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LuvMy2Girls
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Getting worried

I am at the point in this pg 5 weeks, 5 days, where i lost the last one sadly to m/c. I am starting to get nervous again, my symptoms seeming to be decreasing. I don't feel as bloated, my boobs are still hurting, but not as much or maybe not as swollen. I am also not as tired as I was in the past couple weeks. I did a have touch of morning sickness the beginning of this week. I am starting to freak out. I don't want to face the inevitable, but I am not sure if this is in my head. SYmptoms can get worse and subside like that? I am not bleeding though.

Please just tell me i am nuts

Message edited 9/8/2005 10:03:13 AM.

Posted 9/8/05 9:51 AM
 
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Lynn
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Name:
Jennifer

Re: Getting worried

I am sure this is very hard for you, and I am sorry.

I just wanted to tell you that throughout these 12 weeks I have had many highs and lows with my symptoms. In my eighth week I had so many good days in a row that I thought the morning sickness was over - until it came back a couple of days later with a vengence!! My boobs have been so sore some days, and then not so sore other days. My doctor said this was all very normal. I would get so nervous each time, and then when the symptoms would come back I would get so upset that I didn't just enjoy feeling good when I could!

Please try not to worry and ENJOY the days of no symptoms.

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Posted 9/8/05 9:57 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: Getting worried

Awwww Michele, I'm so sorry you are stressing like this - it's totally normal, and I had my fair share of freak out sessions in the first trimester after my miscarriage, ESPECIALLY around the time that I had the first miscarriage. Just try to remember that as long as you're not bleeding, you're OK, and that it's totally normal for your symptoms to come and go... I can't tell you how many times a day I would poke my boobs to see if they were still sore (and most often, they weren't). Just wait, tomorrow you'll wake up feeling sick as a dog, and totally relieved that you feel that way Chat Icon Only a little more time until you get to see your little bean on the big screen Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/05 10:00 AM
 

pnm1654
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Re: Getting worried

I can only imagine how anxious and scared you are right nowChat Icon I'm sorry.

Please don't assume the worst. Symptoms can come and go and vary in intensity from day to day. There were days in the beginning of the PG where my boobs didn't hurt or I wasn't as tired as I had been. Then 2 days later it would all hit me again. Also, I barely had any morning sickness. I am 29/5 weeks and have had an awesome PG so far.

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Posted 9/8/05 10:01 AM
 

MrsJ
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Re: Getting worried

Michelle Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
try not to worry. It's only natural for you to be nervous right now, but it's not good for the baby to be stressing out. It's normal for PG symptoms to come and go. Mine do and you and I are the same length of time along. It's normal for symptoms to fade or get worse. Some times I swear my boobs don't hurt at all and it freaks me out so I poke them so much they start to hurt from that! LOL My friend has 2 kids and she said her symptoms came and went all the time.
It's perfectly normal to feel this way. The last few days I have had more enegry too, which is a nice change since I've been so exhausted. Our bodies are changing so much and hormones are totally out of wack...try and stay calm. I am sure everything is OK. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Kathy

Posted 9/8/05 10:20 AM
 

leighla
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Lauren

Re: Getting worried

I agree with what all the ladies above said.

Just wanted to give you some Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon !!

Posted 9/8/05 10:41 AM
 

redstar
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Michelle

Re: Getting worried

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to my dear friend Michele, Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Pregnancy symptoms are actually meaningless :) I know it's a way to feel like we know what's going on inside but in actuality it isn't. Bottom line...you are pregnant and will be for about 8 more months hun :) After that, your joy will be right in your arms :)

Posted 9/8/05 11:41 AM
 

bean
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Janine

Re: Getting worried

I agree also with everyone above. You are not bleeding and that is an excellent sign. I am praying for you and everything will be ok and before you know it you will be 5 months pregnantChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/05 12:18 PM
 

LuvMy2Girls
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Re: Getting worried

THank you all. It's so hard trying not to stress out. I will apologize in advance, there's probably more coming. DH and I want this baby so bad, and I really don't want go through the hurt and pain again. All I need to do is to get to my dr's appt next Friday, and then the weekend, and i am sure i will feel much better. Just want to see that little heartbeat.

