, I got (what I thought was) AF about 2-3 weeks after my d&c, then about 26 days later I got it again. So I would be coming on my third or second cycle, depending on wether the first one was actually AF.

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You said CD 34 but do you know when you ovulated?? I ask because before my MC I ovulated on CD 14 every single month. This month I ovulated at CD 21. I'm saying this because if you ovulate at say CD 22 then that would mean your only 12DPO, which means that its still kinda early.

I hope you get your BFP, and if not this month, then I hope AF shows her ugly face

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I thought I knew when I o'd...but now I'm not so sure! Who knows..I'm jsut gonna bd as much as possible lol!

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I Luv you Kristen!
I'am a little aggrivated also. Kev & I have tried twice already and nadda! Oh, maybe we'll get pregnant around the same time so we can do pregnant girl things together ;)
We need to get together so, I miss you!

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Oh, I love to BD. hahahaha

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i know just what you mean...i feel like i just can't keep track of my body since it's being a little B*tch latley. Tomorrow I would have been 36 weeks and it's kind of a hard pill for me to swallow lately.

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Posted by jennarose023

i know just what you mean...i feel like i just can't keep track of my body since it's being a little B*tch latley. Tomorrow I would have been 36 weeks and it's kind of a hard pill for me to swallow lately.

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Posted by jennarose023

i know just what you mean...i feel like i just can't keep track of my body since it's being a little B*tch latley. Tomorrow I would have been 36 weeks and it's kind of a hard pill for me to swallow lately.