Posted 9/8/05 2:51 PM
 

MrsJ
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Kathy

Re: Getting worried

Dont worry you will be fine!!
You and I both have appts next Friday!! Woo hoo! I hope we both get to see that little heartbeat!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/05 3:01 PM
 

MrsM
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Amy

Re: Getting worried

Michele-

I agree with everyone as well. My symptoms came and went as well in my first trimester...just relax!! you aren't bleeding, so that is a great sign!

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Posted 9/8/05 3:10 PM
 

sunny
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Stephanie

Re: Getting worried

I agree too, symptoms come and go.

You sound like me, I drive myself nuts too.
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Posted 9/8/05 5:15 PM
 

AnnBrunoXO
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MaMMa

Re: Getting worried

You are fine!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Symptoms come and go all the time - at any point in the pregnancy!

Just thank god your not suffering from extreme morning sickness or bleeding.

enjoy it!!

Posted 9/8/05 6:49 PM
 

robcoll1002
My Beautiful Babies

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Colleen

Re: Getting worried

Michelle, just wanted to send someChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon . Please try not to worry. Your little bean is going to be ok.

Posted 9/8/05 7:24 PM
 

btrflygrl
me and baby #3!

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Shana

Re: Getting worried

RELAX!!! STress is the worst thing for you. Yes, your symptoms will come and go, even this early on!

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Posted 9/8/05 7:33 PM
 

dottiemchugh
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Re: Getting worried

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I agree with what everyone has said. In the beginning sometimes I would wake up feeling horrible and then the next day wake up feeling great.. everyday is different. I can't even imagine what you went thru with the last PG, but just know that what you are going through is completely normal!

Posted 9/8/05 7:37 PM
 

Spring Baby06
My two loves

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Name:
Jillian

Re: Getting worried

Posted by Lynn

I am sure this is very hard for you, and I am sorry.

I just wanted to tell you that throughout these 12 weeks I have had many highs and lows with my symptoms. In my eighth week I had so many good days in a row that I thought the morning sickness was over - until it came back a couple of days later with a vengence!! My boobs have been so sore some days, and then not so sore other days. My doctor said this was all very normal. I would get so nervous each time, and then when the symptoms would come back I would get so upset that I didn't just enjoy feeling good when I could!

Please try not to worry and ENJOY the days of no symptoms.

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I could have written this post myself! Please try not to worry, your little peanut is here to stay! Try to relax and focus on the good. I am
approaching 10 weeks and everyday I poke my boobs just to make sure they're still sore. A few days they weren't and I freaked. Also my nauseousness went away for a couple of days here and there, again I freaked. It is normal to feel what you are feeling, so I won't tell you to stop feeling this way. You and I know that won't happenChat Icon Just try to focus on the good. Chat Icon

Message edited 9/8/2005 9:02:07 PM.

Posted 9/8/05 9:01 PM
 

Jenziba
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Jennifer

Re: Getting worried

I agree with all of the other ladies...

Symptoms came and went for me too...especially in the beginning. Although I've never miscarried...I was always afraid that I would...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Please try not to stress yourself out...you and your bean I'm sure are fine...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/05 9:38 PM
 

IrishTracy
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Re: Getting worried

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Posted 9/8/05 10:35 PM
 

Shelly
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Re: Getting worried

My symptoms come and go on a daily basis. I wouldn't worry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/9/05 9:20 AM
 

LuvMy2Girls
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Mommy

Re: Getting worried

I am so happy to hear this is normal!Chat Icon NOt that all of freaking out cause of symptoms, but that everyone has experienced waning in and out of symptoms, gives me such positive thoughts and I thank everyone from the bottom of my heart for responding. This week has been sooo hard for me. As I am sure the next 6 weeks will be. I keep tracking the little milestones, tomorrow I will be 6 weeksChat Icon, and 1 more week till my dr's appt.

Oh by the way last night and today my bb's are spilling out everywhere!!Chat Icon

I am so grateful and appreciative to have you girls to keep me from going nuts!Chat Icon I can't say enough about the support system hereChat Icon oh here's me getting mushy...

Posted 9/9/05 9:38 AM
 
 

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